LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[Sis4Us]

We BD every other day from last Thur to Wed Am if I get a BFP it will be a Miracle cuz I'm not to sure on DH sperm life he has been taking a ton of vitamins so who knows!!

Hope AF shows if she's going to and u get the cyst sorted out did u try VITEX or ACV to reduce it??

 

[nimbec]

Sounds like you have it covered then hun unless i'm reaading it wrong asyour best to dtd before o anyway...correct me if i have misunderstood you! I'm a bit like a zombie tonight!!

I've just ordered 1000mg tabs of vitex to start asap - did you take them the whole cycle or just up to o? seems to be a debate about what to do..... x

 

[barbikins]

dropped in to see how you ladies are. im sad to hear, Amy.
Unfortunately its all too common to get a chemical. I wish you the best going forward and that you get your sticky bean soon.

AFM, I went for a fresh cycle and retrieved 15 eggs today! I'm anxious to find how many fertilize and then how many we have left for use.

xo

 

[Sis4Us]

Yay Barb hope they All fertilize and u get some grade A Pupos!!!

Yea our converge was good if DH sperm lives very long I'm just not to sure about it since my Only BFPs where right on top of O!!
We will see I just wish he hadn't had to go outta town right when I was Oing but we can only do what we can!! FX

 

[nimbec]

Fx for you sis !

Yay barbs 15 blimey a great number - I've been thinking about you!! Fx lots of them make it! When is transfer day? Xx

 

[natjenson]

Heya ladies....

Wowzers so much has happened.

Amy so so sorry about your chem.
Sounds like you are positive about moving on Hun.good for you.

Becky...I'm still rooting for you even tho your have had the spotting dear.

Barbs....super duper excited about your et,...roll on Monday so you can find out how many made it and when the er will take place.

Shanta....wow you ovulated quick love
Great temps too.
Big fx for you that your caught that eggie.

Erin...I seen you posted about a bleed...you have a sub bleed-it's small?
I hope all is well love...when is your next scan?
Let us know how you are.

Flou...what's going down with you Hun?...where are you in your cycle?

Bex...what's happening with your cycle too?....is it all going well love?

Who'd I miss who'd I miss lol.

Soooooooooooooo....
I'm cd 9 .....having major Ewcm...typical.lol...and I'm ovulating...having left hand side o pains today-all day...
And since I am not even trying this month it feels strange not to opk and track every thing cycle wise....I'm still temping but that's shearly for ff data reasons.id like for that to be as acurate as poss so skipping a cycle will only make my future cycle data a tad shoddy
So my smear is booked for he 17th...very nervous.
Trying to keep busy here,..been redecorating the hallway and kitchen.
Just a sproose but being fussy and taking my time is really helping to keep my mind off things.the next 3.5 weeks are dragggggging already lol

Anyways my petals....off for now...I'm still lurking away here lol...

Looking forward to seeing all the bfp's roll in for this April...
We need some April flowers...blooms and blooms of them....

Natalie xxx

 

[Sis4Us]

So glad U are doing well Nat hope this Lil break is just what u need to get that BFP and All your test come back AOk!!!

We had a big Community Garage sale today sold some of our junk didn't have much time to put out much but got rid of some stuff non the less!!
It was Cray Cray at 7am on our street and didn't stop until 2Pm

Hope everyone is having a great weekend

 

[mowat]

Hi all. Hope you don't mind if I intrude on your thread---seems like there is a nice group of ladies here. I've been trying to conceive baby #2 for over 2 1/2 years and had 3 miscarriages. My doctor is recommending IVF, but we haven't decided what to do yet. I've tried Femera, but don't seem to be able to get pregnant anymore.

 

[nimbec]

Hi mowat - welcome!! The ladies here are a great bunch!! We use first names here as been around so long - just incase we confuse you I'm Becky sorry to hear it's taking you so long and I'm so very sorry for your losses where are you in your cycle now?

Hey nat gosh so glad you have a date although I bet it seems an eternity away I so hope everything is clear!!!!!! Gosh cd 9 would be an early o - I seem to remember you having a few early ones? I agree keep temping. Enjoy the rest from bd. What colours have u gone for? Love to see some piccies!

As for me 11dpo I caved tested big fat negative I swear I just like to torrure myself. So together with my spotting & Af symptoms I'm out this cycle

Hope everyone has a great Sunday!!! Xxx

 

[wannabemummyb]

Welcome mowat, i'm Bex. Sorry to hear about your misscarriages.

Nat hiya sweetie, good luck with the smear!

I'm on cd17. I think i ov'd on cd 15 and got a couple of sessions of bd in, including the day before ov. Having another weird cycle had some spotting cd 13-15, hoping it was ov spotting and not a cyst

 

[flou]

AF came to visit today so feeling very crampy! On to another cycle....

Me and my DH are busy at the mo house hunting which is quite exciting. I hope our next home will be where we start our family. Fxd! I hope everyone is well today.

