Lucky thread

[Tawn]

Awww I couldn't leave without saying WE LOVE YOU MRSD!

Honestly, you are an inspiration hun!

Now, I really am going! Nigh' Nigh'! (that the way the Murray fam says goodnight! lol!)

 

[baileybubs]

Night mrs d!! And you know we are always here to help/listen/entertain!!

 

[baileybubs]

And I agree with Tawn, dont forget that you are amazeballs!!

 

[MrsDuck]

Aww thank you hun you brought a tear to my eye xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Night mrs d hope you get a better sleep tonight xxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Right ladies, I hate to run also, its like a mass evacuation, but my oh is finally home from work and for once I'm not going straight to bed so I can finally spend a bit of time with him.

Night night everyone, and good morning mummy2 and anyone else on the other side of the world!

 

[Poppy84]

Night mrs d!!!! Awww Tawn ur so right
Sleep well

 

[Poppy84]

Night bailey. Sleep well x

 

[cupcake1981]

Night Bailey, I'm off to! x

 

[ShellieLabTek]

I finally have a chance to sit and ready a few pages before i go to sleep and everybody's in bed!!! lol... thats what you get for living in a different time zone lol

I think, sadly, they are just too used to it if that makes sense? Maybe they forget that a woman's entire world just caved in, when for them it is just a day at the office?

I agree, sometimes it seems that way, especially because it happens so often. My guess is they don't want to be emotionally involved as it can interfer with their work but I think they need to remember you cant seem like it's nothing either. I know in the lab at my hospital whenever I do a preg test on a patient thats positive and see their diagnosis as vag bleed, I get taken back and hate that another woman might be about to go throu what i went through, but i always hope they'll be one of the lucky ones and all will still be ok with their little one.

At least you have an excuse for preggo brain bailey I'm permanently like that haha

I'm the same Mrs. Duck! lol

....

Shellie, have you O'd yet?

I don't think so but ...

my opk today! I took it while i was at work today. I kno it's thinner then the control line but I'm pretty sure it's just as dark!

(I hope u can see it, i know there was some issues last time i posted a pic)

Things are happening a lot faster this month then I expected! I was expecting to have just started into my fertile phase when I start my week off in 2 days, rather then inches away from Oing already! The last time we had BDed was 3 days ago so the second i got home from work today and realized OH was in the shower, I stripped naked and jumped right in ... needless to say we ended up in the bedroom!! timing wise it kinda sucks that it's come early, but hopefully since I was able to get to OH today we've got a chance.

No BDing tomorrow as our shifts clash and we wont see each other, and Saturday we might not be able to since OH's mum is spending the night (OH says we could just do it quietly as I tend to be kinda loud LOL but he thinks i'll be too embarrassed to do it with his mom just down the hall!)... by that time i'll probably have O'd already...oh well, today may just have to do!

Hope everyone is doing splendidly! I'm in a good mood and hope everyone else is too

 

[cathgibbs]

Morning ladies I thought I would drop by and say iv been up since 4am with the most horrendous af pains and right on time 5.30am af showed up,I'm so happy as my cycles are more or less back to normal Woop xxxx

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Hi girls! :wave: And thanks Tawn! Im a bit bummed I've been missing you all too. And I was on early this morning (which was last night for all of you), but was way back on page 949 or something, so I'm only just caught up and I didn't see til now that you were noticing me lurking.

Westendmum - Welcome lovely! You'll find the girls in here are amazing. So ask us anything about any concern you might have. I'm so sorry about your bad experience with nurses They're not much better in Australia, but I think Shellie is right that it would probably affect their ability to do their job if they were too emotional about it. Still, there has to be a happy medium. I think it's safe to say you absolutely were pregnant though hun, as like you've said, you passed the gestational sac the other day. My pain and the majority of bleeding settled right down after that too, so I'm hoping your recovery will blitz along now. Make sure you take whatever time you need though so you can grieve. And like Tawn said just don't be too hard on yourself. We're all here to support you too, so even though DH is being amazing, truth is we'll probably be able to cope better with what you're feeling than guys are able to in the long run.

Mrs D - I hope you managed a good sleep last night. I hadn't thought about you having to sit up, you poor thing. And I agree with the others, you are amazing. Such a trooper, and quite an inspiration xx We love you.

Bailey - You're a total sweetheart! Taking those extra shifts out of caring for your residents... I do hope you can start feeling ok about saying no more often though. Your body will thank you for it x

Cath - I understand needing to pull back for a bit, but please don't think that anyone is irritated by you for you posting pics etc. That's what this site is for! And we want to be here for you no matter how crazy or annoying you think you're being (even though you're not!).

Cupcake - Did I miss you say that you thought AF is on her way? Hoping that's true and you'll be back in the game asap.

I know I'm forgetting everyone else, but I've read so much my brain is fried!! Working tonight too so I won't have a chance to get back on till you're all asleep again tomorrow night, or maybe even Saturday morning (which will be Saturday night for me).

