Losing my mind

[Chris_25]

Chris - and fx'd with your next iui!

Thank you! Good luck to you this cycle too

 

[s_love]

So in honor of Veteran's day they pushed my husbands class back to next weekend and we get a 96! Im so excited. We are either going to Disney or Knott's Berry Farms.

I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend!!

 

[Chris_25]

That's awesome! Have a wonderful time

 

[Chris_25]

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[s_love]

You would think of all people that family wouldn't be spiteful and well just plain rude like that! I'm sorry! So besides always being competitive, do y'all get along at all?

 

[Chris_25]

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[aknqtpie]

Chris ... It sucks when family isn't considerate...

My nephews wife and I were about 2-3 weeks apart, and the weekend after I found out I was going to have to have a M/C she posted something about feeling the baby move (I personally think it was gas) .. but I lost it and had to defriend her on facebook and I won't talk to her right now.

Hopefully round 2 of your IUI will work out and you will have your baby before her!

 

[Chris_25]

Chris ... It sucks when family isn't considerate...

My nephews wife and I were about 2-3 weeks apart, and the weekend after I found out I was going to have to have a M/C she posted something about feeling the baby move (I personally think it was gas) .. but I lost it and had to defriend her on facebook and I won't talk to her right now.

Hopefully round 2 of your IUI will work out and you will have your baby before her!

Ugh that's just not right at all and people are so mean and selfish!
Thanks I sure hope so

 

[Conceive81]

I know ur right! I do try hard to get along with her and just suck everything upwe had a big fight before my wedding and she took herself out of my wedding and I put her in it to make her feel like part of the family! She's done a lot of shit that's not nice to me and I have to suck it up for the families sake ugh I'm not the only one who sees it either! My other sis in law doesn't get along with her and neither do the cousins.

Chris, I have a special sister in law as well, who says and does things to hurt me all the time. Behind my back or in front of my face, she's not selective. What's worse is, my in laws have started to resent me because I haven't had kids yet. I know how you feel

 

[s_love]

Conceive, why would they resent you for not having children yet? That's so unfair : (

Luckily I have no sister in laws- none of my 3 brother in laws are married. Although one of them has kids and is divorced- the divorced wife is still talked about like she walks on water because she gave my MIL grand kids. Neither of my sisters has tried having kids. Oldest sister is mid 30/ and her and her husband have pretty much decided not to have any and have made it clear. My other sister doesn't stay in a relationship long enough to even have the kids issue come up. So luckily it's not in our very immediate family. A ton of our cousins are pregnant or just had kids tho. It really seems its the aunts and uncles that give us the most shit

 

[Chris_25]

I know ur right! I do try hard to get along with her and just suck everything upwe had a big fight before my wedding and she took herself out of my wedding and I put her in it to make her feel like part of the family! She's done a lot of shit that's not nice to me and I have to suck it up for the families sake ugh I'm not the only one who sees it either! My other sis in law doesn't get along with her and neither do the cousins.

Chris, I have a special sister in law as well, who says and does things to hurt me all the time. Behind my back or in front of my face, she's not selective. What's worse is, my in laws have started to resent me because I haven't had kids yet. I know how you feel

The part that sucks is I just can't drop this person out of my life and will have to face her often! It sucks big time!
That's not nice at all that they can resent you for that! They need to get a reality check!

 

[Chris_25]

Conceive, why would they resent you for not having children yet? That's so unfair : (

Luckily I have no sister in laws- none of my 3 brother in laws are married. Although one of them has kids and is divorced- the divorced wife is still talked about like she walks on water because she gave my MIL grand kids. Neither of my sisters has tried having kids. Oldest sister is mid 30/ and her and her husband have pretty much decided not to have any and have made it clear. My other sister doesn't stay in a relationship long enough to even have the kids issue come up. So luckily it's not in our very immediate family. A ton of our cousins are pregnant or just had kids tho. It really seems its the aunts and uncles that give us the most shit

Your lucky u don't have any!
Ugh the worst is when the aunts and uncles and cousins etc have comments

 

[s_love]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

 

[Conceive81]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

That's interesting that she still has pictures of her. I guess we have to remember that she may have had an emotional attachment to the kid and its not the kid's fault, does she still see her? I would guess not. As far as my in laws, trust me, I know it's unfair. Every time we do something for ourselves they tell us to have a baby instead. They just don't live in the same world we love in is all. I hope you ladies had a nice weekend. Anything new on the cycle front? I tried the softcups for the first time, after bd. worth a shot, right?

 

[Conceive81]

I know ur right! I do try hard to get along with her and just suck everything upwe had a big fight before my wedding and she took herself out of my wedding and I put her in it to make her feel like part of the family! She's done a lot of shit that's not nice to me and I have to suck it up for the families sake ugh I'm not the only one who sees it either! My other sis in law doesn't get along with her and neither do the cousins.

Chris, I have a special sister in law as well, who says and does things to hurt me all the time. Behind my back or in front of my face, she's not selective. What's worse is, my in laws have started to resent me because I haven't had kids yet. I know how you feel

The part that sucks is I just can't drop this person out of my life and will have to face her often! It sucks big time!
That's not nice at all that they can resent you for that! They need to get a reality check!

I hear you on that, I really do. I guess you just have to draw good boundaries. There's no miracle fix and I have plenty of rude, inconsiderate family members, hubby and I just learned to keep things to ourselves, partially why I come here, sadly I don't trust our family members with this stuff.

 

[s_love]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

That's interesting that she still has pictures of her. I guess we have to remember that she may have had an emotional attachment to the kid and its not the kid's fault, does she still see her? I would guess not. As far as my in laws, trust me, I know it's unfair. Every time we do something for ourselves they tell us to have a baby instead. They just don't live in the same world we love in is all. I hope you ladies had a nice weekend. Anything new on the cycle front? I tried the softcups for the first time, after bd. worth a shot, right?

Nope she hasn't seen the kid in atleast 3 years and the kid never called her grandma. She can have an emotional attachment, that's fine, I've got nothing against the kid... The ex wife on the other hand... Well that's a different story. Also MIL and I have a love-hate relationship so I think she does it to get on my nerves.

I want to try the soft cups. After I get the HSG and MRI out of the way and see the specialist and get some answers, I was going to buy some.

Sorry about your in-laws, them telling you to have a baby when you do something for yourself sounds like it would get old fast

 

[Chris_25]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

Yea, that's very odd she still has the pictures up ur dh should tell her it's time to get rid of them.

 

[s_love]

Lol my DH doesn't know how to/won't stand up to his mother... In his eyes she can do no wrong. I don't even worry about it anymore. I know she wants me to have a reaction to it, so I don't : )

 

[Chris_25]

Sounds exactly like my husband lol

You should comment on the picture next time and say oh do u have any recent pictures I can see lol

 

[s_love]

Lol if I did that my husband would say I'm instigating. We just recently had a small argument because he told his mother about all my infertility problems after I asked him not to. She thinks she has all the answers and I don't want to her what I'm doing wrong, ya know? It was funny though because we had just gotten done arguing and his mom called and as soon as he said hello I screamed out in the background "and today's topic is my vagina, you ladies have fun discussing! " lol it's funny now but at the moment he was pissed.