Thanks for your support and nice words guys. i dont want to bring this thread down too much but thanks for your kindness, this is such a hard and lonely time for us.
Erised, sounds like you have a good talker, wren is not talking too much yet which is a little frustrating, we taught her baby sign and she communicates very well that way. I am trying to encourage her to use words more but she seems happy to communicate with sign, basic words and pointing at the moment, I am sure her language skills wil improve soon. I have put her in a little,play group two mornings a week for 2.5 hours, she hasn't been since Cordelia was born but I am going to start to take her again this week.