Thanks Ladies, for the reassurance.
Brismommy, I think that is a beautiful thing to do, adopting your niece.
Aknqtipie, I'm with you on the silver lining, a normal period is a great sign, very positive.
Well ladies, I've been fantasizing about quitting my job every day. I know it's not a possibility right now, but I've just had it! It's one thing after another. There has been a change in leadership and there is so much toxicity in the air, it makes it uncomfortable. I'm just waiting..hopefully I can find something better at a later stage.