Magical Maypoles ~*May testing thread*~

[Suggerhoney]

@josephine3
Im wondering if were get to be 2 ww budies. Im cd6 but usually ovulate a little earlier than you or though i have had later ovulations quite a few times since trying this time around, but usually follows illness.
Mine used to always be day 13 wheb we was trying all through 2020.
But for some reason which i believe waa a 5th chemical as af was 3 days late and the bleeding was extremely heavy. Also got faint lines on a pregmate test but i tossed it in the bin thinking it was a dodgy test.
Then the following cycle i ovulated on cd10 and concevied my youngest.
The only other times i ovulated supper early was twice in 2020 and that was cd8 but was after chemicals.
So i really do believe i did have a 5th loss in that december 2020. Then jan 2021 cd20 i get my sticky rainbow bfp.
So i would love that to happen again.

Will you just manage to test again in may?
I pray pray PRAY so sooooooo much
We BOTH finally finally get our sticky forever take home babe BFPs.

Ps
I have sent you a few privet messages my love

 

[Suggerhoney]

I think your right, my opks have gone lighter again. I'm CD9 today. I shouldn't ov until cd15-18. I'm hoping for the later end since I'll have more time to bd then.

Thats exactly what mine do. Always go back light again by cd9 and stay light untill about 24 hours b4 my peak. I find sometimes they can go from being vvv faint to almost positive then peak so suddenly, where as other times it kind of builds.
Looking forward to being back in the 2ww but extremely anxious about more BFNs.
Waiting untill 18dpo for AF was awful and id hate to have that wait again.
My DH birthday is on 13th may so i really hope and pray this month will finally be our month.
This long term ttc is getting too much.
How others go on and on for years i just seriously take my hat of to them.
15 months for me feels like forever.
And not getting any younger so i do worry it may never happen for us.
I really hope it does. Esp after 3 losses.

 

[ehjmorris]

@Suggerhoney thanks lovely, I hope for both of us too, I think i may ovulate on the right side again as that’s the good side.

peak opk today!! love how dark the line is
We won’t be able to dtd today but we did it last night

 

[AlwaysTheAunt]

@Laurabub84 I really hope they don't dismiss your concerns this time if you feel you need extra scans etc. I know they see women all the time so theyre used to it but the difference when you last baby stopped growing to when you had the scan is crazy, they should have listened then i really hope they can send you for a scan and you see a beautiful healthy little baby in there! Xx

 

[Laurabub84]

@josephine3 Thanks hun. I’m still not convinced atm, had more spotting last night and barely slept because of how bad the backache and cramps are. Just keep expecting to see bleeding every time I use the bathroom. I can’t see how all can be ok with these cramps because they are really uncomfortable today. Feeling terrified right now.
I hope you ovulate soon and dhs results come back perfect

@ehjmorris wow, that’s an awesome peak opk. Hope you catch that egg. Every crossed hun

@AlwaysTheAunt thanks hun. I’m just hoping I make it to Wednesday for my appointment. My cramps are quite bad today and had more spotting last night. Literally feeling sick with worry. I was convinced I was going to get up to full on bleeding today. I know I had cramps with the one I lost and with my son but I don’t remember them being this strong and I had no spotting. I’m so worried I’m going to lose again. Still have no morning sickness either and I always get bad morning sickness. Just wish the cramping would stop

Hoping all you ladies still waiting for your bfp’s get them this month

 

[AlwaysTheAunt]

@Laurabub84 oh that is so worrying! Im so sorry the cramps and spotting are getting bad. I really hope everything is ok. I had a friend with a huge bleed and cramps at 10 weeks and today celebrated his 4th birthday. I have everything crossed for you xx

 

[Ellybean]

12dpo. Out of frer. Wondfo early result. I’ve pretty much given up hope for this cycle.

 

[WantingababyF]

@josephine3 Thanks hun. I’m still not convinced atm, had more spotting last night and barely slept because of how bad the backache and cramps are. Just keep expecting to see bleeding every time I use the bathroom. I can’t see how all can be ok with these cramps because they are really uncomfortable today. Feeling terrified right now.
I hope you ovulate soon and dhs results come back perfect

@ehjmorris wow, that’s an awesome peak opk. Hope you catch that egg. Every crossed hun

@AlwaysTheAunt thanks hun. I’m just hoping I make it to Wednesday for my appointment. My cramps are quite bad today and had more spotting last night. Literally feeling sick with worry. I was convinced I was going to get up to full on bleeding today. I know I had cramps with the one I lost and with my son but I don’t remember them being this strong and I had no spotting. I’m so worried I’m going to lose again. Still have no morning sickness either and I always get bad morning sickness. Just wish the cramping would stop

Hoping all you ladies still waiting for your bfp’s get them this month

Oh lovie. I am praying everything is okay. Can you get checked if your having bleeding? sending love

 

[WantingababyF]

I was giving up hope because I had no line/ barely there lines on the tests I last night and this morning. I just did a 4 hour hold and got this I think I am approx 9dpo. Can you ladies see this? What do you think? I have been burnt so bad by FRER so I am praying this is it

 

[Pink.Rose]

Been a super busy week for my family. Can't wait to finish this move tomorrow. At least it's kept me distracted!

