i forgot to mention that...it was AWESOME! I was so nervous to go but I went through with it and I'm so glad I did. I had hives on my chest from nerves. He, he...it was a very small group. One hubby and wife, one girl and her mother, and two separate grandmothers and me. The first girl started on her story and I started bawling immediately...they told me it was ok, it was my first time. He, he...you should have seen my tissue pile, it looked like a mountain. They were so warm and welcoming. They all had just sad, sad, horrible late losses. I just felt for them so much. I will most likely attend the next meeting as it will be around Mother's Day and I will probably take my mom this time now that I know what to expect.