Nafretili - just watched all your vlogs in your Sig. Your daughters reaction had me in tears! Bless her heart.
We haven't told DD1 yet, will at 12w. Youngest DD wouldn't understand
Finally I've had a chance to sit down at the computer (cuz I hate trying to write long winded stuff using my phone) and make a proper introduction. Sorry this is a little long.....
So HI everyone, as I said, cautiously joining in here as obviously very early days and this is my rainbow after mmc in January. I'm trying not to get too excited and stay positive about everything. I got my BFP at 10dpo and have beeing POAS every morning since to watch the progression. I saw my Dr yesterday and had bloods and am going again tomorrow morning for another draw and hopefully hear/see some good numbers when I phone her on Monday. I've got an early scan booked for 11th August when I should be 7+1 and making DH come with me because I will be so very nervous. I had bleeding with DS2 (both IB and subchronic haematoma) and had the same with my angel, so I asked for a scan to check. The early scan with my angel showed it measuring 5 days behind and the HB was only 104. I knew this wasn't really good as I know my dates. I asked for a repeat scan a week later and the HB had gone and had only grown 1 more day I had a D&C 2 days later as I was keen just to move on. I was on my own when I found out so hence taking DH with me to this first scan.
On a positive note: all things are pointing to it all being ok this time around, I've had no IB this time, so it's great not to wipe and see that. Also some funny things that have happened in the past is that my Mum has a pregnancy dream when I'm pregnant / the day or so before I find out I am pregnant. She usually dreams that she herself is pregnant (which is impossible as she had a hysterectomy 8 years ago). She had dreams with both DS1 and DS2 but didn't have a dream when I fell pregnant with my angel in December. This month, she had the dream the week before I ovulated!! The morning I got my bfp she phoned and immediately said "dad isn't here, is there any news?" (my dad doesnt know off my last pregnancy or that we are TTC) and I just said "well I found out when you're due from your pregnancy dream!" She also said to me, that it is so funny because the other day she was talking to a friend and saying that out of all the months in the year, March is the only one we don't have a birthday of an immediate family member, so fingers crossed, next year we will!!
Also, my sister is a nurse in the oncology ward and has had a medium in her care over the past few months, apparently they have spoken a lot about me. The medium said that she can feel that my baby is coming back to me soon (as in, the one I lost) and I'll definitely be pregnant before the end of the year. She's said a few other things too which I hope is right, like she keeps referring to the baby as "she" and of course with 2 boys, I'd love a little girl, even attempted some swaying last year when TTC but of course since my loss, I am absolutely fine with either gender, but I do hope she is right!
Edited to add: It's also a bit of a sign that this group is called "March Marvels" as DH and and I have just started watching all the Marvel movies and series! I've only just come to enjoy the Marvel superhero stuff (more of a Wonder Woman, Superman, DC person) so I'm taking that as a good omen. Yes we are pretty big geeks and nerds! hahah!
Anyway, overall I feel a lot calmer right now, I've had a very stressful start to 2018 with the loss and then a whole heap of work related stress that obviously has done me no favours. Now that all that has calmed down I am feeling lots better and this little bonus this month has been so welcomed.
Congrats if you read to the end of my long post. Looking forward to getting to know everyone here better and on FB and following your journeys. Happy and healthy 9 months to everyone and fingers and toes crossed we are all here for the long haul!
xx
Kittykat did you have any changes in symptoms with twins?
I'm suspicious myself because I had an easy first tri with DD but with baby #2 I've been nauseous and exhausted since 4DPO!
xx
Really hope you get your rainbow sweetheart, I think some mums have a sixth sense with pregnancies, my mum knows when people are pregnant in my family, shes known before Ive told her (baring in mind she lives 200 miles away!) every single time, she had a feeling I was pregnant before I had taken a test with eves! So I have no doubt she will know with this one, but at least I can still surprise her with twins!
Kittykat did you have any changes in symptoms with twins?
I'm suspicious myself because I had an easy first tri with DD but with baby #2 I've been nauseous and exhausted since 4DPO!