 

[Sis4Us]

Welcome Mowat so sorry for your losses I just had one and am trying again right away!! I'm 38 and feel like I'm running out of time oh My name is Shanta

Becky Bex sorry for the spotting and cyst and what's what been there hope that VITEX helps Becky it did help me I think a lot !!

Flou GL on House hunting we just moved b4 Xmas And it was crazy stressful hope Ur hunt ends soon!!

DH is still outta town so I think today will be a paint the game room day

 

[mowat]

Thanks for the welcome guys. My name is Alyson. And I'm turning 40 next month! 8dpo today. Hoping for a BFP at 10dpo so we don't have to resort to ivf. We were away this month just before I ovulated so I missed temping. I think we got in enough bedding though. Just can't imagine I'd get lucky this month after nothing for so long.

 

[eyemom]

Hi ladies! Sorry I've been lurking but haven't typed anything up in a while. Will try to catch up.

Shanta, GL!

Barb, wishing you the best.

Natalie, yes, my bleed was small. Had another scan today, thought it wasn't planned. Was rear-ended and started having some cramping, so went to be checked out for that reason, ugh. Thank God all is well. Thanks for asking. I was starting to have a lot of anxiety about it, so it was actually really reassuring to have another scan (otherwise I would have been waiting for my morphology scan). Been thinking of you lots lately, hope you get nothing but good news. Please let us know how you get along.

Hiiiii Alyson. I feel like I'm meeting you all over again. This is a lovely group of ladies here. My real name is Erin. I've really been cheering for you, as I know many ladies are. Many hugs.

Becky, so sorry for the bfn and that you're feeling out.

Hi flou, so sorry. I got my first bfp after several months ttc (though it doesn't seem so long now) within days of moving into our first house. There's a saying, "New house, new baby." Fx that comes true for you!

Who'd I miss? Bex? Amy? Hope you're all doing alright.

 

[mowat]

Hi Erin! Nice to see you here. Don't really feel like I fit in on the other thread anymore---it was just making me anxious. Irritated. I dunno, something. Sorry to hear about the accident, but glad you got a scan out of it!

Think I've finally got DH talked into IVF. Not sure when I'll start as I'll have to be away from home for two weeks. Guess I'll have to ask at work whether I have to use vacation time, or whether something else applies. Wonder how to ask without giving any details.

 

[butterflywolf]

Hey all, Happy Monday. Hope all is doing well. I did not expect myself to actually fall into depression from time to time. Yesterday was just a shit day for me. All my old fears came rushing back after the first miscarriage and I'm fighting with myself to just 'get over it'. What'll help is when I stop freakin bleeding. I think that's what has me the most hung up on this. I'm use to a 3 day bleed with 4th day spotting. Well I'm on day 6 now and seems like I might finally be down to spotting. I even drank a bit on Saturday at a game night. Which shocked people since I do not drink. I didn't drink much but got a little tipsy enough to make me happy.

I know I'll be fine given the time just gotta get over this bump in my path again. When I'm home alone with Claire I'm all right but when hubby his home I fall a bit into my depression and don't want to do anything. He's been a trooper for me but I feel bad which makes me feel worse cause he hates when I'm like this. Oh well life does not stand still I gotta get out of this rut! Maybe when the damn snow goes away again. YEA we got more freakin snow! After two weeks of temps in the 50/60's it dropped down low for inches of snow! grr.

 

[eyemom]

Hiya Alyson, yeah I think it's less of a pregnancy discussion now (I have gathered that's not the first time that happened). So maybe it'd be friendlier now. BUT I had to stay away at times too because it's like I'd forget it's not a LTTTC thread. It's just different, idk.

Good luck finding a way to get info from work without having to divulge too many details. What kind of work do you do?

Oh Amy I'm so sorry about how you're feeling. I don't think you can just "get over it." It changes you. But I believe you can move forward. Give yourself time to grieve, and one day your fighting spirit will return. Glad you have a supportive hubby. I think it's hard on men b/c they are "fixers" and want to make things better, but he knows this is one thing that can't be "fixed." Hope soon the bleeding stops and you can see some warm sunshine...sure can't hurt.

 

[Sis4Us]

Amy so sorry u are feeling Down I was like that last week when my HCG was zeroing out I just wanted to crawl in bed and Cry!!!
Amazingly enough after those few days I felt way better hope u feel better real soon!!

 

[mowat]

Sorry you're down Amy. Don't beat yourself up for feeling that way---we've all been there.

I work in medical records part-time Erin. We have pretty good benefits. I think I'll go talk to a nice lady in payroll---she just answers your questions and doesn't want to know too many details.

 

[flou]

Its perfectly normal to have your down moments Amy. I think we have all been there. After my second mc i was more determined to get pg. After a couple of months i hit a low point and really felt like giving up and calling it a day. I think i had been in denial of how my mc made me feel and even being pg again. I find my mood still goes up and down several months on. Only last week I seriously thought how much longer can I do this. But then I think about much longer for and loved rainbow baby and I can't give up yet.