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The main risk is infection to me and to them but I'm being monitored. The other risk before 24 wks is lung development but as I had measurable fluid last week at 23 he thinks they'll be ok. And Im still leaking so still have just now. The other main risk is prematurity obviously but we can't change what's happened.

The longer they cook the less risks in that sense but the longer the risk for infection. I've to decide when to intervene for fetal distress etc (section) they won't monitor until that point we we wouldn't induce right now as the risks are so high. I've to tell him Thursday but think 28 weeks maybe? If was a singleton maybe 27 but twins are usually smaller and higher risk.

I am just glad I'm more in charge now than before
 
Aw dani how are u? Are u still in the hospital? I think they will be ok Hun..x

Bailey wots ur plans today?x

Hey cath u working Hun?x

Ttc is it tomoro for ur scan Hun?xx
 
I'm ok. Good and bad days. The not knowing Is worst.

Could be here another 10 wks but a small price to pay!
 
Aw Tawn you look lovely, amazing bump!

Dani I think they will stay put a whole longer hun, have a good feeling.

Bailey what you up to?

Cheryl how was your class?
 
So what is the decision you have to make then dani? Sorry I got confused? How is G doin with L and F? Are they all ok? X
 
Oh yeah Cheryl, hope you didn't fall asleep in your class lol!! How was it?

I'm not doing much cupcake, df is making some lunch for us soon. We are supposed to be going to his mates house for this Chinese but I really don't think I want to lol!
 
a lot of things to think about then hun? they will be a lot smaller but atleast then they have an extra 4 weeks to grow. haha i had one too that night well not a romantic one as i was on my own lol i love the candle on the iphone :-D

Hey Cheryl, yep im in work boooo only a short week this week,

How was your class?

Bailey why dont you want to go hun? im craving a chinese so bad, have done forthe past 3 weeks lol!

Anyone remember Marlee? Iv just been reading back to last year on this thread and seen her and i see shes pg again xxx
 
Cath - I don't want to go coz I have to drive there, and I've never really spoke to df's mate and his wife except to say hi briefly.
 
I often wonder about the ladies that have dropped off this thread Cath like maryanne and shelly. I wonder how they are doing.
 
Yeah it makes you wonder how they all are doesn't it cupcake? Wonder if they got their BFPs coz I don't even think Shellie comes on bnb anymore
 
I'm just waiting on my dad coming for me to take me a food shop..yeah I wonder about all the girls tht used to be on here like mummy2one too..x
 
Thanks ladies!

Dani, I'm so glad you feel a bit more in control now hun! Those babies are definitely making it until 28 weeks! You are being so strong and patient! :hugs:

Bailey, maybe it might be awkward at first but it might be a good thing to foster this friendship with DF and this other guy. Sounds like this other bloke is a bit more "grown up" than DF and would be a good friend for him to relate to as he tries to grow up and change after Millie is here. And who knows, you and the wife might really hit it off!

Cheryl, I wonder about everyone who left the thread too! Mummy2One is on the FB group though, and is doing well! I think she is about 26 weeks now?

Cath, I cannot believe that you ate all that dominos by yourself! LOL. You are blessed with one amazing metabolism hun! ;) How's work today? Any more talk of redundancies?

Cupcake, have you made a FB announcement yet? Or are you going to wait a while longer? I don't know how you are resisting telling the world!!

Amy, I see you there viewing the thread hun! HELLO!!! :) Hope you and Emily are doing wonderfully today.

AFM I am sick of the cold and snow! Granted the sun is shining right now so it is pretty, but with 19 days until it is officially spring, I could use some milder weather, that is for sure! I might have to have a snow suit ready for Madison at this rate, it is so bitterly freezing and supposedly not changing till after Easter!!! YUCK!
 
Tawn, beautiful bump and your energy amazes me! You are super-domestic-goddess!!!

Dani, so glad you are more in control now. Keeping everything crossed those twinks stay put at least for awhile longer, you are getting closer day by day to 24w!

Bailey, glad you were able to get the new sofa and not have to make a payment on it until Jan, that's fab! Hope you are feeling well and resting up and that the cramping isn't so bad today. Are you sleeping in the regular bed again now, I am assuming because I haven't heard and air mattress dramas as of late! :) Loved your bump pic!

Cath, how are the OPKs and how are you? Anything new and exciting going on that we don't know of or that I missed?

MrsD, glad you had a good weekend with your DH, and you definitely sounded secretly excited that he is snowed in. Is he still there now?

Cupcake, the worry lessens as the pregnancy goes on but then comes back in unexpected waves (at least it did for me.) I tried to enjoy and embrace each moment that I had with her though, to allow myself to buy things and be pregnant/nest/etc. I kept telling myself "I am more pregnant then I've ever been" and reassuring myself. It helped alot once she hit 24 weeks and I knew that, no matter what, she at least had a shot (sorry Dani if that comments makes your current reality hit home harder :hugs:) Now that she is here it is an entirely different kind of worry... I think I will worry about her, on one way or another, forever!

Cheryl, the clothes are so cute!! I can't wait to see pictures of the nursery as it comes together. How was class and how are you feeling? YAY for maternity pay!!! (I am jealous but thankfully we have savings to make me being home work anyhow!) I hope you are managing to get some rest.

TTC, your scan is tomorrow, right? I can't wait to see that little tiny peanut's picture! Keeping everything crossed for you and your rainbow! Glad you are feeling mainly tired and not too sick!

Being a Mama is the most exhausting and rewarding job out there! I've never been so tired, never worried so much... that little peanut has my heart that is for sure! I am feeling better, slowly, physically.. I still have days where I am feeling run down and sore/etc but I think, mostly, I bring that on myself by doing too much. I am feeling really emotional today for some reason.. I think part of it is still my hormones adjusting coupled with fatigue. Last night I asked DH to get another outfit and bring it to me for Emily and he didn't even know where her clothes are currently being kept (she has an entire dresser/changing table in her nursery/room but since she is living downstairs at the moment she is sharing my dresser with me as well.) When I had to tell him where they were I realized maybe I DO need to let him help me more... it's just with him working, walking the dog (I still can't because he is a menace and pulls HARD), taking his classes, and trying to do/fix some stuff around the house that I need to be doing most baby and household stuff. I also have this very strong drive/urge to help her/take care of her and can't really relax anyhow if she needs something (even if I know she is getting it.) That desire to take care of her coupled with exclusively breastfeeding just means the majority of her care is on me, I just need to make sure I am napping/resting when I can because when I don't (like yesterday) the next night and day are a lot more emotional/difficult/etc.

I love you ladies so much and how we can talk about anything and are so supportive of one another. <3
 
Awwww Amy I think letting DH help out a bit more would do you great hun, maybe let DH have her one afternoon whilst you go out shopping or meet up with friends for a coffee or something?? xxxxxx
 
Mummy2one is all good Cheryl, she is in FB, she is about 26 weeks preg and team yellow!
 
Tawn I don't feel comfortable announcing on FB until I have my bloods back, even tho our NT measurement was small I still worry about that or the other trisomys coming back on the tests and having to make a hard (and public) decision. I didnt want hubs to tell all the people that he has until I had the bloods back but he did, and I've also not told work yet (altho all my close buddies know!)

We might FB announce then but I might wait until 20 weeks x
 
Lol Tawn i was hungry haha, my metabolism is stupidly fast, im sat in work literally starving!!! Nope apparently my dept is safe so thats a relief!

Did you get much snow hun? Did you get much snow where you used to live in America?

Cupcake when will your bloods come back? xxx
 

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