Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

Everyone pretty much bought us bigger sizes cupcake, most of which she is still yet to grow into!
I would say you might need a few more depending on how much of a sicky baby he is. Emilia was pretty good but even she needed changing 3 times in a day sometimes, still does lol! You'll probably find most people won't buy you first size clothes coz they think they will grow out too quickly.

 

[cathgibbs]

Ohhh sorry hun its only going to get slightly warmer but you will feel it being pregnant and that go and get a bowl that you would put in the sink and fill it with cold water and put your feet in that hun? So sorry to hear that you wont be able to move for 2 years that sucks big time hun

I think i take my house for granted - Our garden is a mess tbh but we have a concrete path which is wide enough for me to sunbathe on but the grass either side is a MESS and the dog just ruins everything - its on a bit of a slant too so we have no idea how we are going to work the pool - especially with the dog but I dont care I bet my neighbours will have a right bitch about us having a pool out our 'mess of a garden' but their just jealous!! haha xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

It does sound like I might need a few more with 3 changes a day lol! Thanks for the info! If people ask us what we want ill say bigger sizes anyway x

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah when he's little you only want to have him in vest suits and sleep suits anyway, then when he gets into 0-3 months sizes when he's about 2 months old probably put him in t-shirts and pants more, that's what I did anyways.

Who cares what your neighbours think cath, do it anyway!
Our garden was a mess til we paid someone £100 to sort it! Was worth it though, now I feel like I can keep on top of it, I couldn't before coz of being preggers and df kept saying he'd "do it tomorrow" lol.

 

[cathgibbs]

ahhh hun I wish ours would cost £100 to sort out Its looking more like £3-4k as it needs all the concrete steps to come up new concrete laid, rendering the back of the house its a LOT of work that needs going on but apparently it will be done next year - i was told this last year aswell but as they asy....a builders house is last to be done! xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

as they asy....a builders house is last to be done! xxx

My sister days the same Cath!

Maybe ill get a few more bits then as 9 will only last 3 days won't it!

Yeah I'm feeling quite depressed about the moving thing actually, feel trapped in our flat now and hubs and I are bitching at each other about it x

 

[baileybubs]

Is there no way that you could rent a house for the time being and rent out your flat cupcake?

Ah right cath, ours was just the garden, or jungle as it came to be lol! To be honest if it was our own there's more work we'd do but as we rent, once again I can't be bothered paying and our landlady won't as its passable as it is.

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies sorry I've been quiet but I'm having a really hard time with the husband I feel like he leaves everything to do with Leo for me all he does is moan tht Leo's hard work and yest I was getting my hair done stopping and starting to see to Leo and he came in from work and went straight out the back sunbathing not even asking if I need help so I cud finish with the hair and today I've had 1 txt message all day I sent a pic of Leo at his class he never replied and when I said I thot he wud of txt he asked if I had anything else I'd like to own about I'm so unhappy and can see now last year when I was so desperate to hav a baby it was really me being unhappy with him thinking a baby wud make my life whole... I now feel bad cos Leo is here and I see how boring and huffy he really is I don't kno wot to do...? Sorry for the selfish post. X how do u say to someone are u happy cos I'm not?x

 

[baileybubs]

Aw Cheryl I'm sorry you are finding it so hard with dh at the mo. Are the problems stemming from before Leo? Or are is it all related to the struggles of becoming a parent? Coz they say that it's a testing time for a relationship when you first have a baby.
Is it just that he doesn't show any interest in Leo or does he expect you to do everything for Leo because you are on maternity?

I'd maybe get your mum to have Leo for the day and plan to do something with dh and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you aren't happy and explain why. You have to be honest with him otherwise you will end up resenting him and that won't be good for you, him or Leo.

 

[CherylC3]

My mums watching him on sat for our anniversary. I think it's just I see how selfish he is now.. U kn he hasn't bought Leo one thing with his own money everything was with money ppl gave us plus I buy stuff for him but not once has he came in with something for him. X

 

[SATH]

Cath poor little dora give her a fuss from me. She must be v fed up.

Cupcake you must be sooo hot def good idea bowl with cold water and ice and feet in. Caths good idea what about renting your flat out and moving. Wherever you are will have such special memories it will be lbbc first home.

Bailey everyone deserves a treat and in this weather bbq and wine are essential. Ive been rubbish too if that helps im not goin to bother gettin weighed tonight.

Cheryl hun sending you the biggest virtual hugs. Some men are useless when it comes ti expressig things. I always remember my mum saying dad got jealous when babies came along do you think its a little of that? Im sure once leo gets older he will be more hands on. Must be so stressful having this little being that depends in you for everything. Saturday sounds good maybe a nice day together and a good talk xxx

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I hope so Hun the 2 of us are just so huffy with each other. X

 

[cupcake1981]

Cheryl sorry you and dh are having a hard time, is your hubby a bit jealous of Leo and all the attention you give him?

Bailey we could rent a house but I can't being myself to pay all that money to rent as to get a decent place would be about double our mortgage currently.

Well I went to kiddicare after work and got loads of random bits including some more vests and babygro a as I'm panicked I don't have enough now lol. Plus we gave nappies now as hubby bought some today to.

 

[SATH]

How exciting baby shopping. Not long to go cupcake your nearly in single figures!!

 

[MrsDuck]

Just as quick post this morning as I run off to the hospital. I got here fine we just sat on the plane for 2 hrs before taking off, but at least it was nice and cool on there (and I had Internet ) I'll catch up later.

Love to you all xxxxx

 

[cathgibbs]

ahhh atleast it was cool on there MrsD and you have free WIFI!! woohooo!!

Have a lovely day and speak later xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Good luck mrs d!!

How was your pool Cath?

 

[cathgibbs]

I havent been in it yet hun We were so busy last night we only had chance to fill it up but i got a funny feeling the dog is going to burst it as hes out the garden all day - im soooo tempted to book half day but i feel like im taking the piss as i have Friday off too lol xxx

 

[Leinzlove]

Duck: Eeeek! Can't wait to hear the good news!

 

[AmyB1978]

Got everything crossed for you MrsD!