Lucky thread

[cathgibbs]

Yeh thats what i thought MrsD, ill contnue with the opks for this month and then Digis for next month!

Awwww thats nice hun, have a nice catch up drink lots of tea and eat lots of biscuits! xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

TAWN!!! HIYA!!!

Ahhhhhh im glad MS is here - not that i want to inflict sickness onto you lol_ you know what i mean! do you feel better now that you have MS? Id love to have MS!!! I think telling him will be good hun - nothing will go wrong so you dont have to worry about that, ahhh DS will be so happy!!

xxx

 

[Tawn]

Haha Cath, I know what you mean! When you get your BFP this month, I am going to wish loads and loads of MS for you hun

I feel pretty good about everything at the moment, tbh. It makes me and DH laugh when I suddenly gag opening the cupboard under the sink and smelling the rubbish bin etc! I am trying to find joy and humor in it, if that makes sense?

I don't have the gazillion symptoms that a lot of the other first tri ladies have, but I am just going to sit back and call myself lucky and take each day as it comes. Honestly, my prayers were answered that it was in the right place, so now that I don't have to worry about my health/safety for a rupture, I am determined to be happy!

ANNNNNNDDD I can't wait for all of you lovelies to join me! I deffo want to make a preg club and baby club to continue the lucky thread on! I think it is good for my marriage to have this venting space

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw tawn sorry and yay at the same time for ms x

We all can't wait to join you too and a pregnancy lucky thread and a baby lucky thread sounds great x

This thread saves our oh/dhs shed loads of earache xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Good for my marriage that made me lol then Tawn!!

Dont matter about other preg symptoms hun, as long as you have MS its a really good sign i know not everyone has MS but i would LOVE MS i think to us women who have suffered loss its a bit of comfort? has SS said anything to you yet about being tired/sick??

Oh yes def have to set up a preg group when we all get our BFP!

This might be a bit TMI but in your fertile week during sex do you find it really sensitive as if your cervix is in the way??

xxx

 

[Tawn]

Hmmm, I don't think I've ever felt that Cath? I think that when I O, my cervix gets realllllllly high (like I can barely tough it) so it doesn't get hit or anything while dtd during fertile week.

Do you ever check your cervical position or do you just go by cm?

 

[cathgibbs]

TMI but it feels really deep!! the last time we dtd was Sunday so i was hungover as i got very drunk in the wedding on Saturday, we are dtd again tonight so ill see if it happens again, ohhhh no i cant do that, i just checked my cm internally for the first time today and i didnt like it lol my cm is quite stretchy now so i think O is going to happen in the next couple of days!! i dont think iv ever been so excited lol its taking my mind off smoking so much! xxx

 

[Tawn]

Lol, you made me chuckle with you saying how much you didn't like checking your cm Cath! I would have thought, with how much you love to POAS you would love checking cm and cervical position and the like too!

Well, either way just keep dtd every other night (YAY for stretchy CM!) and you will have a huge reason to keep up with the no-smoking! I have to say it is amazing that you are stopping, try and be strong! It's a wonderful thing to do for your future bubba!

 

[cathgibbs]

LMFAO it made me feel quite queasy Tawn lol my face was a picture lol i dont think ill be doing that again!!!

Ahhh i know, iv only ever given up whilst pregnant so iv only gone 2 weeks without smoking and always start back up afterwards, its only been 2 days but im feeling quite good but i know tomorrow is going to be hard but i got 2 drs apt so i should take my mind off it! xxx

 

[Tawn]

LOL, that is so funny Cath. Imagine if you had passed out and OH had to find you on the loo!

OOOhh what are your two drs appts? Did you have your MOT yet?! LOL

And also, try and remember that smoking can increase your chance of ectopic so use that as motivation and I KNOW you can do it! And in about 10 days or so a little bean will be settling up shop in your uterus, making it all worth it! xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Lol he wouldnt have a clue what was going on bless him!!

I got one with my GP at 9am to see if i can go on a higer dosage of patches but i might just stick to the dose im on now seems as im doing ok............so far! the other is my MOT And my internal to check my Pelvis is ok - I have a problem though - im going to dtd tonight do you think this will affect anything tomorrow or is that just a really stupid question?!?!

