Losing my mind

[Coolstar]

My insurance does not cover anything do with infertility.Was you covered angel.Any idea how much all these cost
Chris: I am planning to retest next month.I am confused.My period length is pretty regular (24 to 26),12 days LP ,i get +opk and good shift.It was really unexpected.

 

[sadangel777]

My insurance covered it. i know it wont cover infertility treatments like ivf, but it covered the clomid and progesterone checks.

 

[Coolstar]

Oh that's good angel. Decided not to go for a retest but take appointment with doc tomm and start with med

 

[Chris_25]

Ok well u have nothing to lose!

 

[sadangel777]

Lots of luck cool!! Im sure the meds will work

 

[Coolstar]

My doc wants my DH to go for SA before he prescribes me med.I don't know why DH is not willing to go now I am going nuts.

 

[sadangel777]

Im surprised, if they know your progesterone is low and thats a problem, theres no reason to suspect dh has a problem too -- maybe u could call them and ask why they cant just give u the meds. sometimes drs can be funny and sometimes if u are persistent they will be more flexible.

i dont think my dh would ever agree to sa so i know how u feel. let me know what dr says if u call. dont be afraid to turn on the waterworks to get results from dr hehe

 

[s_love]

I know Im late, but Cool Im sorry you got bad news. But keep your head up because low progesterone levels are fixable! Im not sure why your doctor is subjecting your hubby to a SA, but Angel is right, turn on the water works and call. Sometimes it pays it be persistant and stand up to them. And if hubby wont go to SA, beg or bribe or do whatever you got to do to get him there. I told Angel I read how a lady told her husband that he could go buy a new xbox or something if he did the SA. Im sending you lots of luck that this all gets straightened out and you get back on track!

Sorry I disappeared again, had a mini break down haha. I think I cried more than Ive ever cried in my life... also lots of yelling at the hubby According to fertility friend I should OV on the 18th and my fertile days are before that start on the 15th. Well hubby is leaving Friday morning, the 14th... I mean we are going to try and bd but I just know its not going to do any good. Im ok with that. One more month is not going to kill me.

 

[Chris_25]

Cool & Angel: bring on the tears to DH and say this is very important and it would make you feel a lot better and not nag him constantly anymore it's what I told my hubby and he did it lol but i'm still a complainer and a nagger. Also cool call your doctor and be persistent!

Love- glad to see you back I was wondering where you went lol hope you got the tears out of your system (for now anyway) I don't think I ever cried so much either until recently. Just try to get the BD on right before he goes and just remember they say that sperm live up to 5 days so u never know and honestly maybe the less you BD the more of a chance of it happening! I am cutting back this month, because i'm sick of the process.

PS- tonight is my second opinion with a fertility specialist, will keep u girls updated.

 

[s_love]

Cool & Angel: bring on the tears to DH and say this is very important and it would make you feel a lot better and not nag him constantly anymore it's what I told my hubby and he did it lol but i'm still a complainer and a nagger. Also cool call your doctor and be persistent!

Love- glad to see you back I was wondering where you went lol hope you got the tears out of your system (for now anyway) I don't think I ever cried so much either until recently. Just try to get the BD on right before he goes and just remember they say that sperm live up to 5 days so u never know and honestly maybe the less you BD the more of a chance of it happening! I am cutting back this month, because i'm sick of the process.

PS- tonight is my second opinion with a fertility specialist, will keep u girls updated.

yeah I went MIA.. I spent a few days for me having a pity party bahhaha! Manis pedis coffee wine and pigging out... oh yes and of course crying. But it felt good to cry and get it all out. I hope less baby dancing works hahaha because its only going to be now until Thursday night for 2 weeks or so... But I guess stranger things have happened!

I hope you get some good news tonight! Keep up posted. FXed for you!

 

[Chris_25]

Cool & Angel: bring on the tears to DH and say this is very important and it would make you feel a lot better and not nag him constantly anymore it's what I told my hubby and he did it lol but i'm still a complainer and a nagger. Also cool call your doctor and be persistent!

Love- glad to see you back I was wondering where you went lol hope you got the tears out of your system (for now anyway) I don't think I ever cried so much either until recently. Just try to get the BD on right before he goes and just remember they say that sperm live up to 5 days so u never know and honestly maybe the less you BD the more of a chance of it happening! I am cutting back this month, because i'm sick of the process.

PS- tonight is my second opinion with a fertility specialist, will keep u girls updated.

yeah I went MIA.. I spent a few days for me having a pity party bahhaha! Manis pedis coffee wine and pigging out... oh yes and of course crying. But it felt good to cry and get it all out. I hope less baby dancing works hahaha because its only going to be now until Thursday night for 2 weeks or so... But I guess stranger things have happened!

I hope you get some good news tonight! Keep up posted. FXed for you!

lol good spoil yourself! I've been shopping lol and love my mani/pedi's lol and maybe i'll get a massage too. Thank you I def will!

