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LOL I think we're all on the same page, Nat. We are on your side that he's being a penis-head!!!!
I hope you can resolve it. I really do.
It's difficult. He has to come to his own decision to do it & I'm not sure other than talking to him about it & making sense of it all to him & telling him you'll help him so he doesn't feel too weird.
Does he even have a real reason? I mean really, it's not a big deal.
I hope you can resolve it. I really do.
It's difficult. He has to come to his own decision to do it & I'm not sure other than talking to him about it & making sense of it all to him & telling him you'll help him so he doesn't feel too weird.
Does he even have a real reason? I mean really, it's not a big deal.
Ladies 
You are all amaizing...thankyou sooo much for your support and advise.
Thankfully we have come to a agreeance now....so tmr morning IT IS ONNNNN,
ninja jet pack...that is AWSOME...lol....I have to get me one of these....I plan to hid the pot (out of view) and help him along...then like you say Erin- whip it out like a worrior ...lol
Think I may get up very quietly tmr like 5am...have half hour to myself...grab a shower and put my besties on(ole faithfull nickers lol) and jump back into bed and supprise him...I figure if he is half asleep that should help lol
Jeees he got ME nervous now lol
Anyways...again....like I said THANKYOU. Soooo mch. Natalie xxx
You are all amaizing...thankyou sooo much for your support and advise.
Thankfully we have come to a agreeance now....so tmr morning IT IS ONNNNN,
ninja jet pack...that is AWSOME...lol....I have to get me one of these....I plan to hid the pot (out of view) and help him along...then like you say Erin- whip it out like a worrior ...lolThink I may get up very quietly tmr like 5am...have half hour to myself...grab a shower and put my besties on(ole faithfull nickers lol) and jump back into bed and supprise him...I figure if he is half asleep that should help
lolJeees he got ME nervous now lol
Anyways...again....like I said THANKYOU. Soooo mch.
Natalie xxxHi ladies
So Nat did you pin him down and wip it out like a ninja warrior?! Joking aside i really hope he did it for you Also i hope you are feeling better after the arguement its never nice - esp as ttc is at the centre of it....such a difficult time with emotions.
Well I had a huge shock yesterday having explained to you all about my mother she was avoiding my calls so i eventually pinned her down last night and OMG i was not prepared for what followed.....she basically started shouting at me saying i had really upset her and that i was cruel, heartless etc i was like whoooooooeeeerrrr i thought we'd had a civilised conversation on saturday and talked about how we felt....left on good terms with a plan for going forward??? well apparently that wasn't the case and she went on about how i spoke to her in a derogatory way just like my father used to and she was not going to accept it - now ladies i really don't spk nasty to her and as i said to her please feel free to tell me off but leave the negative comments about my dad out of it! she went beswerk saying that she is still really upset and dosen't like that i remind her of my father - my response 'with all due respect mum - thats not my problem' cue phone hung up on me!!!!!!!!!!!!
So i got a phone call this morning saying she needed a 'break' how dare she!! so i said thats your decision i still love you the same as i always have done and don't want that but its your decision...she moaned at me again saying how upset she was, how unreasonable i was, how awful i was to bring up (how dare she i was a good child by comparrison to many) so i again let her talk and appologised for upsetting her. As SOON as i said right now i just have to say i'm extreemly upset by how you have treated me last night and this morning....guess what she said this clearly isn't going to work we need a break - say what!! so i didn't say but felt ...I listened to you for 20mins and you don't care how I feel???? anyway she then wanted to be friends as if nothing had happened.....I'm so unbelieveably hurt ladies she is so selfish and loves to play the victim wow is me but really all this shit happened 15-18 yrs ago and is in the past she just needs to sort her faking head out and leave me alone - i will not compromise my relationship with my father so she will have to bloody well get on with it! So not sure where this goes next.....she normly calls 4x per day (drives me batty) at the minute i just don't want to speak to her but also don't want any more agro.....ugh its so unfair i wish she would just see she is being a crazy woman and understand she has upset me and is being unreasonable but this will never happen. I guess the best i can do is forgive her but never forget!
so sorry ladies i had to get that out! After sticking up for our relationship too. How wrong could i be?!
Still neg opk today thankfully as we didnt bd yesterday or day before so today it is!! last thing i feel like but on a good note DH darn't say no for fear of upsetting me futher hahahahahaha
How is everyone else....quiet here today!
Barbs any new symptoms? have u started testing the trigger out?
Erin how are you feeling? any clomid side effects?
