AFM-
crazy start to the day...everything was going well until dh opened his mouth and said something to me that I am sure he is clueless as to the effect. What is it about dh(s) that make them so clueless about women?
Then they wander around all day wondering why you are angry
And what I really don't get is they expect you to understand their view--like a man would. Even though you are a woman. So I am settled today on the fact that he can either figure it out all on his own (he's a big boy, I shouldn't have to spell it out) or suffer my wrath.
For today anyway. Sometimes it feels good to not make yourself cool down. Sometimes I just want to steam, iykwim? And do I have to be nice about it? Nope. I don't have to make appointments, wash clothes, do dishes, cook meals, plan immunizations, take out the trash, clean the house, bathe the children, pay the bills, budget the month, fix the dang kitchen sink, take care of the dog vet, deal with paperwork, the attorney can just blasted well wait, and why should I worry wether the lawn gets mowed or the weeds cut? Or if the car is in good running order? Can I forget to check the oil or give it a tune-up this month? And when the neighbor shoots out my front living room window with his bb gun should I care? And do the kids have sunscreen on?
Am I going to set up the play pool?
Did I give the dog her wormer medicine and tick medicine?
Is she up to date on her shots?
I could just sit at home, kick up and watch a good movie and wonder why when evening hits dinner is not ready by my designated and desired time...I can relax . Right??
Oh, and to top that all off I think I am going to make an absolutely careless and thoughtless comment that will probably (if I stop to think about it) hurt somebody's feelings.
Phew.
Thanks ladies. I am feeling better now. Had to rant some
Aargh!
Men .
I just heard my youngest ask dh about sunscreen and he says "I don't know- go ask mom."