Love,Patience,& Support-Staying tgther until all preggo! 14BFPs! 2 Twins 4 angels

[katrus78]

Sal, I am sorry it didn't go as planned. I was trying to avoid an April conception as this was the month I conceived that resulted in threatened m/c, than I also conceived my son in April, so his birthday is Jan 02, which is really bad in terms of celebration with classmates, cold weather, etc. Plus I kinda wanted to prov to myself that my body was cable to conceive in other months, too. Well, apparently not. April conception it was again!
Don't get settled on a specific month in this business, it's just too stressful. Maybe something will change and you will still be able to try in January.
We'll be here cheering you on!

 

[trying412011]

Kat they are soooooooo beautiful congratulations, hope u recover fast
Sal sorry for the bfn dw it will happen how many dpo are U might still b to early remember every pregnancy is different so might now show up till bit later.
Who is next to have their baby yay so exciting
How is everyone else doing

 

[katrus78]

I think Laura is next in line

 

[sallyhansen76]

Thanks ladies. I was 11 dpo when i tested. And last time i got it at 8dpo so im feeling prety much out but i know im not out until the witch shows up. Thank you all for your love and everything. u girls are awesome!

Kat omg i love the pics!!!! soo adorable and love the names

 

[LouiseSix]

Lovely pics Kat. The babies look so like you and your son x

Sorry to hear about the bfn Sal.

Oooh 1cm things are starting to happen...!

 

[sallyhansen76]

Ohh i misse that!! laura 1cm!! thats great!!

 

[katrus78]

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Sorry, I just have to share

 

[sallyhansen76]

i saw these on fb SOOO adorable i could eat them up...but i wont...because im nice...and they are really far so your safe.

Ladies who are having their second/third babies....do u remember what dpo u got your first bfp and the second. For example first bfp was 8 dpo this one i was 11 dpo and nothig...im just curious if i should hold on or settle in the idea that af is coming. Im bloated and crampy but im guessing it could go either way...uhhh i hate the waiting game.

 

[MrsKA]

I got mine at 11DPO and the other three times I waited passed the 14dpo so I couldn't tell you BUT I do know that it all comes down to when egg implants which does vary with each pregnancy. I wouldn't say that you are out just because you got a BFN at 11DPO at all ! you are not out until the witch shows ! Have you got anymore tests ? try again with FMU

 

[MrsKA]

Nawww Kat SOOO cute ! and Laura I am jealous !!!! I want things to start happening soon ! I know its too early but man im over it !

 

[Laura617]

Kat - I want to squeeze them, they are so cute, love the pics!

Sal - with Sam I got my bfp super early, like somewhere between 7-9dpo. Don't recall exactly but knew I wasn't even close to due for af.
This time it was really late, my chart was crazy but the earliest it could have been was at least 13dpo.

1cm doesn't seem a lot to me but any progress is good lol my doctor said it could be anytime or still a ways off but if it started now he was fine with baby coming. I have had a bunch of bh still but not a lot else going on except a terrible headache ever since he checked me.

 

[katrus78]

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What is happening to my feet? They got so swollen after birth, now they are even getting numb sometimes

 

[Laura617]

Omg Kat that looks so uncomfortable. Did you mention it to your doctor? Get those feet up as much as possible and drink plenty of water.

 

[katrus78]

I asked, they said it's he leftover water from my body has redistributed itself into my feet. Ouch! The said the same thing - to keep feet up. But in order to pass gas and prevent long term constipation I need to be walking around as much as possible. So two opposite things. I haven't had a bowel movement for 6 days now, damn it. I wonder where is all the food hiding in my body and how painful it might be to go do the #2 for the first time.

 

[Laura617]

I had the constipation issue after Sam and was terrified. Request a stool softener and drink lots of prune juice.

 

[katrus78]

They are giving the stool softener to me twice a day... Maybe not enough...

 

[sallyhansen76]

Oh my Kat. those look painful. but my friend who just gave birth in oct had the same problem with her feet. And they said due to the c section that the body took longer to recognize that it doesnt need to be retaining the water so much anymore. But it does get better.

AFM tested again this morning...BFN. im moody crampy, sore boobs and tired. Af is def coming. grrrrr
I am feeling gutted today. probably the af hormones but still. I HATE this, i started to ttc in MAY 2010!! I ve been waiting for a miracle baby since then and im tired. Im tired of watching everyone move on with their babies ..and i love you all but most of you are having ur babies soon. Already this thread is moving less quickly because everyone seems so far along. And i feel left out of all these joys that all of you are having.soon you will all have your babies and i ll be here all alone (trying i know you situation and im sure you feel the same) can someone just make me and oh fertile already?? and im not blasting anyone...its just i ve watches the stork come and bless everyone on bnb and those in my life.......and he keeps forgetting me can someone give him my address maybe he lost it??

 

[katrus78]

Little update. Feet even more swollen, now I can't bend my toes up without feeling like feet are going to pop open. And now I have noticed the dents in my feet from the slippers! Or if I put on foot on top of the other, and leave it there for a few minutes, it leaves a big dent in my foot. Wow.

I have managed to have bowel movements, twice today, thanks to the milk of magnesia!!!! I feel so much better now

Also, finally a lactation specialist came by and showed me that I do have colostrum in both my breasts!!! It did give me the encouragement to keep trying to breastfeed, and I think I made some progress!!

Sal, I really hope it will happen for you guys soon. You just need to start trying full force! I can't wait til February. I need to see you getting pg and giving birth before I leave bnb. Also, don't ever give up. I've been friends with this one girl who did IVF with me the same day, but failed, and I have watched her struggle a lot! So, yesterday, I found out she just barely gotten pg with twins too. She is only 7 weeks, but I feel this is such a huge success and it must give hope to other women who are truffling to conceive. It will happen for you, Sal. And I know how much you will love and cherish that child of yours.

 

[Laura617]

Sal - sorry you are feeling like this. I feel like we are sometimes really insensitive to you and I'm sorry for that, I can't imagine this is easy but I know that we will all be here for your journey too and hope so much that when you start trying full force that you catch right away.

Kat - glad you finally went to the bathroom and are feeling better in that area. Sorry about your feet though, sounds so uncomfortable!

Afm trying not to read too much into things as my doctor warned me I could have an increase in discharge and even a little bleeding after exam but here I am over thinking it anyway lol. After my appointment Monday I didn't have anything then yesterday I was having a mucus discharge every time I wiped. Also had back ache and felt uncomfy in my abdomen last night. Felt completely better this morning though. Then this after noon some more mucus and now a little bleeding.

 

[katrus78]

Aaww, Laura, it sounds like another tww lol an the signs are so similar too! I also had increased discharge for about two weeks before everything happened. But I only saw the blood in my mucus a day before and during the night before. So I think it's a good sign.