March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Sweetz33]

Oh it will! And soon! I just know it!!

 

[hopestruck]

Hi ladies! Just wanted to pop in and say hello. Sorry for not being very active! I've honestly been really wrapped up in wedding stuff (LOL). We are having a bit of a fiasco with my engagement ring. To make a long story short....we had it sized at the store we bought it from in the Yukon. It had some scratches on it when we picked it up but I figured that was normal. Well, taking it home and showing it to people, turns out it is NOT normal and they did a horrific job on the resize! So I emailed them to complain, and they said they would offer me a new setting or a refund. WELL, after a lot of thinking I've decided to go with the refund and to pick out a brand new ring from somewhere else So, this is exciting, but it has honestly been driving me crazy! I'm so indecisive! So I've been doing a lot of research and I think I've finally decided that what I really want is a traditional round cut solitaire with a plain band. As IF it took me WEEKS to figure that out? haha. Anyway. (ETA: for your feasting eyes, my ring will be just like this! https://www.bluenile.ca/engagement-...ed-engagement-ring-details?ring_id=1437090104 although obviously a different diamond and probably 6 prong ring)

Other things - I went to the Docs yesterday. My doc is out of town so I had his stand-in, another young doctor. We were talking about my situation and he looked at my file and noticed there were a couple of tests that my doctor didn't do (I swear he did them, but the results could not be found - so maybe we both missed it). Anyway, he wrote me a new requisition for more bloodwork to test for APS (antiphospholipid syndrome), and I also convinced him to test for lupus anticoagulant (something I've been reading about in my recurrent M/C scientific studies - which yes, I brought out at the appt!). He is also doing a clotting time test, and phenotyping (genetic testing) on both DF and I. HOPEFULLY this will give us some answers... either way he is referring me to a specialist in the city for additional testing/consultation.

In the meantime though, we've decided to take a break. Now that we have a wedding to plan for the spring, there's lots going on. I also have an exam coming up in October, and DF and I both agreed that if I experienced another M/C around that time, it would be detrimental to my success. So we're holding off for at least a few months, probably until November, maybe even later, depending on what happens with the blood tests & fertility clinic stuff. I'm also taking CoQ10 (shoutout to Storked! hehe) and my Royal Jelly to try and improve egg quality. Apparently it takes about 3 months to prepare an egg, so I'm hoping this time frame will work out for getting the information we need and the nutrition/quality/time/recovery my body needs for the next preg to be a success.

All that to say, I'm prob going to be spending a little bit less time on these boards. I will stop in here and there to see how you are all doing though!!

Some quick personal notes ---
Sweetz, LOVE the U/S pics! OMG!! What a little angel you have brewing in there! Amazing!!

Never, you are coming up to 13 weeks, into the 2nd tri! Yahoo! So glad things are going well. I hope you have a great weekend with your DH

Garfie, your story about the beach sex + 5 eyes watching made my jaw drop...hilarious...

AngelSerenity & LPJKP - so glad things are going well this time! LP, I was happy to see your dark test and a 2-3 in your profile pic. Yay! I'll continue to send you both healthy, loving, growing baby thoughts!

Storked - good luck with the move coming up soon!! Also, my books are set to be delivered next week and I will keep you posted on how it goes reading them Yeaaaah book buddies!

Krissy & Janelley - you guys are soooo speedy, I have trouble catching up with all your posts! Love it though, nice to see happy, lighthearted conversations happening on here. Good luck with your upcoming O's and - Also loved the wild/outdoor/weird location sex stories. Hilarious...

Army, sorry AF came this cycle I'll be KMFX for you next time around before your DH heads off again!

Hello to MNJ and Shefali, KMP (?) and anyone else I may have missed!

 

[Storked]

Hopestruck, heck yes on the vitamins! And so glad they are doing more tests. Let me know how it goes?

I was completely surprised by the ring that I picked but I just love and my wedding band has tiny little diamonds all around I also discovered that I have little fingers!

So excited about your wedding but don't envy your planning! I never had to plan hardly anything for either of mine and thank goodness! Otherwise I may have never married

 

[hopestruck]

Storked, is yours a diamond pave? That was my other choice! I also have thin fingers... I thought I wanted a thick band until I went out and tried some on. If your kind is the kind I'm thinking, I think it is beautiful for small hands

Ugh, I know, wedding planning is crazy, not to mention expensive! Our families are not contributing (well, we haven't asked, and don't plan on asking) so we are trying to keep it around $12,000. And that's going to be reallllly tight. *sigh*

I will let you know how the testing goes

 

[Sweetz33]

Trying to figure out how to share video...I uploaded it on FB....and since my page is private it isn't letting it show *facepalm* I will figure it out haha

 

[Storked]

That is exactly what my rings are like Hopestruck. Thin and surrounded by tiny diamonds. And I was set on a square cut but when trying them on, the round just looked better on my hand.

