Lucky thread

[MrsDuck]

About 1.30 so there's time for it to clear

 

[baileybubs]

Cupcake - I just know everything will be amazing today but good luck, I hope you managed to get some sleep Hun xxxxx

Cath - I can't help you on the runny poo thing coz I have IBS anyway but it's very possible it's a good sign coz progesterone could cause it. Let us know what the next opk says! Fingers crossed!!

Mrs d - oh no!! I hope the fog clears in time!! What a pain!

Cheryl - any nice plans for today?

 

[cathgibbs]

Will do hun, im quite excited to see it too lol! Iv been doing OPK every morning just because well i wanted to lol and iv barely seen a line so when i seen that this am it got me very excited especially when i seen the stretchy CM

We told DF's parents that we bought that pram last night, they werent happy. xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

It's none of their business hun, why do so many parents put downers on their kids, why can't they just be happy for them. You have saved yourself hundreds of pounds and you are trying for a baby, why on earth aren't they happy that you bought a pushchair for £20?? Xx

 

[thurl30]

Cupcake wishing you all the luck in the world today

Tawn the nursery looks adorable

Hope everyone has a nice Friday

 

[cathgibbs]

God knows hun, i can see their point but at the end of the day it s just £20!? They reckon i have Jinxed myself yet when i was pg the first time i told them not to buy anything until 12 weeks and as soon as we left they bought baby things, we have been through all the bad things that can happen to us, the pram isnt in our house its in the car, we are saving for the wedding and a baby so anything thats going cheap and in good condition we are getting. DF pissed me off though cause he just sat there not saying a word. they also said that we are trying to hard and i said we are not so they then said we arent trying hard enough?! FFS! xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

You too thurl xx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw hun you can't win, there is no such thing as jinxed, what an awful thing to say to someone that has already been through a loss (sorry rant over) I would not be happy if parents or in laws said that to me xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Is anyone watching this weepy jezza Kyle Mother's Day special? Tissues required xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Yep, what pissed me off the most was DF just sat there not saying a word and after we picked the pram up I told him I told my mother and she was saying how nice it looked and how cheap it was and he then asked me to ring his mother to tell him i said no thats something he can do because i knew how they would have acted so when we went up his parents i said to him 'tell your mother what we bought' and he replied sheepishly....no you....and when his parents were saying all the bad points of it he didnt once say anything of the stuff that he said to me like 'we have had all the bad luck, what could possible happen? and that it will get used even if we have to adpot it will get used' he needs to man up lol xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Oh cath thats terrible, just ignore them hun, my df's parents are the same, they told us that we shouldnt put the cot up yet "just n case something goes wrong". Charming eh? Nice to see they have faith that our baby will be ok and born without any problems.
Theres no such thing as jinxing. And if df is anything like my df, they never seem to stand up for themselves against their mums.

 

[baileybubs]

No I'm watching Homes under the Hammer mrs d, I normally just get really irrate watching jezza lol

 

[MrsDuck]

I agree men are such wimps when it comes to their mums, but it does have its advantages when you can't get them to do something, set their mum on the case and it'll get done xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Bailey that's awful, what is it with these MILs?? I know they are trying to protect you in their own little way but DON'T! Grrrrrr

 

[baileybubs]

I know its crap isnt it? I know that she is just trying to protect us, especially after what happened last year with our niece but having the cot up isnt gonna make something terrible happen, and if something did happen it wouldnt make it hurt any less if we didnt have the cot up.

But I do agree that it comes in handy that men cant stand up to their mums, I usually whinge to his mum about spending money and smoking lol

 

[cathgibbs]

I know theres a time and place for saying stuff!! they dont realise that what they are saying is out of order, it may feel like to them that they are protecting us but in reality they are making us scared!!

Oh MIL turned around and said as we were leaving that if it doesnt fit in the boot then she can have it!? Make your mind up!!

MrsD I totally agree lol his mother loves me so i can literally tell her that DF hasnt done this and she will ring him and whip his arse lol xxx

 

[baileybubs]

I guess they are trying to stop us from getting hurt or so they think, but they cant stop us getting hurt, we just need them to be supportive of our decisions and be there to cry on when we are hurting.......I will try and remember this when I am older and my kids are coming to me with something like this lol!!

 

[baileybubs]

How long did I keep you guys waiting when I had my 12 week scan? I knew it would take ages for cupcake to update but I cant stop refreshing the page to see if she's updated lol!!

 

[cathgibbs]

No i agree Bailey, it must be hard for them aswell but its even harder for us and the last thing we want is for them to be putting a dampner on things, they should just respect our decisions like you said Oohhhhhhhhhhhhhh OPK Is almost pos!! Ill take a pic in a sec, jsut waiiting for it to develop! I love OPKS! lol xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

I think you were quite quick at updating us bailey. I keep refreshing FB too x