Lucky thread

[MrsDuck]

Aw bailey you are having a shit time at the moment aren't you 5 weeks will fly by then you will be rid of that cow. I'm sure your colleagues know what a lovely lady you are xx

Could bailey have laid down funny, my mums dog tends to limp quite often after a long period of sleep, she must lie with her paw at a funny angle and it goes numb or something xx

Is you oh not around sometime tomorrow to take you to the vet or as poppy suggested can you look in the telephone book for a help line?

 

[cupcake1981]

I understand hun, but you say she will be gone in 5 weeks? That's not long hun, be the bigger person and like you say you are not at work to make friends xx

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks ladies, I know I am just being soft when it comes to the cow worker. I am the better person and I wont let if affect the way I work, but if I hear that she's talking behind my back again then I am going to my boss. She is on my side.

And Bailey was limping this morning and I thought it was just the way he slept but obviously not. My oh doesnt drive either. Bailey is currently rolling around and scratching his head and growling like a craxy dog, so he appears completely fine!! I kist dont get what this limp is about!! It doesnt appear to be painful! Strange.

 

[baileybubs]

Sorry for whining ladies.

 

[MrsDuck]

That's odd but I'm glad he's not in pain x

I'm glad your boss is on your side xx

 

[MrsDuck]

You're not whining hun don't be daft, and we're here to listen about anything xx

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah I just wondered if its his claws coz he's due a grooming and on both paws he does have long claws, maybe thats it.

He's deffo not in pain but watching him he seems worse after he's been laid down for a while. Once hes walked for a bit like around the garden he seems alright. I know I shouldnt worry too much but I seem to worry and overthing everything these days!!

Anyway ladies how are you feeling, enough of my rambling!!

 

[cupcake1981]

It could be his claws bailey....having long toenails makes your shoes hurt so I guess it could be that!

Your not whining don't be silly! We all like to come on here and have a moan sometimes!

Xx

 

[AmyB1978]

We are getting the house!!! The inspection went great, nothing major seen, just a few minor issues that aren't really even issues at all! So now we just wait (and pack and pack and pack) until we go to closing at the end of September!

Also, I finally remembered my password so i can log on to BNB at work!!! (this could be a dangerous thing as I am really tired/burnt out on my job at the moment!) I plan on just BNB'ing at the end of the day when nobody is around to catch me and I am too tired to do any proper work anyhow!

When DH texted me about the house I was so giddy, like a little kid We are going to have to get a few things for the house but with the baby coming (and me about to be off work for at least a little bit without any pay) we are going to try to keep new house purchases to a minimum. I figure we have a really long time to buy things/make it nicer. As it is I love the place!

My parents live far away and currently have to stay in a hotel when they do come visit (it is a 4 hour plane ride from here.) They had told us, long before we started considering getting a bigger place that they would pay for the bedroom furniture in our guest/2nd bedroom since, in the long run, it would save them tons of money on hotels. Originally we did not want to do that... suddenly it is okay with me/us. With all that is going on we are going to let people help out anyway they want (whether it be donating old baby/kid items, buying the baby things, buying things for the house, helping out, etc.)

Only 8 more minutes at work and then a short work day tomorrow. We are either going after I get off work tomorrow or on Sunday (it depends how tired I am after work) to start our baby registries!!!

It is exciting times!


I am sorry to all the ladies on here having a hard time... maybe my awesome week will start spreading more luck through this thread... here's hoping..

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies.. Cx

Bailey she is such a cow Hun... Glad wee baileys ok... And poop cramps are scary...x

Cupcake so sorry u told sil Hun... Hope ur ok..x

Amy yeh for the inspection Hun...x

Well I'm just getting ready for another dreaded day I'm getting worried im getting enuf fluids cos even water is making me sick. Cx

 

[MrsDuck]

Amy that is fantastic news I'm so pleased for you xx

I agree let people help you out but don't let them take over x

Wow what an exciting and busy time you have ahead of you xx

Cheryl sorry you are still so ill, have you tried drinking other fluids such as milk or a very sweet lucozade or something like that? I hope work goes ok today xx

 

[Tawn]

Wow, sounds like a really rough night for a lot of the ladies on here! massive to whoever needs them!

Bailey, I am sure furry Bailey is ok if he doesn't seem like he is in pain. I agree that calling a help line for advice is a great first step. And forget about your "cow" worker, its not like she can explain away why she didn't come into work then and also quit the next day etc etc. She is the one being childish!

Cupcake, I hope talking to your SIL helped a little bit. I know that it feels like we need to keep our mc's a secret, but it is so cathartic to speak about it!

MrsD, how are you feeling this morning hun? Are you hopeful they will be able to remove your staples and stitches on Tuesday?

Cheryl, poor you! Have your sickness bands come yet? Have you tried them?

