So as the title says, i've just been told by the doctor I have low progesterone (less than 1) being referred to womans health clinic to find out why. My husband and I are 38 and 42, we already have 2 sons 5 and 3. We have been ttc number 3 for 10months. Husband is refusing to get his sperm tested (embarrassed) so Doc will not refer us to fertility clinic, only womans health (based in the UK btw) I honestly feel like im grieving, im gutted. grieving the 3rd child i might not have, grieving my youth, I feel so incomplete. I know im lucky to already have 2 wonderful children, i know i am and they make my life worth living but i had always seen 1 more in our family.... That empty spare room i'd eyed for our next child when we bought our house. Sorry this is more of a vent but i have no one to talk to about this, i spoke to my mum and she just says its ok you already have 2 children. she doesnt understand. Husband just says if its meant to be it will happen all we can do is keep trying.