Shanta how are you holding up?
hope you all have a good day!!!I'm ment to be working but my head is screwed!!! ARGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
So Nat did you pin him down and wip it out like a ninja warrior?! Joking aside i really hope he did it for you
Also i hope you are feeling better after the arguement its never nice - esp as ttc is at the centre of it....such a difficult time with emotions.Well I had a huge shock yesterday having explained to you all about my mother she was avoiding my calls so i eventually pinned her down last night and OMG i was not prepared for what followed.....she basically started shouting at me saying i had really upset her and that i was cruel, heartless etc i was like whoooooooeeeerrrr i thought we'd had a civilised conversation on saturday and talked about how we felt....left on good terms with a plan for going forward??? well apparently that wasn't the case and she went on about how i spoke to her in a derogatory way just like my father used to and she was not going to accept it - now ladies i really don't spk nasty to her and as i said to her please feel free to tell me off but leave the negative comments about my dad out of it! she went beswerk saying that she is still really upset and dosen't like that i remind her of my father - my response 'with all due respect mum - thats not my problem' cue phone hung up on me!!!!!!!!!!!!
So i got a phone call this morning saying she needed a 'break' how dare she!! so i said thats your decision i still love you the same as i always have done and don't want that but its your decision...she moaned at me again saying how upset she was, how unreasonable i was, how awful i was to bring up (how dare she i was a good child by comparrison to many) so i again let her talk and appologised for upsetting her. As SOON as i said right now i just have to say i'm extreemly upset by how you have treated me last night and this morning....guess what she said this clearly isn't going to work we need a break - say what!! so i didn't say but felt ...I listened to you for 20mins and you don't care how I feel???? anyway she then wanted to be friends as if nothing had happened.....I'm so unbelieveably hurt ladies she is so selfish and loves to play the victim wow is me but really all this shit happened 15-18 yrs ago and is in the past she just needs to sort her faking head out and leave me alone - i will not compromise my relationship with my father so she will have to bloody well get on with it! So not sure where this goes next.....she normly calls 4x per day (drives me batty) at the minute i just don't want to speak to her but also don't want any more agro.....ugh its so unfair i wish she would just see she is being a crazy woman and understand she has upset me and is being unreasonable but this will never happen. I guess the best i can do is forgive her but never forget!
so sorry ladies i had to get that out! After sticking up for our relationship too. How wrong could i be?!
Still neg opk today thankfully as we didnt bd yesterday or day before so today it is!! last thing i feel like but on a good note DH darn't say no for fear of upsetting me futher hahahahahaha
How is everyone else....quiet here today!
Barbs any new symptoms? have u started testing the trigger out?
Erin how are you feeling? any clomid side effects?
Shanta how are you holding up?
hope you all have a good day!!!I'm ment to be working but my head is screwed!!! ARGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Oh Becky I'm so sorry. I hope with some time she can see how she's been foolish and things can be mended. But you're right, forgive but never forget. That's the healthiest way to go forward at this point.
And really how dare you have any similarities with the man who supplied half your DNA????
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for you.
I'm feeling fine. Since that epic ovulation, lol. Cramps have faded to practically nothing. SUPER sensitive nipples. Got my cross hairs. Now I have to wait another week before Nat will let me test.
(I would wait til 10 dpo anyway.)
And really how dare you have any similarities with the man who supplied half your DNA????
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for you.I'm feeling fine. Since that epic ovulation, lol. Cramps have faded to practically nothing. SUPER sensitive nipples. Got my cross hairs. Now I have to wait another week before Nat will let me test.
(I would wait til 10 dpo anyway.)
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Becky I'm so sorry I too went to hunt down my Mom Fri as I haven't seen her since Xmas!!! She's dealing w the stuff my Sis has made so I guess that's her way!! I truly hope things work out between U too!!
On day 2 of Femara suppose to go to the dentist but Im waiting to know if it's Ok to go while taking the meds
I too went to hunt down my Mom Fri as I haven't seen her since Xmas!!! She's dealing w the stuff my Sis has made so I guess that's her way!! I truly hope things work out between U too!! On day 2 of Femara suppose to go to the dentist but Im waiting to know if it's Ok to go while taking the meds
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Natalie, did you take DH to the spermologist? LOL
It's not really that but I dont what else to call it LOL
I hope he cooperated!
Becky, I"m really sorry about your mom. That's really unfair of her.
I hope you guys patch things up soon. Maybe a bit of a break is not a bad idea. Get a breather & you'll reconnect. Families can be difficult. I know it all too well myself!
Erin, did you guys agree to 9 or 10dpo before testing???
AFM, I am 4 days post transfer. That equates to 7dpo.
