Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

And cupcake I still say boy!

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I kno bailey it's a proper challenge. The man can't do it till the end of next wk

 

[MrsDuck]

Oh no, the end of NEXT week! Maybe let him have a go then otherwise Leo will be here xx

 

[baileybubs]

Oh no Cheryl that's rubbish! Maybe let him have a go then like mrs d says or else Leo will be here and have no furniture!!

 

[AmyB1978]

Haha it sounds like quite an experience

I'd go with the man hun after your dh's last attempt at putting it together, once it is scratched you'll be kicking yourself xx

No, she will be kicking DH!

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey I've not bought a single thing yet! I can't wait to start shopping but waiting til after the scan. I love the idea of the cupcakes but ill have to see if I can be bothered! Sorry Millie didnt sleep last night, was it colic or something?

 

[baileybubs]

I don't think it was colic, think she just had an unsettled night. She's sleeping fine today lol! I've got a headache though which is a bit worrying if you pair it up with my bp. I just want to be back to normal lol!!

I've been for a lie down though so hopefully that will help me feel better.

 

[MrsDuck]

Well that appointment was a waste of time, I saw some dr I'd never seen before and he didn't have a clue about anything to do with me

On a plus side today I've blow dried my hair for the first time in 2 months and I love it. 2 months of washing with baby shampoo and letting it dry on its own has done it the world of good, I just need a little trim now

Aw bailey I hope it's not connected to your bp, when does the mw come back to check it? xx

Cupcake how can you resist, I'll be buying as soon as I've had my 12 week scan xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Oh mrs d how frustrating! Did they say anything else like about ttc?

Bailey when you seeing the mw again?

Mrs d I have been looking believe me, but its cos I want pink or blue stuff, I've had to resist buying!

I think I have felt some kicks today, and maybe on Monday I did to. I wish I could be sure! But then I've also had killer back ache today to, lower back ache, sciatic pain, and pain in my tailbone......rough with the smooth! My chair at work is so uncomfy

 

[baileybubs]

Aw mrs d that's really crap!! So what did the doc actually say? Nothing useful?

Cupcake - I was still buying loads of neutral things lol. I can't wait til you find out!! Sorry your back is sore, but yay for those movements!! Before long you'll be feeling him/her every day!

I'm seeing the MW tomorrow. Will mention it all to her. I'm not a very good patient lol, I hate being ill!

 

[cupcake1981]

I think if I'd seen neutral stuff I like I'd have bought some bits but I haven't so just decided to wait! Now I'm at home on my sofa my back is so much better. Think I need a donut pillow to take the pressure off my coccyx, but I don't want everyone thinking I have piles!

How is Millie today?

 

[baileybubs]

Lol I want a doughnut pillow today too!! Coz I'm resting a lot my bum is getting so numb and sore! I keep standing up and rubbing my bum and df is laughing at me!

Millie is good today, she's had a little period of awakeness looking around at everything. And she's been asleep most of the afternoon now though. She looks so peaceful.

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw bless her, don't worry about the baby blues, it's your hormones crashing down to earth. I think you get a form of that after an mc, I know I did! Have you taken her out yet?

Is df looking after you? Is your mum still there?

 

[MrsDuck]

He called me in and asked how I was feeling so I asked 'what after the surgery or the radioactive iodine treatment or after the radiotherapy?' At which point he started to look at my notes and asked how long since my radiotherapy, then left the room for a good 10mins and left us sat there. I told him about my dizziness and he got this junior to take my bp lying down and when I got up, all was 'normal' so he told me to get up slower! Then he checked my blood results and my calcium hadn't been done, which I knew coz the nurse hadn't taken enough blood, which I pointed out to her at the time but she assured me she had done everything on the form (I clearly know nothing, I was only having the same blood checks done every 2 weeks after my surgery) but clearly she hadn't AGAIN (second time that has happened) aaaaaaagh. Hubby had a list of questions including can I return to work and he just said yes, now he didn't know or ask what medication I'm taking and clearly on the morphine bottle it says 'do not drive' I can't do my job without driving. I asked about my follow up scan and then going on different meds and then getting back to ttc but he was wooly on who instigates my follow up scan, so I'm just going to be chasing the uk hospital direct as here are useless, we reminded them that they forgot to refer me after my surgery, but it fell on deaf ears. Then I was given my repeat blood test form, we left, drove down the road and I noticed that he had written a completely different patient name, address, date of birth and dr on it, so I had to go back and get it changed to me.

Sorry for the rant but they are totally USELESS!

Cupcake yay for feeling kicks but boo for the pains. Can you take in a more comfy chair or maybe some cushions hun as its only going to get worse

I know what you mean bailey I hate being ill too, I just get so frustrated asking people to do things for me x

 

[MrsDuck]

I think if I'd seen neutral stuff I like I'd have bought some bits but I haven't so just decided to wait! Now I'm at home on my sofa my back is so much better. Think I need a donut pillow to take the pressure off my coccyx, but I don't want everyone thinking I have piles!

How is Millie today?

haha

 

[baileybubs]

The baby blues is so weird, the crying just switches on for no reason and then is gone again as quick as it started! I actually just roll with it and cry but df is struggling to understand it.
It's just me df and Millie now. I think my mum would have wanted to stay but also wants us to be a little family so she's back home. I feel a bit bad coz I want her to be able to play a big role in Millie's life but right now all we are doing is watching tv all day!

 

[baileybubs]

Mrs d that sounds like such a crap attempt at patient care!!! What a pile of rubbish!!
I'd be bloody livid!!! So where do you even go from here or do you not know?

 

[cupcake1981]

That is utterly appalling mrs d. I'm so frustrated for you!! Is hubby livid to?

I took a cushion in today, it helped a bit but not much. I may have to go see HR about whether I can have a special chair lol.

Bailey I'm sure you will feel better soon, you could me room to the midwife and see what she says x

 

[CherylC3]

Aw cupcake I never bought anything till my 20 wk scan and all I got was blue dummies and bibs lol... Cud u not sit on a gym ball? It really helped me..x

Mrs d yeah for getting ur hair blow dried, I'm sorry the dr was shit Hun..x

Bailey it won't be long till ur back. To ur usual self Hun..x

Amy my hubby is still living and he has built the drawers il post u ladies a pic...x

 

[CherylC3]

My drawers