Thanks for all the well wishes ladies
Xander is back with me on the ward now. His glucose levels are back to normal & his jaundice is going down. Just waiting on infection results which are due this morning but they expect to br negative. That just leaves his platelets which are only 50% of what they should be. We're waiting for a specialist Haematologist to review his case buy they now suspect it's due to blood incapability between Xander / DH / me. Will need more tests and follow up but not in hospital so fingers crossed we might make it home today. I had a really really low day yesterday after only 3 hours sleep the night before & my milk came in, talk about hormonal mess!!! At 1 point I felt too weak & I'll to feed him & was crying uncontrolably. DH was great though as well as the nursery nurse on the ward who took Xander down to nnu for his nightly blood tests to give me a break. Feeding wise giving him just 2 bottles of formula seems to have woken up his appetite & he now feeds off the breast beautifully!! If anyone's worried about nipple confusion then it's been no prob for Xander & he's had breast & 2 types of teats. He's feeding we'll for about an hour as well with the odd 5 min snooze in between. I actually got 4 hours sleep in a row which has made me feel a little more human (although at 4am here I'm going to want some more sleep once this feeds done!!) hopefully I'll get another hour or do before the ward wakes up & we're disturbed all the time!!
Shardha/ Ashley - how are you doing in your pregnancies? Hope the first tri isn't being too mean to you, I felt exhausted & permanently nauseous.
Coy / Emma - spotlights on you 2 for now for babies!! How are you both feeling?
Emma - from my experience with breast feeding, although I've ended up wanting to do it now more than ever, given that you've got your Mum to support as well I think formula will work out great for you. That said, if you're feeling strong in relation to body issues, which you might after the huge pregnancy hormones & no doubt adrenaline it's worth trying Phoebe on the nipple during skin to skin after the birth ( if you're planning to do it) it is amazing experience. You don't need to do it again.
Coy - I see you're picking up the slack got your team again! Are they all young? I find a lot of young students / graduates nowadays are really lazy. Don't know what a days hard work really is!!
Steph - how are you & Brandon doing? He is still a big feeder?
Patrice - glad you enjoyed your party. I feel emotional for you that you & DH will soon be apart. It's such a huge & brave thing you 2 are doing. It's going to work out great for a future family with the stability and who knows, that may be sooner than you think!! We will miss you on here when you do go to boot camp.
Ashley - you said you've family history in the Uk. Where from? It's funny as that means you, Coy, Patrice & Steph have connections here, although I think with Steph it was from her living here.
Hello to all the other ladies, I've lost track a bit with you all & don't mean to offend by not replying to you all personally. Usually I'm big on ttc advice but you chatter boxes loose me on where everyone is in cycles & ttc issues!! Once I'm home & in a routine I'm sure I'll be on more. What I will say is you'll get lots of support on this thread. All lovely ladies & in the year, in fact over for some of us & the trials & tribulations we've individuality had we've grown very very close. Keep that up.
You know i love you ladies & value your support
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