I don't believe I have any symptoms to speak of.
Yesterday, I got a waive of nausea in the car on the ride home that was the sort of nausea I got when I was pregnant. It's not like normal nausea. So, that was weird. But it's too early to get any sort of pregnancy symptoms. So I chalk it up to nothing. And I did get some cramping on/off & some spiky sensations in my uterus 'area'. Hopefully that means I've implanted?! I pump myself with Progesterone & Estrogen daily so normal pregnancy things, I sorta already have. My boobs are fuller & heavy because of the drugs. So, I don't think I can symptom spot!
Normally I've seen a bfp at 11dpo. So I guess maybe in four days I'll have an answer?!
My trigger is almost out of my system. The 20miu is showing near nothing & the 10miu is still a faint line. Couple more days & it will be gone!
I must say I am really anxiously wishing away the days so I can find out if this IVF worked. And I'm so nervous!
LOLIt's not really that but I dont what else to call it LOL
I hope he cooperated!
Becky, I"m really sorry about your mom. That's really unfair of her.
I hope you guys patch things up soon. Maybe a bit of a break is not a bad idea. Get a breather & you'll reconnect. Families can be difficult. I know it all too well myself!
Erin, did you guys agree to 9 or 10dpo before testing???
AFM, I am 4 days post transfer. That equates to 7dpo.
I don't believe I have any symptoms to speak of.
Yesterday, I got a waive of nausea in the car on the ride home that was the sort of nausea I got when I was pregnant. It's not like normal nausea. So, that was weird. But it's too early to get any sort of pregnancy symptoms. So I chalk it up to nothing. And I did get some cramping on/off & some spiky sensations in my uterus 'area'. Hopefully that means I've implanted?!
I pump myself with Progesterone & Estrogen daily so normal pregnancy things, I sorta already have. My boobs are fuller & heavy because of the drugs. So, I don't think I can symptom spot!Normally I've seen a bfp at 11dpo. So I guess maybe in four days I'll have an answer?!
My trigger is almost out of my system. The 20miu is showing near nothing & the 10miu is still a faint line. Couple more days & it will be gone!
I must say I am really anxiously wishing away the days so I can find out if this IVF worked. And I'm so nervous!
I don't know, I'm telling myself 10 for now though. Then maybe if I cave on 9 dpo you all won't be too hard on me. Really though I always try to hold off until 10 dpo unless there's something that really makes me want to test sooner.
Barb, yeah I guess it's impossible to symptoms spot with the meds, but really hopeful for you!
Really though I always try to hold off until 10 dpo unless there's something that really makes me want to test sooner.Barb, yeah I guess it's impossible to symptoms spot with the meds, but really hopeful for you!
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most test do not come back positive before 10dpo so it makes sense.
It's just hard not to because you never know. You could be one of those lucky ones who gets a bfp early
well when I had my chemical pregnancy in March of last year, I got a true indication of a bfp at 11dpo but the night before at 10dpo I already had an indication b/c I was testing out my trigger shot & my test was slightly darker that night at 9pm than my fmu!
It's just hard not to because you never know. You could be one of those lucky ones who gets a bfp early
well when I had my chemical pregnancy in March of last year, I got a true indication of a bfp at 11dpo but the night before at 10dpo I already had an indication b/c I was testing out my trigger shot & my test was slightly darker that night at 9pm than my fmu!
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Becky I am so so sorry about your row with your mom...
Big hugs love
My mom and I have the same kind of relationship....she constantly reminds me how much I remind her of my father...they broke up when I was 15 months old
I have a great relationship with my dad (since 19yrs old-when I found him) but my mom hates this.
She is always cracking on about my weight and my relationships and everything I do is wrong....moms eh.lol
I hope you manage to find some ground with her....I get that maybe it would be a good idea to have a day or two bp brake away from each other but that creates a line that's hard to get back over when yu start talking again...with my mom...I'm just yeahhhh - ok mom...love you mom lol
But I will make my own desistions and do it my way.and If I dpo go wrong then isn't that what life is al about?- learning by our mistakes.?
Eith way I hope your mom is a ale to drop her grudge and see you for the amazing strong woman that she raised instead of putting you down for it.
Barbs....your tests are soo exciting... ....and that some intresting signs you have going there too. 
I am on the edge of my seat here for you,,,got everything crossed- including my legs lol....
Good luck huni.
Erin...Yaye we got our cover line same day too woop woop....you know?....I am bad at testing...I ALWAYS cave...don't I meg ? lol hopefully your strength can get me threw that this time...lol....
