LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[barbikins]

Yes, when there is an early MC it's always chromosomal. Not a healthy embryo.
Oh man. I'm so sorry hun xoxox

 

[flou]

Hi ladies can I join you? Me and my DH have been ttc for 3 years as of next month. In that time we have had 2 mcs both at 6 weeks. We are currently under a FS who has run blood tests on me and SA on my DH and everything seems good, no fertility issues but it still seems to take us longer than average to conceive. They won't do any testing for reasons into mc until I've had another one. But I really don't want to go through another one!

 

[barbikins]

flou, welcome!
and i understand you don't want to go through another miscarriage.
I would hope when you fall pregnant again, they can offer Progesterone to you. That could be the culprit.

 

[nimbec]

Omg Sis I'm so so so unbelievably sorry Its heartbreaking Sending you HUGE hugs!!!! Are they going to look in to why it happened hun?

Barbs as i said i cannot possibly comprehend how you must be feeling but this just has to be your turn it HAS to be!!!!!! I'm about to go and read your blog lovely Do you have a test date in mind?

Hi everyone else hope you are all ok!! xx

 

[nimbec]

Welcome Flou

I'm so sorry about your mc and really hope you don't have to go through another one!! Great news that there is no fertility issues hopefully you will get your sticky bean soon! xx

 

[eyemom]

Oh Shanta

Sorry I missed a page...sorry I'll catch up on the rest of the thread in a bit.

But big hugs

 

[Petzy]

Shanta I'm so sorry Hun. That is just not fair I hope you are doing ok love. Check in soon we are thinking of you and sending you big hugs from up north xoxo

 

[natjenson]

Oh nooooo shanta...I'm so sorry Hun ...this is sooo unfair.
I'm really upset for you .

I just want to give you a big hug
I hate that you have to go through this.

All my love and thoughts
Natalie .xxx
Here anytime if you want to talk love. xoxoxo

 

[barbikins]

Omg Sis I'm so so so unbelievably sorry Its heartbreaking Sending you HUGE hugs!!!! Are they going to look in to why it happened hun?

Barbs as i said i cannot possibly comprehend how you must be feeling but this just has to be your turn it HAS to be!!!!!! I'm about to go and read your blog lovely Do you have a test date in mind?

Hi everyone else hope you are all ok!! xx

Thanks hunnie! I'm planning a test on Sunday. I have a cassette test that can do blood as well as urine. So I'll test my blood since 9dpo is early for urine. Mind you it seems like a lot of IVF patience get a bfp at 9dpo.

 

[eyemom]

Ok going to try to get myself up to speed before calling it a night.

Meg, good to see you. Sorry you've been in so much pain.

Shanta, still crushed for you. Big hugs.

Flou, hello and welcome. So sorry to hear of your losses. It is such crap that so many women have to endure three losses before having testing done. I pray you get your rainbow baby soon and you never have to experience another miscarriage.

Barb, wow, Sunday! It seems so soon to me, but it probably doesn't feel like it to you! GL.

Love to you all.

AFM, I'm so nervous, I'm 6 weeks. My m/c was at 6 weeks too. And right now it seems like an unlucky number. I haven't had a lot of symptoms in some time. Just the odd thing here or there. Staying positive though for the most part because it's not all that different than when I was pg with DD. All I can do is take it a day at a time.

 

[wannabemummyb]

Shanta, I am so sorry about your mc.

Barbs, I have everything crossed for you, really hoping this is your cycle.

Flou - I am sorry to hear about you mcs. :Welcome: the ladies on this thread are really welcoming and friendly.

Sorry I haven't been around much recently, AF is due on friday and I am 95% sure that there is no way we caught the eggy this month as I think we missed ov. So looking forward to next cycle and a new chance. Ironically, we are coming up to the anniversary of the month we conceived in last year (April) so who knows.

Nat - I made 84 cupcakes and two birthday cakes for my sisters brithday party on Saturday. Was up until 11pm on friday night baking after work, and then spent 4+ hours saturday morning decorating them and making two birthday cakes. Was exhausting. So Sunday DH took me out for sunday lunch.

I am currently at work, but just wanted to pop in and say hi and let you know I am still alive.

I hope everyone else is well xxxx

 

[natjenson]

Hi there flou
Welcome love....yes the ladies on here are all lovely and welcoming...glad to have you on board my love.