Ahhhhhhhh stop it Tawn your getting me really excited lol iv told myself that if i dont get a BFP this month it will be ok as we got the holidays and OHs birthday to look forward to - and if i dont get my bfp this month i will be Ov the last few days of holidays so its not long at all!

Hows work hun, you busy? xxx

 

[Tawn]

Hahah OK, I will stop! I am just so excited cause so many of you are in the TWW or heading into it soon, it is a fun time on this thread!

Uhg, work is a pain. I am sooooo not motivated to get back into the groove after taking last week off (as evidenced by all my BnBing today!!!) Honestly, I am being so lazy! LOL

How about you hun? Do I remember you saying you have a new supervisor? Or was that someone else?

 

[cathgibbs]

lol everyime i do a OPK i pretend its a HPT and get excited when i see the line how SAD is that lol i then imagine me going for my early scan to check if its ectopic or not, i really need to get out more lol!!

Ohhhhhhhhhh its such a struggle after having time off hun! you work from home aswell dont you?!? There must be so many distractions!!

Yeh shes ok now i think she found her boots and realised that she cant speak to us like children so shes settled in quite well which is good! xxx

 

[ShellieLabTek]

Hi ladies.

Sorry I didn't post anything yesterday. I was upset and wasn't in a good mood. Actually I'm still not in a good mood now, but I figure you all might help cheer me up. I haven't read back but I will try to once I don't feel like crying anymore.

So I wasn't supposed to do a preg test until today as it being 12 DPO for me and that's the length of my LP. But when I was at work yesterday they needed a volunteer who wouldnt mind having some blood drawn since they needed to make sure that samples that travel in the pneumatic air tube system were giving the same results as if the samples were simply walked to the lab and dropped off. I said sure, and they took my blood. After they were done with my blood i decided hell I'm at work, have blood, I can do a preg test on my blood. Surprise, surprise, BFN So upset. Didn't help that later on OH was pissed off at me for having forgotten the step stool in the kitchen (I'm 5'2'' I always need it!) and he kicked it and hurt his toe, but somehow he thinks because I'm a forgetful person it means I don't care about him or give a sh*t. As if I would try to do those things on purpose to hurt him!

Now this morning I have brown spotting. Which means by tonight or tomorrow morning AF will be here.

And to make it all worse I had two bad dreams. First one I was having another miscarriage . After I woke up, made OH's lunch for work & kissed him goodbye, I crawled back into bed and cried. I was thinking how we've just reached the one year mark on me stopping the pill. Also thought about how it looks like next cycle I'm going to be getting my period practically on our angel's due date . I really really really wanted to be pregnant before then. I donno how i'm even going to survive next month. And now this new cycle about to start is the last cycle where I could have a baby before our wedding. After that I'm either practically giving birth at the wedding or I'll have a giant belly. THis is assuming I can even get preggo again . I finally fell back asleep, only to have another dream. You may not want to read this next dream as it's disturbing, especially for those who are currently pregnant

Spoiler

I was pregnant and in labor lying on a steel table. I remember thinking that the pain wasn't as bad as I expected, and there were two ladies there. I don't know if they were medical staff as they were in normal clothing. I'm not even sure I was in a hospital. but no one else was there, I was alone. OH wasn't there. I never heard any crying once the baby came out. The lady who grabbed the babe when I delievered I thought was passing the baby to me, but then I see the umbilical cord going over my head as she passed the baby to the other lady. Then the first lady says "After all this work to get here, looks like your baby is just going to die" She then tells the lady holding the baby to try and save it, and so she stabs the baby in the abdomen with a scalpel and starts squeezing out what looks like puss . I still don't hear any crying, and then they take off with my baby, and I never know what happened

And my 20 year old cousin who my mom said she thought had I not lost the baby would have been due around the same time, just had her baby ...

And it looks like the weather is suiting my mood today, as there is a storm outside my window right now ...

I'm all out of PMA girls

 

[Tawn]

Awww Shellie, I am so sorry to hear about the bfn, and the awful nightmares and overall just sh*tty time you are having hun

Honestly, I don't know what to say because it sounds like a lot of emotions are coming to a head for you due to the timing with your angel, and that must be so unbelievably hard and I know I can't really make that any easier. But just know we are all here for you to help get you through your angel's DD as much as we can

 

[shelbysioux]

Hi ladies.

