Gah. I SO want to reply to everyone, but I have to post this.
A Rant About My F**king Mother In Law (to be)
I was looking at Al's text messages today which are mostly written in Welsh, and I noticed my name a few times. When he came in I asked him what they said and he got all uncomfortable.
He said that after several failed attempts of sending a picture message of Dharma to his mother yesterday, he told her that he wasn't going to try again as he didn't want a massive phone bill. His mother asked if I was keeping money from him and not giving him enough to live on!
Every month I put my entire wages into our joint account to which we both have cards for. I have never ONCE made him feel like it is 'my money', and aware that he is a student at the moment I let him do all the 'paying' when we are out as to not emasculate him. I could be described as being nothing short of generous and it makes me furious that she would suggest otherwise.
I asked what else had been said in the past as she obviously has a negative opinion of me, and he grudgingly said that she has accused me of being bossy (fair point, I can be), controlling (never), the boss of Al, and I forced him into moving up North as I 'trapped' him when I got pregnant.
What the f**k?!?!?!?!?!?
It was completely a joint decision to move, and where as I know I am more out spoken than Al, I could never (or would want to) control him!!
I decided to text her. I told her that I would never let Al go without, that I had heard what she had said about me and I found it both unhelpful and upsetting. She replied that she didn't know what to say.
I am furious. Beyond belief.