$12000 (faint). Holy wow. I hope that it is everything that you dreamed it would be
Because of my religion, no one hardy saw my wedding ceromony in the temple. So I just had pictures taken everywhere and food. And a reception at church after honeymoon. I don't know what my parents would have done if they had ever actually had to pay for a wedding

When are you dress shopping?

 

[Storked]

Trying to figure out how to share video...I uploaded it on FB....and since my page is private it isn't letting it show *facepalm* I will figure it out haha

Yes please figure it out woman

 

[Sweetz33]

Trying to figure out how to share video...I uploaded it on FB....and since my page is private it isn't letting it show *facepalm* I will figure it out haha

Yes please figure it out woman

I'm tryyyyyiiinnngggg lol

 

[janelleybean]

awe sweetz. You just made me smile. I really don't think I would have been able to make it these last few weeks with out the support you've all given me. You're so freakin' sweet! Don't EVER change!...and I wanna see the video.

Catch- WELCOME! You've come to the right place, these ladies are A-maze-ing!

Hopestruck- Seems like you have been quite the busy bee. I wouldn't know what it's like to plan a wedding. Hubby and I eloped on a whim. We had a big dinner at Claim Jumpers and all of our friends came and we made everyone pay for their own meal. Hahaha...Now that I think about it, that sounds pretty redneck. Oh well, it was so much fun. I'm happy that you had a stand in doctor who is looking into things for you. I really hope you get a BFP, when you do decide to start trying again.

Storked- Are you mormon?

 

[Sweetz33]

arghhhh i am tryyyiiinnggg lol I know it will make yall smile!!!! Are any of you on FB? That might make it easier. I want just you ladies to see it bc it has my full name and area I am in lol So totally don't want the whole WWW to see it ya know

 

[janelleybean]

arghhhh i am tryyyiiinnggg lol I know it will make yall smile!!!! Are any of you on FB? That might make it easier. I want just you ladies to see it bc it has my full name and area I am in lol So totally don't want the whole WWW to see it ya know

I'm not on FB, but my husband is... I can look with his account.

 

[Sweetz33]

Ok I am having difficulty uploading anywhere but FB. If you have FB I have no problem adding so you can see. I also realized video shows my full name & my location so I don't feel comfie posting so anyone and their mother who might be lurking on here to see. I hope you understand. Like I said if you really want to see I will add you on FB.

 

[Aspe]

Hey ladies, sorry I have not been on here today. I just had a couple of minutes to jump on and skim like 5 pages..lol..I will get around to doing personal replies.

So, you know how I said I thought af showed her face one week late, well, I started bleeding on Monday. It was almost watery and like only bled when I went pee. Although, some blood would fall into the toilet scatter time (sorry if tmi). It was very bright red and in times had brown mixed with it. I never had to pee so much while on this 'period'. I never experienced this before. I don't see how it could be a UTI (as someone said), because it wasn't everyday I had to pee alot, it was only scatter times. Like, one evening I couldn't stop peeing, another during night I couldn't stop peeing. Anyways, the blood seemed like to start and stop. I told my partner like 'I wish my body would make up her mind' and he would go, "bleeding again" or "stopped again". This evening (Wednesday), there is absolutely no blood. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a normal period start light, go heavy, then finish light? Well, mine just bluntly stop. Nothing. Also, my back is killing me, oh so bad. Is this just an extremely weird period or? Thoughts please?

 

[Aspe]

Ok I am having difficulty uploading anywhere but FB. If you have FB I have no problem adding so you can see. I also realized video shows my full name & my location so I don't feel comfie posting so anyone and their mother who might be lurking on here to see. I hope you understand. Like I said if you really want to see I will add you on FB.

I wonder, would it work if you post the link here?

 

[janelleybean]

Hey ladies, sorry I have not been on here today. I just had a couple of minutes to jump on and skim like 5 pages..lol..I will get around to doing personal replies.

So, you know how I said I thought af showed her face one week late, well, I started bleeding on Monday. It was almost watery and like only bled when I went pee. Although, some blood would fall into the toilet scatter time (sorry if tmi). It was very bright red and in times had brown mixed with it. I never had to pee so much while on this 'period'. I never experienced this before. I don't see how it could be a UTI (as someone said), because it wasn't everyday I had to pee alot, it was only scatter times. Like, one evening I couldn't stop peeing, another during night I couldn't stop peeing. Anyways, the blood seemed like to start and stop. I told my partner like 'I wish my body would make up her mind' and he would go, "bleeding again" or "stopped again". This evening (Wednesday), there is absolutely no blood. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a normal period start light, go heavy, then finish light? Well, mine just bluntly stop. Nothing. Also, my back is killing me, oh so bad. Is this just an extremely weird period or? Thoughts please?

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Does it burn when you pee? When you pee, do you pee a lot or just a few drops? is your pee cloudy or clear?

 

[Aspe]

Hey ladies, sorry I have not been on here today. I just had a couple of minutes to jump on and skim like 5 pages..lol..I will get around to doing personal replies.

