Lucky thread

[cathgibbs]

doesnt help if you dont get much EWCM? My body has been backwards this month, the amount of CM i have had since O is unreal so i think i may invest in some, i shall wait a cycle first because the amount of tests i buy plus the £15....I think id be skint lol!!

Ohhhh MrsD deffo legs in the air jobby!! I wont be able to sleep after using it i think id be too uncomfortable!! I was doing the legs in the air before and thats how i caught lol.....twice....although OH thinks its to do with this 'Super sperm'!! haha xxx

Whats everyone having for food tonight?! im having Kievs, new pots in garlic and herb butter and salad lol Fletch i blame you for this Kiev business! xxx

 

[WestEndMum]

Hi, I am new to this forum and wanted to join this thread.
I have just had a mc at 7w3.
My husband and I weren't trying for a baby and were surprised but delighted to get the BFP. As soon as the bleeding has stopped we are planning on trying again. At the moment, we are not going to use OPK or temp etc, just going to wait and see if nature takes it course. Maybe if nothing happens after a few months we will rethink our approach.
I am 36 and I never felt any pressure of time before but now that we have had a mc and we have both decided that we desperately want a baby I feel that we don't have anytime to lose. It has been really reassuring seeing all the positive stories on here of the women who have successfully managed to get BFP after MC. x

 

[MrsDuck]

Haha kievs (I couldn't bring myself to buy them when I was in m&s earlier I thought you'd all laugh at me) mmmm the new pots will be lovely with them with the garlic butter x

Hubby is eating a chorizo sausage thing with salad and I'm having the homemade soup my lovely neighbour made for me x

I haven't tried the legs in the air thing yet.....that's where I was going wrong x

When does your promotion kick in?

 

[fletch_W]

Its cupcake too not me! Lol cant beat a good kiev.

cupcake you have to insert it with the syringe and wait 15 mins before penetration. To get it warmed up lol. My dh is gonna have a laughing fit cos you have to squat to insert it. We will be like two little kids giggling tut.

Mrs duck my dh was due home tomorrow but rang last night to say he is staying til sunday.
My kitchen lino and flooring is black and units are dark oak so went for red. I got tes coffee sugar pots and untesils pot. And then got 6 new mugs with spots on 3 black 3 red. And then a drainer a bowl and a cutlery drawer tidy. Gonna do my bathroom next week

 

[MrsDuck]

Hi westendmum :wave: sorry you are finding yourself here but glad you chose to join our lovely thread, everyone on here is really lovely (and really chatty).

Everyone has been reassuring me that we have plenty of years left I'm 33 in nov and still ttc baby no 1 and you do too. I'm sure you will get your bfp soon, this thread is full of luck at the moment x

 

[fletch_W]

Hi west end mum! So sorry for your loss! but welcome to the best thread on bnb xxxxxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Oooh your kitchen things sound lovely, I'm desperate to do my bathroom too (I've been badgering my dh to modernise it for the past 7 years what colours are you doing for your bathroom?

Visions have come into my head now fletch haha me and hubby would be the same and I'd end up squirting it back out lol x

 

[WestEndMum]

Thanks ladies. We are still a bit shellshocked at the moment, it is just so strange one day to be making all these plans and then to have that taken away from you. We are both trying to stay positive and are keen to start again as soon as possible. It's good to have other ladies who understand!

 

[Tawn]

Welcome WestEndMum, I am so sorry for your loss You have definitely come to the right place for support though, the ladies on this thread are lovely!

Cath, basically you spend about 15 quid and you get 9 syringes that you use to insert it inside. If you do too much (the syringe has like 6 settings, and the packet even says "most women prefer it at level 3" but I thought level 2 was perfect) it will be uncomfortable but if you do just the right amount you don't really notice it.

Basically you just insert it in the bathroom about 15 mins before bd, then you are supposed to bear down to get rid of the excess so it isn't leaking out on you. So each box gives you at least 9 applications, but I still have tons left over and I used it for 2 cycles.

Like I said, I only used it when I didn't have tons of my own cm on the day that my OPK was nearing +, but the other days my body had enough of its own so I didn't bother. It has all the nutrients and stuff that your fertile cm has, so it lets spermies live longer to get out of the "hostile" vajayajay and get into the safety of the uterus and fallopian tubes! LOL

 

[Tawn]

Fletch, are you actually going to insert it in front of DH? Brave woman!!! LOL

I think that would put my DH right off!

WestEndMum, it is an awful feeling, to go from so many dreams one instant to so much grief the next. We definitely all understand hun This is a great place to voice all those feelings because we all have been there and can completely relate!

 

[MrsDuck]

Thanks ladies. We are still a bit shellshocked at the moment, it is just so strange one day to be making all these plans and then to have that taken away from you. We are both trying to stay positive and are keen to start again as soon as possible. It's good to have other ladies who understand!

I know it's heartbreaking, but this thread is full of PMA and tons of support from people who have all been through the same heartache, so feel free to vent, cry, question as much as you want xx

 

[fletch_W]

Haha nooo! I just realised i typed that wrong. He will laugh when i tell him how i have to insert it. Ill do it in the bathroom.

 

[Tawn]

Haha nooo! I just realised i typed that wrong. He will laugh when i tell him how i have to insert it. Ill do it in the bathroom.

Hahahhhahahah OK. Glad you cleared that up! I was thinking "what a mood killer!" if you busted out the preseed in bed after some foreplay

 

[cathgibbs]

Omg ladies stop it I'm literally on the bus, Mrsd.....it'll squirt back out Hahaaaaaaaaa you lot crack me up,I think I may invest in some it sounds fun lol

Westendmum I think that's what upset me the most I literally felt like someone came up to me and said 'nah its jot your time to be pregnant yet so ill just take this away from you' its horrible,you will get better in time hun take your time to grieve xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[fletch_W]

Haha stand up on the bed and squat. Lol i cant breathe for laughing im glad im home alone

 

[cathgibbs]

Omg ladies just had a freaky 5 mins,came home to a leaflet from Asda about their babysale and all the stuff they have on offer and just cried,I haven't cried for ages lol def think af is due lol xxxx

 

[fletch_W]

aw cath im sorry! xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw cath

 

[cathgibbs]

It's stupid really girls I just want to go and buy everything lol I just want a bloody bun in the oven lol line everyone else on here lol

Mrsd how you feeling today I haven't even asked you that!!! Xxx

 

[Dani Rose]

HELLO HA!!!! I'm home!!!

Fill me in on the goss!