Losing my mind

[Coolstar]

LOL love, it's so funny Many of my friends used to tell me that i am lucky that i don't have a MIL now i understand why .My DH's mom died when he was in college.But ya my extended family is a real pain specially with issues such as ttc.

 

[Conceive81]

Lol if I did that my husband would say I'm instigating. We just recently had a small argument because he told his mother about all my infertility problems after I asked him not to. She thinks she has all the answers and I don't want to her what I'm doing wrong, ya know? It was funny though because we had just gotten done arguing and his mom called and as soon as he said hello I screamed out in the background "and today's topic is my vagina, you ladies have fun discussing! " lol it's funny now but at the moment he was pissed.

Wow! You're hilarious. I totally would have done something similar...

 

[Conceive81]

LOL love, it's so funny Many of my friends used to tell me that i am lucky that i don't have a MIL now i understand why .My DH's mom died when he was in college.But ya my extended family is a real pain specially with issues such as ttc.

You're lucky. My MIL would have kept her son in a bubble if she could. I'm the one that took him away, and I can never do anything good enough for her or my FIL. Also, we are very different in terms of values and even culture. They are in a different world and frown upon us ALL the time. They even go so far as commenting on my dog and how I should have had a baby instead of a dog. You name it, I heard it. I'm a tough girl, especially with the field I work in, but some days I just want to break down and cry.

 

[Conceive81]

Lol if I did that my husband would say I'm instigating. We just recently had a small argument because he told his mother about all my infertility problems after I asked him not to. She thinks she has all the answers and I don't want to her what I'm doing wrong, ya know? It was funny though because we had just gotten done arguing and his mom called and as soon as he said hello I screamed out in the background "and today's topic is my vagina, you ladies have fun discussing! " lol it's funny now but at the moment he was pissed.

Doesn't that drive you crazy? I find my hubby does that too. They can say so many things but I can't do anything. I feel like I'm going back in time in woman's rights when I'm around my in laws. I can't be myself around them because they take offense to anything I say.... Thankfully though, I do have to say hubby doesn't talk to his mum about me. That would probably take the cake with the other crap I take from them. I swear, the stress they have caused me is probably a big reason why I couldn't get preggers in the past year.

 

[Conceive81]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

That's interesting that she still has pictures of her. I guess we have to remember that she may have had an emotional attachment to the kid and its not the kid's fault, does she still see her? I would guess not. As far as my in laws, trust me, I know it's unfair. Every time we do something for ourselves they tell us to have a baby instead. They just don't live in the same world we love in is all. I hope you ladies had a nice weekend. Anything new on the cycle front? I tried the softcups for the first time, after bd. worth a shot, right?

Nope she hasn't seen the kid in atleast 3 years and the kid never called her grandma. She can have an emotional attachment, that's fine, I've got nothing against the kid... The ex wife on the other hand... Well that's a different story. Also MIL and I have a love-hate relationship so I think she does it to get on my nerves.

I want to try the soft cups. After I get the HSG and MRI out of the way and see the specialist and get some answers, I was going to buy some.

Sorry about your in-laws, them telling you to have a baby when you do something for yourself sounds like it would get old fast

Yes, soft cups apparently rule! I'm not getting my hopes up though, I'm much more relaxes these days knowing I'm going for IUI in January. I'm just letting go..trying what I can but letting go.

In all seriousness, your MIL sounds like she also has a stuffed cat somewhere. This woman needs to let go of things lol...I guess we all have wacky families...lol

 

[Chris_25]

Lol if I did that my husband would say I'm instigating. We just recently had a small argument because he told his mother about all my infertility problems after I asked him not to. She thinks she has all the answers and I don't want to her what I'm doing wrong, ya know? It was funny though because we had just gotten done arguing and his mom called and as soon as he said hello I screamed out in the background "and today's topic is my vagina, you ladies have fun discussing! " lol it's funny now but at the moment he was pissed.

Lmao that's so funny

 

[Chris_25]

Yeah my aunts uncles and cousins are all very opinionated on the subject, but I guess it's because I'm odd man out.

