carlywarly
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Totally bummed. My opk stick had a very faint line so it looks like it is getting lighter and I never got close to a positive. Last month it got gradually darker until the positive day. But last month was the first cycle after my m/c and I wasn't ready to try then. I barely had any blood with my AF last week, so I am glad I waited. There's no way I had enough lining!
In the spirit of tmi, my cervix feels exactly the same as it did right after AF was over. I don't think I'm going to O this cycle. I'm going to keep up with the opk and bd thru the weekend.
I have a follow up with my obgyn on 11/2 so I can talk to her soon. Pretty scared and praying nothing new is going on with me.
This happened to me last cycle...I was sure I missed my surge...lines got darker then faded to nothing...I thought I wasn't going to get a +OPK. I actually kept testing and got my + 4 days later than usual and ov'd 3 days later than before. It was also my 1st cycle after mc. Keep testing and hopefully you will get a + soon![]()
Thanks. This is my 2nd cycle after my m/c, and I O'd right on time last month. I was doing OK until I checked the cervix position and it's the same. Now it kinda hurts, and that worries me. It shouldn't hurt just from checking it.
I'm trying to stay positive though, and keep BD'ing and OPK'ing and see what the doc says on 11/2. There is a good chance I could get BFP this month, and a good chance I won't. Even though I try to keep an open mind about it, and think it could happen for me within the next 6 months I KNOW that if I don't get a BFP the first time trying after the m/c I'm going to be devastated and worried no matter how rational I try to be. I wasn't even trying when I did get prego, so this is my first time trying at all.
Please do continue staying positive

