LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[Sis4Us]

Barbs hope u have a Late Implanter there Love!!!

Nat big hugs to U too Love FYI that's how I've felt I've wanted to punch everyone in the Face daily!! Hope it's a good sign and yes FF can be wrong by a day or so I think mine was off for my BFP hang in there sweety!!
Post your chart and I'll gladly give it a Go!!!
Can't really stalk mine anymore

Erin I try to avoid the O too but I've heard it can help w implantation cuz it helps produce more blood flow!! I havent had a O in months and DH isn't to happy about that!!
He think that's attributing to my BAD mood but I think this baby is making me Extra Moody!!

Sending lots of to u All!!!!

 

[eyemom]

I've wondered that too Becky. About the Clomid. This cycle I got my surge when I expected it, but it was EXTREMELY short. I was quite lucky to catch a positive result.

Thanks for all the feedback. I have gone several cycles of avoiding O at least from 5 dpo on. And then there have been cycles where I was like screw it what does it matter anyway. :-/ I knew you weren't supposed to O after having procedures done, so it would stand to reason not to when trying to get pg the old fashioned way. I mean, my luck, that little embryo would JUST be trying to implant, then I'd shake the poor thing off. But then like you said Shanta, I've heard it can actually help???? But still I think I'm more comfortable not taking any chances....?

Yesterday, DH and I were planning to have some intimate time, then we got to the bed and I was like CRAP I just remembered I'm 7 dpo. So I told him we could do stuff but I wasn't going to get off. And he wasn't happy about that. He'd ask me what I wanted and I was like it doesn't even matter I don't want to get too frustrated. So he was disappointed and we ended up just falling asleep. I originally told DH I was going to abstain for at least another day. But I think I'd rather wait until after 10 dpo. I wonder if that should be safe enough.

Barb, SS about the BFNs. I'm also hoping for a late implanter.

 

[nimbec]

Hi Ladies

Barbs i so hope you have a late implanter - I have everything crossed for you!! any news today?

Meg hope you are ok? any news on the sex results eeeeek can't be long now!

Nat I reguarly feel like punching people today is one of those days!!!! Aby news on tests today? I really hope the symptoms you have a preggy ones not the damn witch!!

I went into the chemist for you and had a really great chat with the pharmasist who said that the cream they sell over the counter/online has such little quantities init that you could bath in it and it would make no difference. The prescribed suppositiries are very different I also asked about the clomid price (i know her!) she said she would have to look it up but it is not crazy expensive may cost something like £10 but she did say that was a guess but will let me know! Sorry i'm not being overly helpful

How are the rest of you lovely ladies?

I'm in a grump today - FF changed my crosshairs so i'm still only 3dpo same as yesterday plus it means i should have bd once more but i didn't! Then to top it off i asked the docs for my 21 day progesterone test form and they have decided i don't need it done say WHAT?!! So I explained that without it we won't know if I 0 and if i wasn't i'd be taking it for no reason ....still there answer - you would have to speak to a specialist grrrr so i either have to pay to go private again or go on waiting list grrrrrr So i now have an appointment with this tosser eho clearly doesn't understand anything about ttc friday to get a referal again & some more clomid! So fecking frustrating!!!!!! So i may take the plunge and go private again but i'm annoyed as will have to go to a new clinic as the old one has closed so will end up having to have all tests again which is totally pointless!!!!!!!!

anyway rant over sorry!!

Love to you all!!

xx

 

[barbikins]

Hey Nimbec,I am also grumpy today! And I'm sorry FF is playing with your mind! Just know it doesn't change the outcome of if you're pregnant or not xo
And I am not pregnant today. 12dpo, bfn.

 

[natjenson]

Hey Nimbec,I am also grumpy today! And I'm sorry FF is playing with your mind! Just know it doesn't change the outcome of if you're pregnant or not xo
And I am not pregnant today. 12dpo, bfn.

Big hugs barbs,...

Natalie xxx xoxo

 

[eyemom]

Sorry Becky that's frustrating about FF and your Progesterone test. Shouldn't you be able to confirm O by your temps? Though I can definitely understand wanting to know if it's a good number. So sorry you have to deal with so much just to get a simple blood test done. So aggravating.

Barb

 

[natjenson]

Ugh Becky I am sorry you are having to go through all that...this system sucks in the uk doesn't it...
I hope you manage to find a path that suits and means you don't have to go though all that again.

As for ff...she is such a beyatch sometimes eh lol....
I too have the love/hate relationship too...I love the app but I hate when it desires it knows better than my own body haha...

I attend to agree with barbs....she put that into perspective for me yesterday how true that is....what ever ff says its not going to change weather or not we see our bfp this month or not...good advice.
I personally would go with your opks..LH surge is proof your body has done the right thing when it needed to....with out ff this is what we would have done right?...gone with our opk?
Yes temps should confirm what's happening but we have not calculated for life's events that can mess with our temps...bad nights sleep...stress...loo stops in the night...really cold weather...or just in general our body not playing ball when we need or want it too...

