I have been reading posts through my phone but have not replied because its a pain in the butt but CONGRATS t everyone with babies! How exciting
Sharon - I don't know if it is different where you are but here when they induced me last week I had a gel put on my cervix to ripen it that was done every 6 hours, but our hospitals policy is only 2 doses in 24 hours but they said other places keep applying it till labour starts.
Between 4 and 6 hours the effects of the gel peaked and my contractions were the worst at those times but soon died off till the next dose was put in.
The next phase o the induction was to rupture my membranes, then after that they put a drip in syntocin i think it was? I can't remember but it speeds up labour. Mine sped up really fast and they had to turn it off after the first dose
Good luck, I hope it goes well for you!
My babies are doing great! We had one really rough night where Aria was awake every 40 minutes, it was such a miserable night! and I thought "omg what on earth have I got myself into?!" but we managed well and the next night they woke every 3 hours and were perfect babies.
Today I got left home alone and both babies wanted feeding and were screaming an i panicked a bit but with some juggling between arms and knees I manged to latch both babies on woohoo!
I have lived on my couch for a week pretty much. I only just manage to get a shower every night but somehow I still manage to stink of sweat and puke.
When I get up in the morning I look at my corner of the couch and I am like ohh man cos I know as soon as I need to sit down there I'll be there an hour at least. Sometimes the babies will feed one after another for hours at a time and I actually feel like a milk machine. I don't mind cos I made that choice to try my best at breastfeeding and I know this will pass eventually but its definitely not easy going.
I am loving every second of this though, its a huge challenge but they are so wonderful!
The In laws have driven me crazy nuts. They showed up the first night telling me what to do and the second visit they showed up with a tin of formula. I sai "no thanks I wont be using that" the nana goes "you wont be using it?" I said "uhm no, thanks but no" She then goes "NOT at ALL?!" I go "nope not at all"
Then she got in a huffy and walked of muttering "ohh I guess we will have to take it back then"
Then she went to the MIL and said in a really shocked offended voice "SHE doesn't WANT to use it!!"
The people didn't even ask me and I was so angry I saw red I wanted to give em a piece of my mind but to keep the peace I left it at that. They got the message but I could not believe people would just go buy formula without asking.
OH said they were just trying to be helpful because we got no sleep. I said Nappies are helpful, formula is rude and intrusive.
I knew formula would be an issue when I was pregnant, people thought I was crazy when I said bad things about them and how I bet they would try force formula on me etc etc but heh I was right. I knew it! I think they got it because I don't want them around while I'm feeding cos theres two of them I am basically topless on my couch all day long so visits have to be timed. I feel that the formula thing was a way they could come round without having to time it with me. too bad.
Only a week and a half left to go of this madness.
Haha there's a bit of a rant for you ladies! why do in laws have to be so hard?! I wish I had nice ones.
New picture, a week old Max with the pacifier Aria in the blue
Hope everyone is well I am surprised I have actually been able to sit down this long without a baby crying, every other time I have had to cut my net time short after 5 minutes.