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[baileybubs]

Aw cupcake that sucks!!! Have you told him you don't want him to do that? In a way I guess I am lucky my df works NY Eve so we don't end up having that argument! It sucks how much mums lives have to change and dads don't! Or they don't think they have to anyway! It makes me laugh coz df is always saying that I don't wanna go out anyway so why am I "jealous" when he goes out......he fails to realise that I don't wanna go out coz a) I'm knackered b) I will no doubt have to be up early next day an c) want to be at home with my daughter. Why don't men understand this and feel the same way? I think it takes men a lot longer to adjust to being parents.

It's apparently not a wonder week but I do think mrs d may be right and she's got a bit of a cold too or maybe it's the teething and all the developmental stuff again. She is constantly pulling up to stand now and is dying to be walking but she's so impatient she's trying too soon and hasn't the balance so keeps falling! I feel terrible coz earlier she fell right next to me and I just wasn't quick enough to catch her, felt like I was watching her whack her head in slow motion!!

 

[cupcake1981]

Yes exactly bailey all what you just said above. I'm upset cos he was more worried about letting his mate down by not going to his party than upsetting his wife and mother of his child by leaving her alone in NYE.

Sorry I don't get to come on here hardly ever and when I do I Just moan and make selfish posts

 

[baileybubs]

Don't be daft Hun, we are here to help! Vent away! You must be so annoyed! Does he have any clue he's upset you or why?

 

[cupcake1981]

Yes I couldn't bite my lip any longer. Today had been a good day and he's just bloody blown it. I'm really hurt

 

[baileybubs]

Aw I'm sorry Hun, men can think so selfishly at times, then blame us for snapping or being hormonal, all it takes is a little more thought on their part but sometimes you'd think we were asking too much wouldn't you?!
Where is he now Hun? I usually get the silent treatment from df when we fall out (he knows it drives me bonkers!)

 

[cupcake1981]

Sitting next to me on the sofa, I've had an apology but it doesn't really make me feel better

 

[baileybubs]

Was it a real apology or just the word sorry? I hate it when people use the word but don't mean it.
Is he still gonna go out on NY Eve?

 

[cupcake1981]

I think he's genuinely sorry for being so thoughtless. He says he's only going to go for an hour or so but who knows x

 

[cupcake1981]

Enjoy your scan today bailey xx

 

[CherylC3]

Hey

Mrs d my sickness comes and goes feel alto better this time. Yeah for unpacking a bet u can't wait to be settled x

Bailey it's so hard when there trying to do things and fall Leo keeps going flat on his face trying to crawl. X

Cupcake I'm so sorry can't believe he's going out on ur first new year my dh is also working.. He keeps asking can Leo stay over at his mums but no way she's 73 lives 30min drive away and she lives alone and he's only been at hers once I'm I being unreasonable saying no?x

 

[cupcake1981]

I don't think you're being unreasonable saying no Cheryl, I'd say the same. That's definitely not a safe situation for a small baby. What if she were to fall ill suddenly and there was no one to take care of Leo? But then I'm hugely over protective so maybe someone less neurotic than me might think it's ok!

Maybe your having a girl this time as your less ill x

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw sorry your hubby is being insensitive cupcake, I hope he doesn't stay out all night or come home really drunk xx

Nope Cheryl I don't think you are being unreasonable at all xx

Bailey any pics? xx

 

[AmyB1978]

Bailey, is everything ok???

 

[baileybubs]

Sorry ladies I had to go back to work and was on til 5pm so couldn't update. Everything was fine and baby was wriggling away.

Cupcake hope you and hubby are a bit better now

Cheryl no that's not unreasonable at all Hun I wouldn't either in that situation

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Bailey people can be very judgemental on here, and on any forum where they are anonymous in fact. I think people like to argue for the sake of it rbh. And don't worry hubby had to return my present cos I didn't like it, he bought me some jewellery which was totally not my style, rather than him spending loads on sonething I will never wear I was honest and he's got his money back and I'll chose something I do like...we don't have enough money to waste it on sonething that'll just sit in my drawer! Maybe I'm ungrateful to!

Mrs d hope that house is getting sorted out!!!

These scans are all so exciting, I'm a little envious x

I'm envious too cupcake.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Thanks guys, I'm ok, things came to a bit of a head yesterday and I almost moved Zach and I up to my mums for a few days, but I didn't in the end. He says I'm not like a wife anymore I'm just Zachs mummy

hang in there!

 

[baileybubs]

Hey ttc happy new year! Have you been doing more bding? Lol

How is everyone?

 

[MrsDuck]

It's very quiet on here, everyone busy I suppose?

We've just ordered a bathroom whoo hoo, that will be one room done god I miss a shower

 

[MrsDuck]

Ooh and we've just arranged to be connected to mains water even more whoo hoo, no more green water

 

[baileybubs]

Hi mrs d! Eurgh green water? Am I reading that right lol!!

Well I've just had to put miss cranky pants to bed early coz she has been whinging since 4pm and refused her tea. I blame df, he woke her this morning during her nap so she's not had enough sleep today.

So how's your Christmas in your new house been Hun? Have you had a good holiday season?