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hi, just wanted to say sorry for your loss ectopic pregnancy is a horrible thing iv been through one myself my experience in the link below, im hear if you want someone to talk to
https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-journals/163630-my-1st-pregnancy-journal-wooo-hooo.html
xx
thank you so much! i just ready your experience and i'm sorry for your losses, but so happy that you are well on your way to seeing your little girl! you have given me such hope that i will one day be in your shoes! i was told the same statistics about the chances of becoming pregnant and the chances of it being another ectopic pregnancy. i am so scared of being pregnant again to go through the loss all over....i have to wait at least 2 full cycles before trying to conceive again because i was given the methotrexate. so, i guess i have time to try to deal with the fear, as we won't be trying until late feb / early march. thank you for taking the time to reply and share your story...it really has given me hope!
im glad to have given you some hope i remember feeling gutted at the hospital statistics but i was also told later on so long as you still have both ovaries then your chances of concieving are the same as before, say for example your left ovary releases an egg...it isnt released directly into that left fallopian tube the ovaries just release the egg and then the fallopian tubes kinda draw the egg down into it....so your left ovary could release an egg and then it could well go down your right fallopian tube and vice versa!! i found this really amazing as i always assumed that the left egg went down the left tube kinda thing which would matter if you only have 1 tube but so long as your ovaries are still turning out a little egg your chances of conieving are as before I have no doubts you will go on to have a healthy pregnancy theres no reason not to! Ectopics are just one of those things but dont be scared you will be well taken care of with early scans etc the next time you concieve a little bean
all the best
xxxx