Everyone else, good morning! I am sorry I can't write a personal message to everyone this morning, I have to leave in 10 mins to get my hair cut (for the first time in a year! GOD I am so lazy when it comes to my hair! Chop it short, grow it out, repeat on a yearly basis )

I think the bad day yesterday was catching, because as DH and I were sat watching TV last night, I suddenly got so much pain in my left (ectopic) tube I had to lie down and take deep breaths to get through it. It was a throbby/pressure pain which radiated shooting down my thigh and it was only on the left and it terrified me, frankly, about another ectopic. Which really cheesed me off because I was so happy and content with my numbers earlier in the day and then BAM laid out with serious pain worrying my face off.

Oh well, nothing I can do for it now that we are in the midst of a bank holiday weekend! I just really hope nothing traumatic happens while my dad and his gf are here, that would be so hard for them and not really a way to spend a holiday!

OK, gotta jet! Talk to you girlies later this afternoon!

 

[cupcake1981]

Lol Tawn that sounds pretty much like my hair care regime....Cheryl will be appalled! Enjoy the pampering! How is the pain now? Did it pass? The scan this week will reassure you x

I know what you say about talking being cathartic I find that to!

X

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Aw Tawn, that would have been terrifying hun How have you been since then? Can you go to A&E for an emergency scan over the weekend maybe? That may be able to put your mind at ease? Praying for you xx

 

[baileybubs]

Morning ladies,

Tawn and cupcake - I do the same with my hair!! I just recenetly cut it into a bob again lol.
I hope the pain has passed Tawn, I would imagine that the cramps were all normal but you just felt it more in your ectopic side due to the pain you went through last time. Does that make sense? I hope you are ok and I am sure that little bean is snuggled in the right place xxxx

Cupcake, how are you feeling today? How long til you get your vaccines now?

Cheryl - oh you poor thing, I really hope the ms eases up soon. Have you looked into whether you can take something like diarolyte? Its supposed to rehydrate you but I dont know if its ok in pregnancy. Just keep sipping water all day hun, I dont know how you are coping, are you off tomorrow?

Amy - excellent news on the house that is so great!! Glad you are having such an amazing week!!

Mrs d - hope you have nice plans for today, you were up early again! Did you manage to get anymore sleep?

AFM - my evening got worse. I was waiting up for my oh to come home coz I'd had that crap day and I just wanted a cuddle etc. Well by 11pm he texted me saying he'd just finished. Then he said he'd be home soon, his mate had just bought him a beer, so I got annoyed. I asked him why did he have to stay and drink the bloody beer, he could have just said no sorry my fiancee isnt well I'm going home. Anyway an hour later he said he had called a taxi half an hour ago and was still waiting. He finally got home at 12.45 and wanted to talk to me and had clearly had several beers. I told him to go away, I didnt want to talk to him and he clearly didnt care a damn about me and the baby coz he woudl rather stay at the pub drinking than come home and see if I'm ok.
He's currently still in bed and I'm still really annoyed at him. He keeps staying for drinks after work and I'm getting pissed off. Excuse my language and yet another rant. I'm not upset today, more seething with anger!

 

[baileybubs]

Hi Mummy2

 

[AmyB1978]

Tawn, if it doesn't get better or gets worse make sure to get yourself checked out. Keeping you in my thoughts/prayers.

Cheryl, so sorry you are feeling so ill. Perhaps you can talk to your Doctor about it? Have you tried applesauce? For some reason this one type of really tart applesauce settles really well for me, gets some fruit in, AND gets some "fluid" in. Take it easy when you can, I know that is hard when you are working!

Bailey, I hope your pup is feeling much better this morning! It is hard not to worry about our little ones, whether they are furry or human.

Hope everyone's day is much much better today!

 

[AmyB1978]

Bailey, Sorry your night got worse. Maybe you can talk to your fiancé, when he hasn't been drinking and you aren't in the heat of the anger, about things? Perhaps the two of you can come up with some kind of schedule where he still gets to go out but only so often? Something that will work for you both?

 

[Mummy_2_One]

Bailey, I'm sorry to hear you're having such a miserable time How is little Bailey this morning? And men can be really hard to read. He may be doing the beer after work thing as a way of de-stressing (which may or may not be related to his concerns for bub). I think you need to talk to him when he wakes up...

My DH told me this afternoon he thinks buying things now for a baby we don't have yet is stupid

 

[cupcake1981]

Lol I promised myself I'd get the hair sorted before holiday but I did a DIY fringe trim the other day so that's looking unlikely now, and actually I quite like my long bob!

Vaccines 5th of Sept, ages away still. Feeling a bit low today so gonna potter at home and make a lemon drizzle cake, have missed being at home now I'm back at horrid work! Hubs and I dtd this am which was really good, he was so lovely about yesterday am I felt he deserved a treat, and for the first time in weeks no niggley pains or anything after! Just wish it was back to baby making dtd and we didn't still have to be careful b4 the vaccines!

Bailey your oh needs a stern talking to. He needs to realise how much you need him at the moment. Are you normally quite independent and stuff if so he may not realise that your emotional needs step up a gear when your preg, even more so when PAL. Are you both off today so you could talk? xx