My husband was married once before and his ex wife had a daughter from a previous relationship. My MIL considered that little girl her granddaughter... Still has pics of my hubby's ex and the kid up at her house.. Like ouch, right? She might not say anything verbally to me butttttt the pictures say enough- atleast in my opinion.

That's interesting that she still has pictures of her. I guess we have to remember that she may have had an emotional attachment to the kid and its not the kid's fault, does she still see her? I would guess not. As far as my in laws, trust me, I know it's unfair. Every time we do something for ourselves they tell us to have a baby instead. They just don't live in the same world we love in is all. I hope you ladies had a nice weekend. Anything new on the cycle front? I tried the softcups for the first time, after bd. worth a shot, right?

Nope she hasn't seen the kid in atleast 3 years and the kid never called her grandma. She can have an emotional attachment, that's fine, I've got nothing against the kid... The ex wife on the other hand... Well that's a different story. Also MIL and I have a love-hate relationship so I think she does it to get on my nerves.

I want to try the soft cups. After I get the HSG and MRI out of the way and see the specialist and get some answers, I was going to buy some.

Sorry about your in-laws, them telling you to have a baby when you do something for yourself sounds like it would get old fast

Yes, soft cups apparently rule! I'm not getting my hopes up though, I'm much more relaxes these days knowing I'm going for IUI in January. I'm just letting go..trying what I can but letting go.

In all seriousness, your MIL sounds like she also has a stuffed cat somewhere. This woman needs to let go of things lol...I guess we all have wacky families...lol

A stuffed cat! Hahhaa that's hysterical

 

[aknqtpie]

s_love .. that is hilarious. My MIL passed away a few years ago. I was lucky that she was never that bad. She had to move in with us when she got really sick and put on hospice. That was a test in patience, but glad that she could be here to spend her last bit of time with my DH.

 

[Chris_25]

Sadangel, not sure where you have been, but I had a dream last night that you got your BFP!

 

[sadangel777]

Hi guys, sorry I've been away. Aww, Chris, thanks! I hope it was a premonition.

Busy busy week. ... looking forward to Monday for our jacuzzi getaway! I *should* be OVing or very close to it! Trying to hold out until then.

Love, I have MIL issues, too, it's the worst.

 

[Chris_25]

Yay jacuzzi time but I heard dh shouldn't go in the jacuzzi it's not good for the lil guys. So maybe BD before that lol

 

[s_love]

I read both ways... It's not good because it gets them too hot and can mess them up but then I read that that is only if he frequently does it? I'll have to google that.

So I don't know if any of you ladies play video games but my hunky and I got COD:Black Ops 2 at midnight and have been playing all day having a blast! Lol and I got invited to be a bridesmaid in another friends wedding, in Canada. I'm excited, I've never been to Canada before : )

So you know what I found out angers me more than when a girl friend of mine posts BFP on fb? When their husbands/boyfriends do it! Happened last night, this is his 4th kid and her 1st. His caption was "baby making factory... Guess who gets another one!" *insert eye roll*

And tomorrow I go for my MRI and hopefully finally get to find out if I have a cyst/tumor or not and we can get something going to fix it!

Also, you ladies had me cracking up with the MIL comments! Stuffed cat! I loved it!

 

[Chris_25]

I read both ways... It's not good because it gets them too hot and can mess them up but then I read that that is only if he frequently does it? I'll have to google that.

So I don't know if any of you ladies play video games but my hunky and I got COD:Black Ops 2 at midnight and have been playing all day having a blast! Lol and I got invited to be a bridesmaid in another friends wedding, in Canada. I'm excited, I've never been to Canada before : )

So you know what I found out angers me more than when a girl friend of mine posts BFP on fb? When their husbands/boyfriends do it! Happened last night, this is his 4th kid and her 1st. His caption was "baby making factory... Guess who gets another one!" *insert eye roll*

And tomorrow I go for my MRI and hopefully finally get to find out if I have a cyst/tumor or not and we can get something going to fix it!

Also, you ladies had me cracking up with the MIL comments! Stuffed cat! I loved it!

Oh how annoying! He needs to go scratch I'm so sick of these people.
That's so nice u will be a bridesmaid I've never been to Canada either, but been wanting to go. Good luck with your MRI u are on the right track keep us posted.

