A little advice to everyone talking/thinking about birthing plans from someone who has been through it.. but you can totally take it or leave it...
If it's possible, try to be as open as you can about what is going to happen. I never wrote up a birthing plan as I had an idea in mind of what I wanted but thought I was open to whatever happened. Things, obviously, did not go at all according to plan and it was/is still difficult to accept. Yes, I have a beautiful daughter and we both ended up okay but delivering her was far from what I had envisioned and that loss of control/loss of my "plan"/vision has been difficult, especially since I am 99% sure we are not going to ever try to have another one (because of the risk.) I think that if I had been really set on any particular birthing plan it would have been even harder to accept what ended up happening. I really hope that all of you end up having easy/natural/according to plan births!
I am trying to think what else has been going on today...
Cheryl, Gus is adorable, love the coat!!
Cupcake, I hope you get to find out the gender as early as possible! I don't have a boy/girl feeling for you yet.
Tawn, how was life of Pi? Did you have an easy day today??
Bailey, I had 3rd Tri morning sickness as well but mine never really went away, even in 2nd Tri. I hope it eases for you! That combination of being so hungry and so sick is never fun!
Cath, I hope that you had a good dinner! I hope your OPKs are ever darker from here!!!
MrsD, I hope you were able to get some nourishment and that your throat is feeling better.
AFM, I am feeling better than I did this morning... I ate something after I posted/finished nursing Emily and it helped. That being said, I haven't rested at all today... I keep thinking I will but then my ADD brain thinks of just one more thing that needs done. Emily's been really sleepy/quiet today.. she usually is but then somedays she is even more so and it always worries me. She's nursing but doesn't seem to be going as long/taking as much as usual either. She is still having enough wet/dirty diapers though so I am trying to not be too concerned... she might just be tired/growing/etc. If it keeps up I will probably call the Dr... I can't help but worry about her but I try not to let it get out of control. She had a bath today (only gets a couple a week so her skin doesn't dry out) and I was trying some of her larger clothes on her (she has outgrown all of her preemie stuff now and is in newborn but I was wondering if any of her 0-3 month stuff would work.) I found out that most of it is still just a little too big but I did find one store's sleepers fit her quite nicely.. here is a picture of her in her "big girl" clothes...