Conceive81
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No he is barely on his laptop and they don't have the full report so we won't know for a few days about his motility, all they have is his count. Normal is 20 million, last time his was 18.5 and this time is was only 11!
DH was like "seriously do these fucking issues ever end? I'm so tired of this shit. How much more of this do you want to subject the 2 of us to before we stop?" I'm guessing he's butthurt that he had bad results but I'm already feeling low I don't need more negativity. And I don't like that he's putting this all on me like I'm forcing him. He wants kids too...
Oh hon, I'm so sorry. Life can get really tough sometimes...and when shit hits the fan, it seems to never end. I have a few suggestions. I think that seeing the urologist is a good idea. My hubby had prostatitis twice, not sure if it affected his sperm count, because he was already cured of it once we had a SA done. They had to do a strong round of antibiotics both times.
Also, sometimes there could be something else hindering that process, I'm assuming with his job he has to have general check ups, but has he had his thyroid check and Testosterone? I'm sure the urologist will help here too.
If it's any consolation, the longer I'm married, the more I hear from other women the same things I go through. In general (I know I'm stereotyping her) men don't deal with these things the same way...and since women are essentially the ones that carry and give birth, it's easier to look to us with their complaints sometimes. Seems like he's just being a big baby right now, I would let him ride that wave but make sure he goes to the uro...
I went through a really rough time with hubby when he had his prostatitis as it effected, er, other things. He was a royal pain in the ass and was NOT nice at all. You wouldn't believe to what extent he let his pride get in the way. I've had to put my foot down several times and because of that, he did go, he did get help and he is now fine.