Hope you get your bfp Becky...I'm rooting for you love,


Ladies thankyou so much for the offer of having a look at my chart for me ...
Unfortunately I can't get it into my sigi lol...I have way too much going on in it already haha
Will try and post a pic of it tho if that helps.

So anyways....8dpo today..peed on at least 5 tests today haha...all bfn....
Not feeling very well here..think I have the flu....and poor Harry seems to be coming down with this too, ...
Need to get him to the doctors tmr am bc his eyes are just so runny.i feel so sorry for him...
May need some drops.

Oh and Becky I almost forgot...thankyou sooooooo much for the advice on the p and the clomid too....that's a very good idea to sweet talk my gp hehe.
Luckily he is great and he should by no doubt do that for me.

Well ladies..I hopefull is well and I'm sorry to post and run...
I need to lay down I am soo giddy here.dohh

Natalie xxx

 

[natjenson]

Oooops double post

 

[butterflywolf]

barbs *hugs*

Just an update here. As soon as this period comes we are trying again for baby number 2. We were going to wait another month but it seems my periods have now become so irregular we want to start trying the extra month. (Before Claire I was 28,30,32 days roughly and ovulated between day 20-22 usually). Now who knows when. One period was only 24 days, then 38, then 26, and if I have done this one right it should be a 41 days. Ended up ovulating on day 28 this cycle. Was temping due to a hic cup of us DTD on day 18 so was thinking maybe a chance but seeing I didn't ovulate until so late nope.

Anyway I have been trying to keep up with you ladies, but past week I haven't been on the computer much. Hopefully though I will start making daily log ins soon though.

How is everyone doing?

 

[Sis4Us]

BIG Barbs!!!!

 

[barbikins]

butterfly, good luck with TTC your second! Hope it happens quickly xo

 

[nimbec]

Oh barbs sending you massive (((((hugs))))) xx

Catch up tomorrow ladies as I'm exhausted

 

[eyemom]

Hope you ladies are having a good night (day?) This is really off any topic, but I'd mentioned the little girl who was murdered here locally. It's incredibly sad, but I have been pretty proud of my community for stepping up in support of the family. Financial support, but also lots and lots of love. I just found found out about a video that shows some of it. (You see porch lights because people kept their porchlights on 24 hours for a few days in her memory, and then one night there was a candlelight vigil and ~10,000 people went. There was also a motorcycle ride with I heard a couple of thousand riders??)

Edit: I didn't realize this was going to embed automatically.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngLhrUTXLhE

Our hearts break, but it's encouraging to see a community band together.

OT: 9 dpo, still mildly crampy at times through the day. Left nipple is ever so slightly sensitive...weird.

 

[natjenson]

Ohhh Erin that was soooo emotional...my heart breaks too...the poor family...

How amaizing the whole community came together.

I can't imagien how I would ever cope if this were Peter and I.

Natalie xxx

 

[nimbec]

Oh Erin so sad but amazing support Its so nice to see communities pulling together at such an awful time. Hopefully the sensitive nipple thing is a preggy symptom - is it new?

Nat how are you today? did you test yet?

Barbs how are you? Hoping todays test brings a nice surprize for you! If not then we will all be here to pick you up and support you through your next try (((hugs)))

No news here Just boring part of tww.

Shanta/meg hope you are well and babies treating you kindly

 

[eyemom]

I had SUPER sore/sensitive nipples my entire LP last cycle. And it's not unusual to have mildly sensitive nipples (though it doesn't happen every cycle), so I'm not really putting much stock in this. It does seem like the left one is often more affected, but I can't remember for sure! The only thing that has me a little hopeful is the fact that it started this late in my LP.

I'm planning to test in the morning (I'll be 11 dpo), but I only have 2 tests so I MIGHT try to wait another day.

 

[barbikins]

Hey Erin, nice that your community supports one another. I didn't watch the video because I'm likely to get emotional. Hits home with me when a child dies.
Good luck with your testing! Hope you get yoru bfp!

Nimbec, I got a bfn at 10dp3dt (13dpo) so I'm out.
We talked about doing a two embryo transfer this time for next cycle.
I am bummed out. Just feeling stressed & bummed.
Tww is boring & blah! Hang in there. You be be testing?

 

[eyemom]

Sorry I didn't mean to be insensitive with the video.

Thanks, fx.

Barb SS you are out. Still cheering for you.

 

[barbikins]

you werent being insensitive! i choose not to watch it

Thanks love. My mind is already like - I want my period today so I can move on now k thanks!!!

 

[Sis4Us]

Erin so Sad I read about the whole thing on my News Update on FB!!
Glad everyone is supporting the Family!!

Barbs sorry about the BFN I think 2 is a GREAT idea I would do the same!!


Sorry I've been MIA I'm been very sick went to the DR today and guess what ....... I have Strep!!!!!

So of course I have to take these GIANT Horse pills I can barely swallow .... Hope I feel better soon cuz right now I feel like I'm on my last Leg!!!