I am already dyeing to test...I can't because I have no tests(apart from opks) but I keep telling myself...what's the pint this early on in the game...I won't see nothing yet...lol
Shanta....glad everything is coming along well for the up iui.
Are you triggering too?....will you be testing it out? You use the opks right?
Good luck love
Meggy... ....how's your tummy today?i hope much better...are the preggo pops helping?
I hope so .
Well ladies...I'm 3dpo today...
And guess what!....he STILL hasn't took his s/a in!!!!.....grrrrrlol....
He WILL be doing it tmr tho as he has work the next day and there will no time left to do it after that!....
I may trick him lol....wake up and get the job done and then grab the pot...and then say "see-that wasn't as bad as you thought was it- you silly sausage lol"
Idk.lol
Anyways...hope you are all well and ok...it's miserable cold and rainy here today...just had hunters chicken and bacon for dinner.yummy but I'm not all that keen on it.
Natalie xxx
Becky I am so so sorry about your row with your mom...
Big hugs love
My mom and I have the same kind of relationship....she constantly reminds me how much I remind her of my father...they broke up when I was 15 months old
I have a great relationship with my dad (since 19yrs old-when I found him) but my mom hates this.
She is always cracking on about my weight and my relationships and everything I do is wrong....moms eh.lol
I hope you manage to find some ground with her....I get that maybe it would be a good idea to have a day or two bp brake away from each other but that creates a line that's hard to get back over when yu start talking again...with my mom...I'm just yeahhhh - ok mom...love you mom lol
But I will make my own desistions and do it my way.and If I dpo go wrong then isn't that what life is al about?- learning by our mistakes.?
Eith way I hope your mom is a ale to drop her grudge and see you for the amazing strong woman that she raised instead of putting you down for it.
Barbs....your tests are soo exciting...
....and that some intresting signs you have going there too. I am on the edge of my seat here for you,,,got everything crossed- including my legs lol....
Good luck huni.
Erin...Yaye we got our cover line same day too
woop woop....you know?....I am bad at testing...I ALWAYS cave...don't I meg ? lol hopefully your strength can get me threw that this time...lol....I am already dyeing to test...I can't because I have no tests(apart from opks) but I keep telling myself...what's the pint this early on in the game...I won't see nothing yet...lol
Shanta....glad everything is coming along well for the up iui.
Are you triggering too?....will you be testing it out? You use the opks right?
Good luck love
Meggy...
....how's your tummy today?i hope much better...are the preggo pops helping?I hope so .
Well ladies...I'm 3dpo today...
And guess what!....he STILL hasn't took his s/a in!!!!.....grrrrrlol....
He WILL be doing it tmr tho as he has work the next day and there will no time left to do it after that!....
I may trick him lol....wake up and get the job done and then grab the pot...and then say "see-that wasn't as bad as you thought was it- you silly sausage lol"
Idk.lol
Anyways...hope you are all well and ok...it's miserable cold and rainy here today...just had hunters chicken and bacon for dinner.yummy but I'm not all that keen on it.
Natalie xxx
Hehe in the pact!...I'm trying to anyway lol...
Yes yes hunters chicken and bacon in a tomato and BBQ sauce...not really my kind of meal but Peter and Harry loved it
I think next time I will pull out my frozen bowl of stew as my back up...
Nom nom.
Are you testing once or twice a day...do you do the 9pm one too?
Natalie xxx
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Hrm, doesn't sound like smth I'd eat myself either. I dont hate BBQ sauce but it's not my fave at all.
Nope, just testing once a day for now. FMU only. I've learned it really DOES have the most HCG in it. IT's not just a myth! LOL
But maybe once I am closer to 11dpo, I could be tempted to testing twice a day?!
Nope, just testing once a day for now. FMU only. I've learned it really DOES have the most HCG in it. IT's not just a myth! LOL
But maybe once I am closer to 11dpo, I could be tempted to testing twice a day?!
Hrm, doesn't sound like smth I'd eat myself either. I dont hate BBQ sauce but it's not my fave at all.
Nope, just testing once a day for now. FMU only. I've learned it really DOES have the most HCG in it. IT's not just a myth! LOL
But maybe once I am closer to 11dpo, I could be tempted to testing twice a day?!
Good plan barbs
....so your 11dpo on Monday right? Have I added that up right? Haha my mind is shot today...lolYeah re BBQ sauce....I'm not a huge fan either but I LOVE IT on a pizza...barbecue chicken sizzler...OMG...how yum...with cheesy bites...
(Natalie stop it!) lol...Natalie xxx
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