Lucky thread

[MrsDuck]

Rant away hun, I did about my shit holiday
I thought your df had grown up a bit since emilia arrived but obviously not he definitely needs to grow up and bloody man up and act like a father

Well I don't have any spotting which I normally get a couple of days before the witch shows up properly so there is still time for this elusive bfp

I'm glad you had a nice time at cheeky monkeys and yay for getting an hour to yourself, even if it was just to go to the supermarket

Aw you poor thing with your hair, is that normal?? I thought your hair got fuller and thicker when pregnant then all the extra fell out again once you have birth, oh no mine isn't very thick, I'll be left totally bald if you lose even more

 

[MrsDuck]

We need a 'like' button, well said cath xx

 

[baileybubs]

He's not getting up as late as he was but still not early enough for my liking. All I am asking is for an hour before he goes to work.
I feel really conflicted right now coz I do love him to bits and its my like he's suddenly changed, he's always been like this and it never bothered me this much before I got pregnant. It feels like I have made all these changes to become a mother (and she is worth it all) but that he's not made any changes to become a father.
Maybe it takes blokes longer to adapt it something. All I know is that I hate feeling like this all the time. It makes me feel like a right moody coz but I was in a great mod today until he asked if he could get Xbox live. I know it's not much money but I can't remember the last time I spent anything like that amount on myself, I feel guilty just buying my Avon lol!!

Anyways he's gone back to work now so I'm just trying to chill and see if he can drag his arse out of bed on time tomorrow morning lol!

How's your foot now Hun? Be careful you don't make it worse Hun, torn ligaments are so painful and hard to heal.

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah it was nice, and brought cake home to! Yummy!

 

[baileybubs]

Ooh glad to hear that the BFP may still be on the cards mrs d!

Yeah apparently it's quite common to lose hair like this. My friend said it happened to her with both her pregnancies and it was in the same place, along the hairline like mine.

 

[baileybubs]

Ooooh what cake cupcake?

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw that posted too soon, was gonna say bailey I had mac and cheese with bacon, and brought home some chocolate torte cake for later on!

I can't believe your df, he's so frustrating!!!!!! When does he even have time to play Xbox?!? Don't worry about the hair, it's completely normal apparently, it will grown back. The sacrifice we make with our bodies to have kids is never ending isnt it.

Mrs d I still think your gonna get a bfp, I just have this feeling.

 

[cathgibbs]

Awww Bailey. ...I just wanna give you a massive cwtch! How many hours a day max does he spend with Emilia for you to have some 'you' time? I would have gone a bit nuts by now hun. Does he not realise that your body has gone through major changes for Emilia - not that you mind- but that money could have been spent o something for you ?

Foot is killing me hun xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Mrsd im hoping a line will suprise you tomorrow hun...got everything x for you xxxx

Ohhh cupcake sounds yumny! Xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Mmm chocolate cake

I've just got on the scales and I've put on over half a stone in a fortnight! I'm blaming my thyroid but it's more likely down to all the croissants etc I ate in France ooops!

I was going to ask if the hair grows back, thanks for answering that cupcake

Cath does putting your foot in a bucket of hot water help? Hot water seems to ease most other aches and pains

 

[baileybubs]

Aw thanks ladies. I don't know what to do anymore. It's like we are repeating a cycle and can't get out; he does something to annoy me, he apologises, we eventually make up, he does it again! I keep wondering if its me that just needs to stop getting so annoyed all the time but then I think if he acted like a grown up I wouldn't get annoyed!

Yeah it does grow back mrs d, it's just annoying right now.

Cath he spends about an hour with her on days when he works, but usually it's just after I have fed her so she ends up sleeping the whole time for him!
I agree with mrs d about the hot water, have you tried that?

Mrs d croissants are worth it though, yum!!! I love them warm with real butter mmmmm

 

[SATH]

Bailey hon you have the patience of a saint. Df needs to wake up he's not a 15 year boy but a father with a beautiful fiance and daughter.!!

Cupcake ladies who lunch you lucky lady. Yummy xx

cath ouch hope your foot is easing. Elevation and cool i always find helps.

Mrs d i think that will be your last bfp cos tomorrow me thinks a line will appear. Your symptoms and no spotting - its gotta be.

Cheryl hon how you doing. Im sure once Leo is toddling about you oh wont be able to get enough. How did the hair colouring go.

Well if i ever get preg sounds like after birth im gonna need a wig my hair is too thin now!!

Sore boobs thats it for me day 6/7 depends how you do it. I always have sore boobs im not expecting anything. Phoned gp so being referred he doesnt think it will take long fingers crossed.

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks Sath, I don't know now else to get through to him anymore. I feel like a broken record.
It's funny everyone said "he'll soon change once baby comes" and "he'll be responsible once he sees that baby" buy I'm still waiting for it lol! Men eh?

Sore boobs are still a good sign though Sath, especially at 6-7 dpo coz that would be around implantation perhaps!!

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey it's extreme, but have you thought about giving him a scare....like going to stay with your mum for a few days, say you need a break for a few days and a some support from your mum.....might give him a kick up the butt!

 

[baileybubs]

I was considering that but it would just make me angrier that I feel I have had to leave the comfort of my own home. With having Emilia I find it hard just being at my mums for the day let alone overnight coz I like being in my own environment with her if that makes sense. And I'd kick him out lol, but that seems too extreme I think.
I was thinking of leaving him with Emilia for the whole day but I don't know where I'd go lol!

 

[SATH]

Very good idea cupcake. Bailey you must be exhausted your doing it all yourself so a bit of tlc at your mums would do you good and give df a realisation he needs to improve his ways.

 

[baileybubs]

Lol, I think I'd get more stressed at my mums Sath, love them to bits but they aren't much help either, my mum adores Emilia but only when she's not crying haha! She's never been the most maternal, god knows how she managed with me and my brother lol.

 

[SATH]

Bailey that would be good bonding all day daddy time. You could go to the pics, potter round a garden centre.

I think if i went to my mums i wouldnt get a look in i'd lose my baby. She does love her grandcats

 

[baileybubs]

Lol her grand cats I love that Sath!

Ooooh pictures is a good idea though, and maybe a little shopping seen as he just spent £120 on an Xbox lol! Might just have to do that on weds when he's off! Although I think he has a driving lesson at 11am, maybe thurs.

 

[MrsDuck]

Bailey you definitely have way more patience than me. I think leaving df with emilia for the whole day is a wonderful idea, that way he'd find out how hard it is and then maybe he'd be more appreciative of you xx

Sath sore boobs is a great sign, my hair is thin too, I'd love nice thick hair

Still no spotting here so who knows what tomorrow will bring