Emera that is an amazing amount of milk! F is a piggy to drink that much!
Mitch - That's funny about her having the same dress. I hand embroidered mine so I know no one will have the same dress as me...
WT you're doing an amazing job, I'm not sure how I would be able to deal with twins. I've noticed Elliott is up more on the nights when I worked that day, it's possible the boys are up at night because they missed you during the day.
So when ever I change E's diaper his diaper rash looks better, when ever anyone else (hubby, mother or MIL) change his diaper I get him back with a bright red bum. My mom changes him more often than I do so I don't think he's sitting wet for too long. They all follow the same steps I do so what is going on here?
Mitch - Did they show you the place while the kids are there? Maybe they had the business person show you the place and the care givers caring for the children? But if it doesn't feel right don't go for it. M will be happier if you're more comfortable with it. Are there any stay at home moms in the area who could watch her?