Morning ladies. I had a pretty emotional night last night. Hubby and I went to a party at his parents house which is usually always really fun, but there was this young "fox" that walked in. I didn't think anything of it until I saw my husbands reaction. I swear you could have seen his dick twitch from across the room. He perked right up. Well, I just brushed it off and thought whatever, but then later on in the night he was BLUNTLY checking out her ass. It really made me uncomfortable because she was playing with our son. I know it's natural for men to look at other women, but it really made me emotional because I couldn't help but think that he never looks at me that way. When we first got together I was rail skinny and when I got pregnant I gained A LOT of weight. I lost most of it, but I'm still not at my goal weight. So, it's really hard when I see him drooling over other women. I didn't mention it though because I didn't want to call him out in front of his parents and their friends, but I'm sure they all saw it too, he wasn't hiding it at all. When we got in the car to go home I mentioned it and he just put his head down and said sorry. I wasn't mad or angry, I was just really sad. So I stared out the window and tried my damnedest to fight back tears. When we got home, I just went to bed. I woke up this morning because I dreamt about the zombie apocalypse and was terrified, when I rolled over to cuddle, my husband wasn't there, he slept on the couch! JERK! Ugh. He woke me up this morning to tell me that he loved me before he left for work. So that made me feel a little better. Do any of you other ladies get butt hurt when you catch your man eying another woman, or is it just me?
Angel- I am so sorry.
Sweetz- That's got to be so frustrating. Especially for the child. Why wouldn't she put her in school? If she ends up with you, I don't think that would be a bad thing. It may be emotional for the little girl, but you have to think, it might also be in the best interest for her as well. Best of luck and I hope this all gets sorted out and goes smoothly.
Garfie- You have such patience. That is amazing. Your son is so lucky to have you as a mother, as you are lucky to have him as a son. Sorry you tested negative. Maybe it's still too early?
HisGrace- I plan on testing either the 13th or 14th... I'm surprised I've held off testing this long.. I usually start testing at 10DPO which would be today.
Other than the drama that happened last night, this morning at 4:30 I woke up having to pee soooo bad, so I went and went back to bed. I woke up at 8:30 this morning and went again and saw some brown on the tissue so I checked my CP and sure enough it's high and hard and there was brown tinged CM. No idea what this could mean. According to my fertility calendar implantation was yesterday. I've never had IB before, so this would be a first if that is indeed what it was. Could be AF getting ready to show as well. I've been taking the LD aspirin in hopes that might help a bit. Still not feeling pregnant, so I guess I'm just going to play the waiting game. I hope all you ladies are enjoying your Monday so far. Sorry for the rant.. I just really needed to unload. I feel much better though.![]()
Sweetz, ugh you gave your friend a wonderful gift and she won't even return your calls. I'd be so peeved.
As for commenting on how sexy other men are...I do that often lol! Doesn't bother my husband though. I balance out the comments though. I'll say "did you see that guy at the pool? He is so pretty I could die! But then when he stepped out of the water I noticed how bony he was. Ick, dude shouldn't let his face do all the work." so that my husband can take the chance to flex his muscles
Janelley, sorry your man was being a hound. But hey, he said he was sorry and that he loved you. I hate that he slept on the couch though. I made my husband swear before we married that he would never ever do that. It is a..thing of mine.
You are beautiful though and your man better realize it and appreciate it! Point it out to him and how lucky he is to have snagged a sexy, intelligent mama like you. I always do that do my spouse
Re: implantation bleeding- totally no help here lol. I get the brown stuff before AF. I wish I got IB!
MnJ, I have been cheated on too. Makes me a little confrontational lol.
Krissy, my family makes comments like that too because I got pregnant immediately. I even told one of them that I was using softcups this cycle and they were like "why?"
They just want to make us feel confident, like it is so easy. The way we used to feel. Still chafes though.
And GO YOU on weight loss!
MizzPodd, you are doing the best that you can and that is all you can do, right? Enjoy that rainbow
Angel,we love you and are here for you
I'm not sure about the progesterone. I can't find anything online that says :-/
Ok argh...
Angel no idea on progesterone as i never used it...sorry.
Mnj...I too have been cheated on...the night I gave birth to dd, my ex celebrated by sleeping with some other chic....jerk...so of course I will always have my concerns.
I arghed bc I'm so tired of these fricken hormones!! I'm forgetful as heck. I went into the bedroom, then like 5 minutes later I realized I dazed out and forgot why I went in there. I'm on an emotional roller coaster! Cry, angry, mellow, giddy....all within minutes. I swear if it wasn't for you ladies in here....*sigh* my doc said they should regulate a bit soon.