Sorry I didn't post anything yesterday. I was upset and wasn't in a good mood. Actually I'm still not in a good mood now, but I figure you all might help cheer me up. I haven't read back but I will try to once I don't feel like crying anymore.

So I wasn't supposed to do a preg test until today as it being 12 DPO for me and that's the length of my LP. But when I was at work yesterday they needed a volunteer who wouldnt mind having some blood drawn since they needed to make sure that samples that travel in the pneumatic air tube system were giving the same results as if the samples were simply walked to the lab and dropped off. I said sure, and they took my blood. After they were done with my blood i decided hell I'm at work, have blood, I can do a preg test on my blood. Surprise, surprise, BFN So upset. Didn't help that later on OH was pissed off at me for having forgotten the step stool in the kitchen (I'm 5'2'' I always need it!) and he kicked it and hurt his toe, but somehow he thinks because I'm a forgetful person it means I don't care about him or give a sh*t. As if I would try to do those things on purpose to hurt him!

Now this morning I have brown spotting. Which means by tonight or tomorrow morning AF will be here.

And to make it all worse I had two bad dreams. First one I was having another miscarriage . After I woke up, made OH's lunch for work & kissed him goodbye, I crawled back into bed and cried. I was thinking how we've just reached the one year mark on me stopping the pill. Also thought about how it looks like next cycle I'm going to be getting my period practically on our angel's due date . I really really really wanted to be pregnant before then. I donno how i'm even going to survive next month. And now this new cycle about to start is the last cycle where I could have a baby before our wedding. After that I'm either practically giving birth at the wedding or I'll have a giant belly. THis is assuming I can even get preggo again . I finally fell back asleep, only to have another dream. You may not want to read this next dream as it's disturbing, especially for those who are currently pregnant

Spoiler

I was pregnant and in labor lying on a steel table. I remember thinking that the pain wasn't as bad as I expected, and there were two ladies there. I don't know if they were medical staff as they were in normal clothing. I'm not even sure I was in a hospital. but no one else was there, I was alone. OH wasn't there. I never heard any crying once the baby came out. The lady who grabbed the babe when I delievered I thought was passing the baby to me, but then I see the umbilical cord going over my head as she passed the baby to the other lady. Then the first lady says "After all this work to get here, looks like your baby is just going to die" She then tells the lady holding the baby to try and save it, and so she stabs the baby in the abdomen with a scalpel and starts squeezing out what looks like puss . I still don't hear any crying, and then they take off with my baby, and I never know what happened

And my 20 year old cousin who my mom said she thought had I not lost the baby would have been due around the same time, just had her baby ...

And it looks like the weather is suiting my mood today, as there is a storm outside my window right now ...

I'm all out of PMA girls

Shellie i'm so sorry for you, it's so unfair I really feel for you

 

[fletch_W]

hi girls!

tawn and cath you two have been chatty today! hope youre both okay?

tawn yay for ms! i think you should tell ds. he will be so happy to get a brother or sister

cath im excited for you to o

shellie im so sorry hunny your dreams wont have helped either. i wish i could say something to make you feel better. are you certain bloods would show this early? iv never had bloods done so i havent a clue.

afm im cramping up a storm today. on both sides but mostly the right side so must be oing. and my baps hurt which iv never had before. i have been gipping all day and farty too. sorry tmi

so the two pics i have added. the left one is yesterdays and the right one is one i took just now. i will take another tomorrow. does the opk go neg the day after o? or does it stay positive? i have no clue

 

[fletch_W]

shelby!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Fletch glad you got those spermies, not sure about the shower but I'm sure it must be fine coz they are inside, theres too much to think about when ttc isn't there x

Cheryl sorry ms is back, I hope you feel a bit better by the time you go to work x

Cath you make me laugh, poor oh being rejected coz its not the right time haha x

Ttcbaby today are your bloods right, I hope you get some answers x

Cupcake the apple scone is what I'm going to make today, it's extra yummy hot and with ice cream yumm. How are you today? x

Bailey I agree with ttcbaby but I'd still be pissed with oh if I was you, men hhmmph x

Morning everyone else :wave:

Thanks. Yes, had my bloods this morning and still waiting on word from the doc's office. i hate that it takes them so long to get back to you.

 

[fletch_W]

ttcbaby did you take another hpt? hoping you get some answers xxxx