So so sorry you have suffered these losses.its heartbreaking.

So how long is your lp?...what cd/dpo are you today?

Good luck Hun I hope you get your rainbow baby love

Natalie xxx

 

[natjenson]

Morning laides...

Mixed emotions today...

Shanta...my first thought was of you.im so so sorry Hun...I could literally cry for you...you come such a long way and my heart is breaking for you.

I hate to ask but what is the next step with the doctors/gyno...
Are they providing a good after care ?...have they given you an meds?
This is just so faking sucky.

You are in my thoughts and prayers shanta.


Hello ladies...(think) I'm 1dpo today....temp hasn't risen yet but it seems I may be one of the lucky few that has a longer time span for eggy to float home.

Going to take this tww one day at a time for now....I have no expectations at all...not feeling too optimistic either...don't mean to be a Debbie downer/Polly pissy pants but why would I get a bfp now ?
I just feel like this may never happen again.

In a limbo kind of mood today so sorry for be such the pessimist

Natalie xxx

 

[barbikins]

Blurg, I feel the same as you Nat. I'm not having any expecations this month.
Even with two embies lol

 

[butterflywolf]

@sis *hugs* I am so so so sorry for you hun *hugs*


@Barb: Really hoping this month is your month!


@Nat: Don't worry about being a pessimist. I've actually been the optimistic one lately probably due to the positive atmosphere I have been hanging around at the workout place. So I'll counteract any pessimism here! Or at least try to.


Update on Claire she seems to have gotten over her cold or pretty darn close to it. yay. We had basically two crappy nights but that was it.
We have snow...again it snowed last night. Oh well later this week we should have warmer temps to keep on melting again.

I am day 18 of my cycle no sign of ovulating but then again I can ovulate from 18-28 from what I have seen in the past. I just hope my LP gets longer again. As of last month it was only 9 days. We still are taking our time with the BD. Done it three times so far this month. One of them was yesterday.

The workout routine I haven't lost anymore weight but I can fit into my pants a bit better so I know I lost some inches in the least. Wont know the muscle I can't the % of fat or inches yet for another week and a half. Thing is I'm trying to get into the mindset that I don't care what I lose. I have seen improvements with doing the push up's or the planking or other things and I can do more or I can go longer etc. That's a plus in my book.

Sorry I don't post too often in here I feel bad that I don't. I do try to read up every few days in the least! Now I'm going to send some positive vibes to everyone in here for a great month!

 

[natjenson]

Blurg, I feel the same as you Nat. I'm not having any expecations this month.
Even with two embies lol

I want to feel good about it but I'm at a stage where I feel I am either wasting my time or investing any emotions is just a build up to a melt down.
Soo keeping myself on the straight and narrow -treading water - keeping head above floating.
We can do this barbs...get eachother through.

Natalie xxx

 

[Sis4Us]

They haven't done or Said much the financial Lady just called me to let me know the cost of the D&C and OMG 500-600!!!

Oh and I might have to wait another 2 wks hello the baby passed 2wks ago I'm not waiting any longer this is messed Up!!

I hope all of u get your BFPs sooner than later I'm not sure if I'll even try anymore this is like a shot to the face!!!

 

[Petzy]

They haven't done or Said much the financial Lady just called me to let me know the cost of the D&C and OMG 500-600!!!

Oh and I might have to wait another 2 wks hello the baby passed 2wks ago I'm not waiting any longer this is messed Up!!

I hope all of u get your BFPs sooner than later I'm not sure if I'll even try anymore this is like a shot to the face!!!

Oh geez Shanta I didn't even think you would have to pay for a D&C that's awful... its not like it can be called an elective surgery... thats just so shitty and how expensive....

Take some time to yourself with your family and do what you need to do to start healing.. I am so sorry you are going through this... I really wish you the best and a sticky BFP soon if that is what you wish for. We are here for you any time xoxo

 

[barbikins]

Shanta I'm so sorry. Is there any way your body will take care of this on its own instead???
I can't imagine having to pay that much
xo

 

[flou]

Hi ladies its nice to chat to others who have also been trying for a while and have also been through the pain of mc. I am currently on cd 7. I normally ovulate on cd16/17 and lp is normally 14/15 days. Really hoping I get a bfp soon. Wishing everyone on here that they get their little ones soon too!