I'm sorry to hear it Mash.... and I'm sorry you're down and I am certainly not wanting to discourage you even further but what the Dr. Malpani Clinic page says is true as well... I know couples who have been on Clomid for both of them for months, then on HCG injections for years, then on endless tries with IUI and never conceived till they did ICSI. It's sad and it's a dreadful moment to realize that is possibly the only way, I know, been there, we all have but at the end of the day you have to wonder what is more important, the manner in which you'll accomplish a pregnancy or having the baby you're longing for.
Lots of good luck and I hope you choose what's best for you!