tonight i have PMS and that's really when he gets the shrug off..but i usually just tell him i'm PMSy and he understands but i think he still gets his feelings hurt...and then sometimes i feel so busy like i gotta go do this and that and i have to remember to slow down and show a little love to my DH even if it's a small gesture. He's very good at that, I am not--i feel like there's always a billion things to do and never enough time. I'm trying to relax about it all which has helped with our relationship.
it can be MONTHS and not a peep out of him. He may be helping himself in the shower or whatever.. .but he never never bugs me for it. sometimes i wish he would! that being said - he NEVER turns me down! in fact it had been a while last week, and i just gave him a kiss and he was ready to rip my clothes off LOL
as long as he is still ready to go when you are lol
and it worked the first month..he might have enjoyed it if it took a few months i on the otherhand was so thankful with ovulation came and went so we could take a freaking break!) for me my libido is about a twice a week kind of thing, for him, every day would be a good start 