So it might seem a little crazy, but... I bought a little pink dress today in a newborn size... My DD helped me pick it out and I decided it was something I wanted to do and put away for our rainbow - obviously provided we have a girl. I've done it as a bit of a faith step, and wanted to get a little boy outfit too, but we just couldn't find anything this morning! Then DD told me she was having a sister anyway (!), so I thought I'd leave it at that for the minute. Hopefully 'she's' already enroute to my uterus and we'll get to meet her in 8 1/2 months time


Have a gorgeous Friday everyone!!

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Morning ladies I thought I would drop by and say iv been up since 4am with the most horrendous af pains and right on time 5.30am af showed up,I'm so happy as my cycles are more or less back to normal Woop xxxx

Morning Cath Glad that AF is here and basically on time. I hope she's kinder to you than she was at 4am! Have some pain killers and try to get back to sleep x

 

[cathgibbs]

Thank you hun I managed another hour before work,how are you? It's so cute that you bought a dress I love it when will you be testing xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Ah Cath I'm so jealous AF you lucky thing lol! Not long til she is over you are back ttc!!! Is this the first since your mc?

Mummy, aw how sweet a little baby girl outfit, I think that's a real PMA thing to do. No I don't think AF is on her way, I only stopped bleeding from surgery 2 weeks ago and that's when the HPTs went totally -. Although I think I may have ovd around that time to. No idea!

Am still feeling really emotional this am....hubs started coming on to me when we woke up and I really didn't want as (TMI alert) I really needed the loo and it just wasn't doing anything for me, then I got upset as things in that dept are really not happening at the mo cos I'm just not into it, don't know whether it's hormones, being worried about getting preg b4 my jabs and just in general...I just hate feeling like this as normally that part is so good and I miss him Maybe AF is on her way as it does feel like PMS a bit, who knows!

Hope everyone else is ok this am and not feeling to sick!

Mrs d did you get a lovely sleep? X

 

[CherylC3]

Morning ladies sorry I've not been on much but I'm just so tired and this sickness won't budge so once I'm in from work I'm in bed or puking in the toilet

Yeh for af cath...x

Cupcake hope u get urs soon..x

Mummy yeh for baby outfit x

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Cath - I'm going to test on Fathers' Day which is the first Sunday in September here, so the 2nd of Sept. I will only be 10DPO, but if it's pos, both our DD and our rainbow will have been 'found out' on Fathers' Day. So that's what I'm praying for. It would be just perfect! And we fly to Melbourne the next day for our holiday.

And yeah Cupcake, I thought that too about PMA! I just feel like I needed to step out in faith that our new bub won't be too far away. I picked a little summery dress too which will be perfect for May weather here, so here's hoping it gets worn (or the only reason it doesn't is that Missy Moo ends up with a brother instead!).

Sorry for getting your cycle all confused. I knew that about your MC and hCG - sorry! I'm sure all will reveal itself very soon and you'll be back into this crazy TTC caper in no time x What have you got planned for the weekend?

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Ah Cath I'm so jealous AF you lucky thing lol! Not long til she is over you are back ttc!!! Is this the first since your mc?

Mummy, aw how sweet a little baby girl outfit, I think that's a real PMA thing to do. No I don't think AF is on her way, I only stopped bleeding from surgery 2 weeks ago and that's when the HPTs went totally -. Although I think I may have ovd around that time to. No idea!

Am still feeling really emotional this am....hubs started coming on to me when we woke up and I really didn't want as (TMI alert) I really needed the loo and it just wasn't doing anything for me, then I got upset as things in that dept are really not happening at the mo cos I'm just not into it, don't know whether it's hormones, being worried about getting preg b4 my jabs and just in general...I just hate feeling like this as normally that part is so good and I miss him Maybe AF is on her way as it does feel like PMS a bit, who knows!

Hope everyone else is ok this am and not feeling to sick!

Mrs d did you get a lovely sleep? X

Oh, and Cupcake, I've been all over the place too emotionally. I'm sure it's more than just a little bit hormonal, but you have to remember too that our bodies have been through so much, and a normal pregnancy in its early stages is hard enough without having a loss and your body having to 'work it out'. Give yourself some slack and try just talking to DH about how off you're feeling - that you miss him but you're just not in a good place right now for what he's after. If you've only just stopped bleeding I don't blame you either.

 

[cathgibbs]

Cupcake - i was like that last night - i cried looking at the Asda baby sale leaflet then this morning i got AF maybe yours will arrive tomorrow? its been 25 days since HCG was at 0 so maybe yours will arrive soon hun we can be in the same cycle together?

Cheryl im sorry your still feeling rough hun its all good signs tho!!

Mummy i remember you saying about fathers day - i think thats a good sign for you, i have everything x for you hun!!

Sorry about last night ladies i just think everything got to me and i just needed time away but since AF is here i feel so much better and im ready for ttc this month!!!!

I hope everyone is good today xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Hopefully this is a good sign ladies!

Mummy hubs and I have talked about and he is lovely, not putting any pressure on me but I guess I feel guilty as he is living like a monk at the moment!

What is everyone up to this weekend? My SIL is down from
Yorkshire with her Oh so will spending some time with them, not seen her since our wedding!