8dpo today I think. Nothing too unusual to report, except that my nipples are a little sore, usually it's tender breasts at this point. I did take one test 2 days ago, but it was way early and not first morning urine, so of course it was negative. Also still gassy. My temps keep going up and down even though I'm waking up around the same time wirh similar sleeping conditions so not sure what's up with that.

Not feeling like this was my month either, especially with the misleading OPK and only getting one baby dance in around when I probably actually ovulated. All it takes is one though, so I'm trying to stay hopeful!

 

[Pink.Rose]

I was giving up hope because I had no line/ barely there lines on the tests I last night and this morning. I just did a 4 hour hold and got this I think I am approx 9dpo. Can you ladies see this? What do you think? I have been burnt so bad by FRER so I am praying this is it

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Sorry to say it but I have had a few FRER indents that look just like that. They are the worst! but I sincerely hope that's not the case for you! Is there any pink to it? It's hard to tell. I'd say try a different test if you can. Fingers crossed for you!

 

[salamander91]

I was giving up hope because I had no line/ barely there lines on the tests I last night and this morning. I just did a 4 hour hold and got this I think I am approx 9dpo. Can you ladies see this? What do you think? I have been burnt so bad by FRER so I am praying this is it

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Do you have any other tests you can try? It looks darker than my frer bfp but I also had bfp on easy at home and wondfo so I could be sure it's not an indent.

 

[salamander91]

@Laurabub84 I really hope it's just normal cramping and spotting

 

[WantingababyF]

Sorry to say it but I have had a few FRER indents that look just like that. They are the worst! but I sincerely hope that's not the case for you! Is there any pink to it? It's hard to tell. I'd say try a different test if you can. Fingers crossed for you!

Do you have any other tests you can try? It looks darker than my frer bfp but I also had bfp on easy at home and wondfo so I could be sure it's not an indent.

Thanks Ladies,
I have ran out if tests but will get more tomorrow. I agree I have totally been burnt by FRER the last 2 months and even had a whole box that looked bery positive I posted on here a couple of months back.
It does have pink to it this time, but it is so faint that I am being super cautious. Time will tell I guess

 

[thencomesbebe]

@Laurabub84 that does sound concerning! I would go to the ER if they won't give you another scan!!

@WantingababyF can't tell if there's pink on it from the photo, but I have seen some really bad FRER indents! When I fell with my son my line was just that dark, but definitely pink!!! It was so faint, however that I had to keep looking at it all day to remind myself it was pink and I wasn't just seeing things. My therapist couldn't see it though!! By the next day, it was undeniable.

 

[WantingababyF]

@Laurabub84 that does sound concerning! I would go to the ER if they won't give you another scan!!

@WantingababyF can't tell if there's pink on it from the photo, but I have seen some really bad FRER indents! When I fell with my son my line was just that dark, but definitely pink!!! It was so faint, however that I had to keep looking at it all day to remind myself it was pink and I wasn't just seeing things. My therapist couldn't see it though!! By the next day, it was undeniable.

Thanks, the month before last I had an indent lines in a whole box of 7 some were so so darker, even darker than that. Looking back they were quite greyed out and didn't really have that pink hue.
I do see some pink in this but it is so faint that I did keep checking it to make sure I wasn't crazy lol. I still see some pink to it now but unless it becomes more obvious I am counting myself out this cycle.

 

[WantingababyF]

This is an indent I got 2 cycles back. I can see how grey it was now. At the time I got excited

 

[HopefulPony]

@WantingababyF I hope that’s the real thing and not an indent!

Good luck to everyone waiting to test

We actually managed to try this month so will be joining you!

 

[josephine3]

@HopefulPony hi love great to hear from you!! Hope you are good x
@WantingababyF wow that's such a clear line I hope its the real deal x

 

[Suggerhoney]

@WantingababyF i really really hope that line gets darker hon. With my son at 10dpo my frer looked just like yours and then 11dpo it was undeniable.
I was using easy@home and sweetyfox and had clearer lines on them then the frer.
Ive got absolutely everything crossed for you.

@Pink.Rose
Fx for you. Its horrible feeling out. Hope you get a lovely surprise in a few days.

@ehjmorris
Thats a beautiful peak love. Im cd7 now and usually ovulate around cd12, praying this month is the one for us both.

@HopefulPony
So glad your joining us hon. Its so good to have you back.

@Laurabub84
Awwww love im so sorry the cramps have ramped up and for the spotting.
Id be inclined to go to A&E just to get checked over and they may do a scan.
Hoping the cramps are nothing sinister.
Thinking of you lovely.

@Ellybean
Im so so sorry you think your out lovely.
I normally always have lines by 10dpo when pregnant, but with my 3rd loss early feb i didnt get lines until 13dpo.
When is AF due?

Cd7 today and started the cheapy opks. Obviously both very negative. But just had to start them early. So nice seeing 2 lines on something. Just wish it was a HPT.