 

[Coolstar]

Angel:My DH exactly said the same thing to me what you are saying.He is said he will go but after i start with my meds.I called the doc office but they said he is very busy so i told them that i want to talk with the doc directly.Lets hope he calls me back.
Chris:Wish you all the best.I hope you get positive result.Keep us posted.
love:I will talk with my doc, will keep you ladies updated what he says.I know ttc is killing us all but we have to keep trying.Try to BD as much as you can before he leaves.

 

[Chris_25]

Thank you! Hopefully he will call back asap wish you luck!

 

[Coolstar]

Times are so difficult for us, i am just going crazy.Never thought my results would be so bad All the time i was thinking that the prob was with my DH but it turns out the prob was with me.I feel so guilty now .

 

[sadangel777]

Chris, thanks for the advice! If it comes down to it, im gonna try it! Im hoping i dont need to get dh to do a sa, but if i ever need iui he will have to do it anyway! Prob will go with bribing like love suggested haha!

Love, im so glad u r back! You sound so much better! Glad u went and treated yourself right! Pedis and shopping are the bestest! ;-) Im glad u arent giving up, its nice to have u here!

Cool, im glad u called the dr -- hope he calls u back. if not, bug the heck out of the nurses tomorrow and dont let up until they give u an answer! If u have to, show up in person (ive done it a few times lol).

Im so glad i have u all! Im feeling emo today for some reason. my ovacue confirmed ov yesterday but i dont have crosshairs on ff so im doubting it ... aaargh. thought the timing was perfect, bd was like clockwork ... i just want a fighting chance. i know im being silly, but im afraid the clomid isnt working bcuz i dont have to cramping like i did last month.

 

[s_love]

Chris, thanks for the advice! If it comes down to it, im gonna try it! Im hoping i dont need to get dh to do a sa, but if i ever need iui he will have to do it anyway! Prob will go with bribing like love suggested haha!

Love, im so glad u r back! You sound so much better! Glad u went and treated yourself right! Pedis and shopping are the bestest! ;-) Im glad u arent giving up, its nice to have u here!

Cool, im glad u called the dr -- hope he calls u back. if not, bug the heck out of the nurses tomorrow and dont let up until they give u an answer! If u have to, show up in person (ive done it a few times lol).

Im so glad i have u all! Im feeling emo today for some reason. my ovacue confirmed ov yesterday but i dont have crosshairs on ff so im doubting it ... aaargh. thought the timing was perfect, bd was like clockwork ... i just want a fighting chance. i know im being silly, but im afraid the clomid isnt working bcuz i dont have to cramping like i did last month.

Im glad to be back lol I realized giving up is not an option!

Dont worry about the OV cramps.. I read about OV cramps crazy last month and not all women feel them. Dont stress yourself over it!

 

[Coolstar]

Thanks ladies for your advice.The doc called me up and i bugged him to start with my med and he agreed.This cycle we are taking off so with next cycle i have to start with Clomid.Thank you all for your support.
Angel i just pray that you ov and you get your bfp this cycle and we all follow you.It would be so good to get preggo and discuss about our morning sickness instead of ov and bd

 

[sadangel777]

Thanks Love, I'll try! If my temps don't stabilize, I'm going to make them do a progesterone check. For some reason, they didn't order it this time (maybe because it worked last month?). I really feel like just getting an IUI! I keep thinking about it; it would take all the guesswork out. I got pg when I was 20 and miscarried, but my doctor said that was such a long time ago that she won't just assume I can get pg again so mad at my body sometimes!

LOL Cool! The things we talk about, looking forward to talking about being nauseated haha!! I'm so glad your dr is giving you the meds — at some point, they need to relent and give us what we want because we will NOT stop bugging them if they don't!

 

[sadangel777]

P.S. I wish we could all get together and go with each other to doctor's appts — it would be like a big, angry TTC mob!!! Nobody could mess with us!!!

 

[Chris_25]

Lolol angel that's so funny and so very true!
Ok so got back a little while ago from the fertility specialist for my second opinion and I'm so confused! He was really nice and took his time and talked to us! He basically said being that I had a lot of my tests done and most were normal so far the only thing I didn't have with me was the progesterone test the other doctor had done. I could have sworn he had done it and said it was normal. Anyway he wants me to get my progesterone checked the week after I ovulate this month and also get a post coital test done. Basically as soon as I get a positive opk I hVe to BD and then go in the next morning so he can do a Swab of the sperm and CM together to make sure it's not acidic. What I am confused about is that the other doctor was Gonna start me on femara and injections. Femara is similar to clomid. This doctor told me he would start me on clomid of my progesterone want good, but if it is good and I'm ovulating then clomid and femara wouldn't do anything. So I am
Confused why one doctor told me to take it an the other tells me not to. Im glad I didn't start taking anything my body doesn't need. After the test and blood work we will move on from there and he said I could just do injections then and maybe iui. Sorry this was long I want to run away lol