So, you know how I said I thought af showed her face one week late, well, I started bleeding on Monday. It was almost watery and like only bled when I went pee. Although, some blood would fall into the toilet scatter time (sorry if tmi). It was very bright red and in times had brown mixed with it. I never had to pee so much while on this 'period'. I never experienced this before. I don't see how it could be a UTI (as someone said), because it wasn't everyday I had to pee alot, it was only scatter times. Like, one evening I couldn't stop peeing, another during night I couldn't stop peeing. Anyways, the blood seemed like to start and stop. I told my partner like 'I wish my body would make up her mind' and he would go, "bleeding again" or "stopped again". This evening (Wednesday), there is absolutely no blood. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a normal period start light, go heavy, then finish light? Well, mine just bluntly stop. Nothing. Also, my back is killing me, oh so bad. Is this just an extremely weird period or? Thoughts please?

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Does it burn when you pee? When you pee, do you pee a lot or just a few drops? is your pee cloudy or clear?

I haven't taken a test in about a week, at that that time it was negative. No, it don't burn when I pee, just lie a few minutes after I pee, it feels as if I got to go again. When I felt like I had to pee alot it was only a little bit, not drops but not a river lol.. Again, I haven't felt the need to pee like that in about 2 days. I honestly didn't notice about if my pee was clear or cloudy. Sorry. What were you thinking? UTI? If so, how does that explain the pink, late period, then the weird blood for 2-3ish days?

 

[Aspe]

Hey ladies, sorry I have not been on here today. I just had a couple of minutes to jump on and skim like 5 pages..lol..I will get around to doing personal replies.

So, you know how I said I thought af showed her face one week late, well, I started bleeding on Monday. It was almost watery and like only bled when I went pee. Although, some blood would fall into the toilet scatter time (sorry if tmi). It was very bright red and in times had brown mixed with it. I never had to pee so much while on this 'period'. I never experienced this before. I don't see how it could be a UTI (as someone said), because it wasn't everyday I had to pee alot, it was only scatter times. Like, one evening I couldn't stop peeing, another during night I couldn't stop peeing. Anyways, the blood seemed like to start and stop. I told my partner like 'I wish my body would make up her mind' and he would go, "bleeding again" or "stopped again". This evening (Wednesday), there is absolutely no blood. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a normal period start light, go heavy, then finish light? Well, mine just bluntly stop. Nothing. Also, my back is killing me, oh so bad. Is this just an extremely weird period or? Thoughts please?

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Does it burn when you pee? When you pee, do you pee a lot or just a few drops? is your pee cloudy or clear?

I haven't taken a test in about a week, at that time it was negative. No, it don't burn when I pee, just like a few minutes after I pee, it feels as if I got to go again. When I felt like I had to pee alot it was only a little bit, not drops but not a river lol.. Again, I haven't felt the need to pee like that in about 2 days. I honestly didn't notice if my pee was clear or cloudy. Sorry. What were you thinking? UTI? If so, how does that explain the pink, late period, then the weird blood for 2-3ish days?

 

[kanicky73]

Thanks I am on cd5. I would love to be cycle buds!

 

[kanicky73]

Thanks I am on cd5. I would love to be cycle buds!

Ok this was meant for shefalia! Sorry I'm still learning lol

 

[janelleybean]

Hey ladies, sorry I have not been on here today. I just had a couple of minutes to jump on and skim like 5 pages..lol..I will get around to doing personal replies.

So, you know how I said I thought af showed her face one week late, well, I started bleeding on Monday. It was almost watery and like only bled when I went pee. Although, some blood would fall into the toilet scatter time (sorry if tmi). It was very bright red and in times had brown mixed with it. I never had to pee so much while on this 'period'. I never experienced this before. I don't see how it could be a UTI (as someone said), because it wasn't everyday I had to pee alot, it was only scatter times. Like, one evening I couldn't stop peeing, another during night I couldn't stop peeing. Anyways, the blood seemed like to start and stop. I told my partner like 'I wish my body would make up her mind' and he would go, "bleeding again" or "stopped again". This evening (Wednesday), there is absolutely no blood. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a normal period start light, go heavy, then finish light? Well, mine just bluntly stop. Nothing. Also, my back is killing me, oh so bad. Is this just an extremely weird period or? Thoughts please?

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Does it burn when you pee? When you pee, do you pee a lot or just a few drops? is your pee cloudy or clear?

I haven't taken a test in about a week, at that time it was negative. No, it don't burn when I pee, just like a few minutes after I pee, it feels as if I got to go again. When I felt like I had to pee alot it was only a little bit, not drops but not a river lol.. Again, I haven't felt the need to pee like that in about 2 days. I honestly didn't notice if my pee was clear or cloudy. Sorry. What were you thinking? UTI? If so, how does that explain the pink, late period, then the weird blood for 2-3ish days?

It could be a UTI or it could be a bladder infection. I'm not sure.. I'm no doctor, but I would definitely call your doctor and talk to them. I'm not too sure about the short period. I wish I had some answers for you. sorry...