March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Pinkcasi]

Go Kat!

Es i hope you get some relief for your back and you can get back to the job in hand.

Starry, I nearly hyperventilated reading that! I'm thinking of you today and every day, I have faith in your lil bean, you have no idea how much I want this for you, to be so invested in someone you've never met, weird lol

Today is a nothing day for me hooray, it's watching crappy telly in my bed clothes ahh good times

 

[Unexpected212]

So this is my second month of TTC since the miscarriage in August.

I'm taking folic acid and we are going to BD EVERY day from the end of AF until whenever lol. I have read studies that say every day can decrease sperm quality but others say it's the best way. Whatever happens it'll be fun!

I'm still just doing OPK's...part of me wants to start temping but I feel like I'll get even more obsessed then

I hope everyone is well and that you all had a lovely weekend!

Sending baby dust to all of us TTC and sending good luck and well wishes to all of those expecting on here x

 

[Kat S]

Starry, sending all my good and positive energy your way! Please let us know

ES, I'm glad you are getting your back taken care of, and soon. How long after the surgery can you ttc?

Mowat, yesterday (day of + opk) I was CD 17. I go in for acupuncture this morning, so perhaps that can help encourage good things.

 

[ESwemba84]

Kat, I'm not sure about exactly when, but I'm pretty sure the fusion has to be complete.....like the vertebrae have to be completely fused together and healed. Which could take up to 6 months. Only because I can imagine a growing fetus would start putting pressure on the spine and if it's not completely healed, it might be a bad situation. But we might also just start looking into adoption. I'll see how I feel when the time comes!

Starry, how did your scan go? I'm really hoping you have good news.

 

[eyemom]

Oh starry, I've been thinking of you a lot. Praying for a great scan. It must be so scary. I really think though even the worst BM can't hurt a baby. And I've heard CM can be all over the map (what a weird figure of speech in this context) when pregnant. I am awaiting good news but I can only imagine how you feel. I'm with pink...we are really rooting for you.

Unexpected, temping really does add to the obsession. But I keep doing it in part because after a while I want to know when I can finally take a break from all the action, heh.

I've heard every day is best UNLESS there's an issue with sperm count and then maybe every other day.

 

[Starry Night]

Thanks, ladies. My appointment is in about 5 1/2 hours (I had insomnia so my earlier post was from the middle of the night). It's not an actual scan...just a doppler. But if they can't find a heart beat I will beg for a scan. The wait is killing me.

I will try to update but my appointment is in the city so we always make a day of it and we will be visiting friends in the evening while we are there. So it may be late before I post anything. Just to warn you.

Last night my mom texted me from some winter retreat she is on with her church begging me to text her the moment I find out how things are going. She never texts. I was wanting to anyways but I didn't know what her text plan was so was going to text my dad instead. I guess I'll text both now.

 

[Kat S]

OK, Starry. Thanks for warning us it would be a while. Otherwise we would worry you got bad news and retreated to your bed.

 

[Unexpected212]

Starry - Hoping and praying everything goes well for you and they find the heartbeat nice and easily so your mind can be at rest xx

Eyemom - I think if I have no success this month I will start temping. I have my fingers crossed for both of us that this is our month! Christmas BFP's all around I hope! I find it weird that really I've been trying since August and I've been pregnant once but I'm not pregnant now. It's quite hard to come to terms with sometimes.

Kat S - Hi! Hoping you get your xmas bfp as well! I think I may have read some of your journal once. Sending you all the babydust I can. Congrats on the positive OPK

ES- Good luck with everything

Pinkcasi - I'm having a lazy day today. Having the week off because it's my birthday this week

 

[Pinkcasi]

Unexpected, happy birthday and good for you, gotta have a pj day now and again and just chill out and try to not stress about anything.

Starry starry starry, it's supposed to be my chill day and I'm worrying about you! Lol bit worrying that's not the right word just hoping for the best, don't worry if it's late, so nice that you get to make a day of it and see friends, it's a happy day I just know it!!

Es best to make sure your totally 'fixed' I guess you can carry on trying even if you start the ball rolling with adoption, don't you just hear that story all the time that people adopt then fall pregnant and end up with 2 lil babies, it happend to a celebrity not do long ago hmm now who was that...

Good luck everyone xx

 

[ESwemba84]

How did it go Starry?

 

[garfie]

Good luck starry- come on rainbow baby



X

 

[nevergivingup]

Just lurking...But had to pop in and let Starry know my FX and my prayers sent. Now where are you ma'am

 

[Starry Night]

Houston, we have a heart beat!!!


I only got to listen for about 4 seconds but it was enough.

 

[eyemom]

Yayayayayayayyyyyy~~~!!!!!



I have to get my DD in the tub, but I had to pop in and say that much at least!

 

[mackjess]

yay starry!

 

[LastGlamourai]

Looking for my rainbow baby, too! Going to try to hold off testing until my dr. appt on Dec. 4th. It will be hhhaarrrrddd LOL!

 

[mowat]

I just knew it Starry! You must have been on cloud 9 all day!

Hi Glamourai. Nice to meet you.

 

[Kat S]

Starry, I'm SO happy for you!!!!!

 

[Starry Night]

Thanks, everyone. It's still a long road but I feel like I have passed the first major hurdle. I'm still actually really nervous which I find surprising. I thought today would ease most of my fears. Now I find myself saying "I'll feel fine after my next appointment". When will the worry end? Oh well. The anxiety still is not as bad as it was with DS' pregnancy. That was crushing. Now I'm quite nervous but I feel like I'm able to stand up beneath it.

Welcome, Glamourai. I hope you're able to get your rainbow soon.

 

[Left wonderin]

Yahoooooooooooooo I am over the moon for you and oh Starry I'm so so thrilled.