 

[Conceive81]

Love, my fingers are crossed for you. It's such a relief to get answers, and I'm hoping you get them soon!

I'm still laughing at the whole MIL rampage. Trying to get preggo can get really lonely sometimes, you gals really cheer me up. Update for me, I'm about 6 days away from AF and eating everything in sight, so everything is normal here. Looking forward to the IUI in January and that has been a bit of a relief, knowing I have that back up, I guess. We dtd at all the important times, hubby was kind enough to pick up soft cups on the way home. I tried both ways, bd then soft cup and direct deposit in soft cup, lol. We shall see! It wasn't as bad as some of the girls say getting it out, you just have to push. TMI? Just trying to help in case anyone is thinking of doing it.

 

[sadangel777]

Thanks, Chris -- I'll try!

Should I not go into the jacuzzi; I'm worried it will kill them off once they are inside ... hmm! Now I don't know what to do; if I don't get in the jacuzzi he will know something's up!

Lots of luck tomorrow, Love; I hope you get good results!

Conceive, sounds like you have all the bases covered! Not to mention the IUI. ... here's hoping you get a BFP soon!

 

[aknqtpie]

love - I just got home with COD for my DH... he is excited. I have played the older ones with my DH ... we love playing on Xbox live. We have been known to set up two tv's and two xboxes in the living room..

Hopefully your MRI helps locate what is troubling you and you can get it taken care of ASAP!

Conceive - Fx'd!!!

Sadangel - I don't think one night in the jacuzzi will do much. But I don't know... Hopefully it will help you both get in the mood.. Bow chica Bow Wow

 

[s_love]

Thanks, Chris -- I'll try!

Should I not go into the jacuzzi; I'm worried it will kill them off once they are inside ... hmm! Now I don't know what to do; if I don't get in the jacuzzi he will know something's up!

Lots of luck tomorrow, Love; I hope you get good results!

Conceive, sounds like you have all the bases covered! Not to mention the IUI. ... here's hoping you get a BFP soon!

So I was reading different things and it says that frequent/regular use of hot tubs can cause issues... Feel free to have a night of fun! It will be good for y'all!

 

[Chris_25]

Thanks, Chris -- I'll try!

Should I not go into the jacuzzi; I'm worried it will kill them off once they are inside ... hmm! Now I don't know what to do; if I don't get in the jacuzzi he will know something's up!

Lots of luck tomorrow, Love; I hope you get good results!

Conceive, sounds like you have all the bases covered! Not to mention the IUI. ... here's hoping you get a BFP soon!

I don't think 1 night will do anything and maybe we are over analyzing just like I do with everything lol go enjoy yourselves and relax

 

[Chris_25]

Love, my fingers are crossed for you. It's such a relief to get answers, and I'm hoping you get them soon!

I'm still laughing at the whole MIL rampage. Trying to get preggo can get really lonely sometimes, you gals really cheer me up. Update for me, I'm about 6 days away from AF and eating everything in sight, so everything is normal here. Looking forward to the IUI in January and that has been a bit of a relief, knowing I have that back up, I guess. We dtd at all the important times, hubby was kind enough to pick up soft cups on the way home. I tried both ways, bd then soft cup and direct deposit in soft cup, lol. We shall see! It wasn't as bad as some of the girls say getting it out, you just have to push. TMI? Just trying to help in case anyone is thinking of doing it.

It sure can be very lonely!
As for the soft cups I hope they do you good. I would never be able to attempt it because it would def get stuck up there and my ass would def be in the ER that's just my luck lol hopefully u won't have to wait till January and will get your BFP before even doing the iui. It does give u some sort of relief knowijg there's always a plan. I'm scared because I'm on my second iui

 

[Coolstar]

Angel: Even i think 1 night of jacuzzi wont do any harm.What i have read is you should not do it regularly.
love: I hope your results comes out good.Keep us posted.
Conceive81: Even i was thinking about soft cups but then read some posts how diff it was to take it out.So i dropped the idea.
Chris: So when is your date for IUI?
About me i am planning to call my doc's office tomm and ask whether they have received my reports yet.My temps dropped today so i guess AF will show her ugly face either today or tomm.