I try not to worry about what people say about whether they think I'm big or not. he has never been pregnant so he really has no business saying anything about you having a hard time! i think pregnancy is hard from start to finish. and anyone who has morning sickness, heart burn, aches, sharp pains, extra weight to carry, trouble walking, breathing difficulties, leg cramps, sleeping problems, kicks to the ribs, back aches, hip pains, etc, etc, etc, for a total of 3/4 of a year would probably say the same! and we all have labor to look forward to at the end, yay, lol!
during one of my pregnancies my step dad said man your hips are wide. your starting to look like your mom. i didnt know who to feel worse for, me or her???? and i was 9 months pregnant so yeah i was big, but my mom is not a big lady. when they left my hubby said i would like to see him 9 months pregnant, hahahah.