Hi Ladies, I would love to join in. I have just read most of the thread and it is very interesting how many male factor problems there are, and how many different reasons there are.
We do not know that our problem is, basically no sperm is coming out, he has just had a scan and there are no signs of problems, no blockages, nothing, so there is no visable reason why they are not coming out - does this mean that they are not there at all. My DH has a 18 year old son, so we know this is not genetic so in my mind its heading towards him not producing sperm. But on the other hand his balls have not shrunk which is a sign of no sperm - so its a real mystery! We have our next meeting on 18th Aug, and his op is on 1st Sept, which from what I have renad is the SSR. We do not qualify for NHS because he has a son, so we have to go private, so the ICSI does not start until they have done the op and if they find any swimmers they will freeze them. Then that is all the NHS will do for us!
In all of this thread, I have not found anyone who has a similar story, all problems seem to be mobiltiy and count or health history issues etc,
I am 32 DH is 48, it is really hard to face the idea of not havig a child, Its hard sometimes, because it is alright for DH because he has done the pregnancy test, the first kick, the birth, the first steps etc. And he is being great and wants to do whatever to make me happy, but I can't help feeling jealous - I want to have his baby! He is not keen on Donor, as he said that he can not deal with having another mans baby. But I can't live with not having a baby - so lets hope we don't get to have that argument!!!
Thanks for setting up this thread ladies, it has been really interesting, I look forward to seeing lots more Pregnancies!!! Fingers crossed for us all!