LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[natjenson]

Well I never made it to the Hospital!!! I started bleeding w clots around 1Pm when we were suppose to be there at 2!!

Called my Dr and all he said was he couldn't guarantee they would get enough tissue to test!!
I figured w my luck lately they wouldn't and I know it was the antibiotics I just wish everyone else would admit it!!

So I'm home in bed cramping up a storm and hoping for it to Go by quickly like last time!!

Sending you thee BIGGEST WARMEST HUG ever shanta.

I hope you get answers.
Thinking of you.
I hope the cramps pass as quick as possible too...never ever nice.



Natalie xxxx
Xoxo

 

[Sis4Us]

Well we won't really get answers but they are looking into the Antbiotics and the dates cuz they are spot on I'm telling U it was them!!

They will be doing a Chromosonal test on DH they already have mine from the Dr B4 but he might want a new one !!
Not much closure but for some reason I do feel better today this whole pregnancy I was so anxious about something happening I thought cuz of my previous loss but maybe I just knew something was wrong from the get Go!!

Barb big to U!!!

 

[wannabemummyb]

Shanta big hugs to you. So sorry that you are going through this again, and you've had such an awful time trying to get smeone to listen to you and give you answers.

Barbs sorry about the bfns

Nat step away from the tests lol

Hi everyone else

 

[nimbec]

Shanta i'm so so sorry I really hope it passes quickly for you too so that you can mourn and then move on. Hopefully DH is there looking after you - i'm sending you the biggest hug eva!!!! We must have posted at the same time last post as i hadn't read your update.

no news here still no real line on the opk - i think this will be a no ov cycle grrrr

 

[eyemom]

Shanta, so many hugs.

 

[barbikins]

Shanta, like everyone else, I wish you the best & hope it passes quick so you can move forward. Hope you find your answers xo

bfn for me. im already making plans for what shoudl happen next.
not sure if i want to do one more round w/our frostie or go onto a fresh round but have to wait to save money. I just feel like this batch of embryo are shit.

 

[Sis4Us]

Wow so sorry Barb

DH agreed to use some 401k money for IVF but I'm so afraid it won't work or I'll have another early Loss it's hard enough w/out the money tied into it!!

I really don't know what to do I'm still lost!!!

Don't they test the embryos ??? I know fresh has better results but I'm sure they would tell u if there was an issue w your eggs!!
Would u consider DEIVF or Adoption?

 

[butterflywolf]

Shanta: *hugs* I wish I could find the words for you but I am at a lost. Just know you are never alone. Not only do you have the ladies in this forum, you're DH and your family, but you have two wonderful baby angels that will always be watching over you as well.


Barbs: Darn BFN's! It has to be your turn real bloody soon! So not fair.


Thinking I might finally be 1 dpo (we'll know tomorrow). Which means I probably ovulated on day 24. I can live with that. Just thinking my 'normal' has shifted from ovulating between 18-23 day to 24-28 day. As long as I'm regular I don't really care. Hubby is SO hoping that I have o'd lol I told him we'll know tomorrow morning if we still have to BD or not. He just looks at me and says, you temp better keep going up. XD Even though we hit things nicely this cycle, I am not holding my breath that we caught the egg. Going in with that hoping to not test until dpo 12 if I even make it that long.

 

[nimbec]

Oh Barbs what a shitty situation how much do you need to save for a fresh round? Can they keep doing rounds back to back ie could you try your one last frostie whilst you are saving for the fresh round? Is there anything else they can do to up the odds so to speak? I'm sure you will have/be asking all these questions....Just to give you a bit of hope - one of my mums friends (our age) got pregnant on their 4th round of IVF with implanting too embies, and had 1 healthy baby so there is light at the end of the tunnel!! Always here if you want to chat or moan i honestly caan't imagine how you are feeling and the fact that it is a lonley place as people just don't understand - even the men don't get how upsetting and emotionally gruelling the whole process is xxx

 

[flou]

shanta sorry you are going through this for a second time. I wish you and your OH hope that you will get a sticky bean next time!

sorry for the bfn barb

AFM I'm on cd14. I normally O cd 16/17 and i can feel my body gearing up to it. Just hope I catch the egg!

 

[barbikins]

Well ladies, I used a mixture of water and blood on a test when I got home and got an instant bfp. I freaked out thinking it was false and dipped a FRER. Positive. Then my third and last pink dye cheapie and BFP!
I've tried this method in the past but all were bfns. And I've read a lot of posts online of woman getting a positive reading this way as well. So now fingers are crossed hard!!!!! I am so nervous. I want this SO bad.

 

[Wish4another1]

Barb - I have been you and all I have to say to this is
HELL YEAH!!!
Congrats on your BFP!!! You definitely deserve it!!!

 

[barbikins]

I feel like I can't accept it until I can get a positive by peeling on a stick!!

 

[Wish4another1]

I can only imagine - everything I have is crossed for you!!! good luck Peeing on the stick!!

 

[natjenson]

Absolutely BURSTING with EXCITMENT here barbs....



Natalie xxx

 

[nimbec]

OMG OMG OMG Barbs all I can say is OMG OMG!!!!! I so hope this is it for you - when is your blood test???? xxxxx

 

[Sis4Us]

now go buy Up Wally worlds test and start peeing!!!

 

[barbikins]

Sadly bloods not until Monday. If I keep getting positives I'll see about going Sunday.

I can't accept this until I pee on a stick and see positive and then see progression lol

 

[Sis4Us]

I know the feeling I had a box of sticks that I Had!!!

Threw them away after my scan cuz I felt Lied too!!

Hope u see that line get darker and darker!!

 

[eyemom]

Oooooh oooooohhhhh Barb! This is very exciting! I got my bfp late-ish this time too, so maybe our bodies are just teasing us lately. I've got everything crossed so hard!