Hey lads
Sorry, with Waula on this one, condensed milk in a tube is ruinously gorgeous! Gosh ,you don't even have to stick your finger in a tin, just squeeze it into your mouth.
Hurrah for a better night Loo, I hope you feed vaguely restored.
I don't know what I want to do about Christmas...and it WON'T be n the vegan. yeuch. I would rather stay here and have it as just the three of us with visitors but we live miles away in the north and I know my parents would just love us to be there. I don't know. Part of me figures that the first year is nice but she won't remember, subsequent years are different.
Loo, I'll disagree slightly with everyone about Al and his sister. Yes, it's good to keep relations open, to encourage him to be open BUT that can also be a real strain and might be something he's not able to do now. I would worry he'd be resentful if he feels pressured, and for what? Entertaining shite behaviour? MrC has not the best relationship with his parents but I keep schtum. It's not my area and though they miss out of E's life for various reasons, I prefer to keep out of it. I've alway felt strongly that I'm there for him and not to get involved in emotional manipulation (mum and sister are pros). My grandparents were absolute experts at maintaining the 30 year grudges and ultimately it made them very sad and isolated, they didn't see me until I was 1 thanks to a huff with mum and dad. But equally, it can be just as painful and straining to keep trying to be cordial...I never suffered from not seeing them. Sometimes it's just better to let things rest a little.
Well, E slept pretty well last night, from 7:30 to 3am and 4am to 8am. After last week of waking at 1am, 3am and 6am I'm grateful for the first waking is eeeeking itself out later. Back to painting her room today if I can encourage her to nap. I'll hopefully be slinging up 'sweet lavender' as a colour later tonight or tomorrow.
Go on Mitch, ttc ;-)