Ive been knackered and VERY nauseous but havent been sick yet, but with DD I was extremely sick so I dont know, my clue was the rapidness of my tests darkening! I got a 3+ early as well. How amazing would 2 sets of twins be on 1 thread though!! I do know that different symptoms dont always mean a lot though, but then who knows! Are you going for a scan?
Finally I've had a chance to sit down at the computer (cuz I hate trying to write long winded stuff using my phone) and make a proper introduction. Sorry this is a little long.....
So HI everyone, as I said, cautiously joining in here as obviously very early days and this is my rainbow after mmc in January. I'm trying not to get too excited and stay positive about everything. I got my BFP at 10dpo and have beeing POAS every morning since to watch the progression. I saw my Dr yesterday and had bloods and am going again tomorrow morning for another draw and hopefully hear/see some good numbers when I phone her on Monday. I've got an early scan booked for 11th August when I should be 7+1 and making DH come with me because I will be so very nervous. I had bleeding with DS2 (both IB and subchronic haematoma) and had the same with my angel, so I asked for a scan to check. The early scan with my angel showed it measuring 5 days behind and the HB was only 104. I knew this wasn't really good as I know my dates. I asked for a repeat scan a week later and the HB had gone and had only grown 1 more day I had a D&C 2 days later as I was keen just to move on. I was on my own when I found out so hence taking DH with me to this first scan.
On a positive note: all things are pointing to it all being ok this time around, I've had no IB this time, so it's great not to wipe and see that. Also some funny things that have happened in the past is that my Mum has a pregnancy dream when I'm pregnant / the day or so before I find out I am pregnant. She usually dreams that she herself is pregnant (which is impossible as she had a hysterectomy 8 years ago). She had dreams with both DS1 and DS2 but didn't have a dream when I fell pregnant with my angel in December. This month, she had the dream the week before I ovulated!! The morning I got my bfp she phoned and immediately said "dad isn't here, is there any news?" (my dad doesnt know off my last pregnancy or that we are TTC) and I just said "well I found out when you're due from your pregnancy dream!" She also said to me, that it is so funny because the other day she was talking to a friend and saying that out of all the months in the year, March is the only one we don't have a birthday of an immediate family member, so fingers crossed, next year we will!!
Also, my sister is a nurse in the oncology ward and has had a medium in her care over the past few months, apparently they have spoken a lot about me. The medium said that she can feel that my baby is coming back to me soon (as in, the one I lost) and I'll definitely be pregnant before the end of the year. She's said a few other things too which I hope is right, like she keeps referring to the baby as "she" and of course with 2 boys, I'd love a little girl, even attempted some swaying last year when TTC but of course since my loss, I am absolutely fine with either gender, but I do hope she is right!
Edited to add: It's also a bit of a sign that this group is called "March Marvels" as DH and and I have just started watching all the Marvel movies and series! I've only just come to enjoy the Marvel superhero stuff (more of a Wonder Woman, Superman, DC person) so I'm taking that as a good omen. Yes we are pretty big geeks and nerds! hahah!
Anyway, overall I feel a lot calmer right now, I've had a very stressful start to 2018 with the loss and then a whole heap of work related stress that obviously has done me no favours. Now that all that has calmed down I am feeling lots better and this little bonus this month has been so welcomed.
Congrats if you read to the end of my long post. Looking forward to getting to know everyone here better and on FB and following your journeys. Happy and healthy 9 months to everyone and fingers and toes crossed we are all here for the long haul!
xx
This day 6 years ago I had my first and only miscarriage and today of all days my symptoms are non existed.. I am barely nauseated anymore feeling more energy.. even wanting a Chinese take out tonight lol.. I know I should enjoy this as just a day of rest but I can't help but be worried that maybe something is wrong and that is why symptoms are gone
I'm in the hospital on Tuesday I'm going to ask for a scan cause my anxiety is through the roof and I know i will calm down when I see my baby
Anyone else have that? Symptoms practically gone one day?