MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[burgbrandy]

What great ideas!! I cant hide it from dh...hes the one who checks my tests. Lol! I pee and dip and then lay back down and he goes to look. Ill probably just put a "big sister" shirt on my dd and see how long it takes my family to figure it out. His family knows we are ttc so im sure they will know right away. My mil asks every few weeks if its time to test. Lol!

Mamabear, its still early! Fx!

I Got crosshairs this morning! Yay! Testing beginning may 31 @ 9 dpo! (if i can hold out that long, which i doubt. Lol!)

 

[Hopeful2014]

MAY , HERE WE COME!!!

Ladies, Remember
1. That it's not over until AF comes
2. That many ladies get false negatives
3. That implantation happens 6-12 dpo
4. That we are here for you no matter what

I know some of us will test early, so tell me when you post if you want to be updated as TBA for June or with your new June testing date or as a . I have an idea. What if instead of marking you as AF or hugs on the front, I just add your new date or as TBA? We keep adding to the list from May and on until we can see everyone have that beautiful beside her name. What do you all think? Good luck and fingers crossed!

TESTERS:
May 25: Becyboo__x

Ladies, I hope today is the start of a great weekend for you. Do something nice for yourself today. Give yourself a break from worrying, peeing on things, and questioning life's timing...well at least for long enough to pamper yourself. What will you do today to show yourself some love and appreciation for what you are doing?

 

[FrancoRie710]

So this morning my temp was higher that it has ever been (98.0, which is high for me) so I couldn't help it. I tested and got a bfn. I'm 9dpo so I know it's still early, but I was really hoping there would be a faint line

 

[kksy9b]

Tested this morning at 11 dpo- BFN. Held it up to the light squinting and nada- will wait for AF before testing again but not feeling good about this month. Its only our first cycle though so I'm not too discouraged or anything, will just have to shoot for June!

 

[chulie]

Ladies I hope those bfn are just bfp waiting patiently to show!!!!

So my dh and I have this inside joke now..hahaha. I had messaged him yesterday at work to say "hey..tonight's a full moon...I've heard it's great luck to make a baby on a full moon!!" So then after work we decided to go out for dinner with our dd. while we were there they had one of those claw games where you dig in and pick out a stuffed toy. Dh went to win one for dd and comes back and hands it to me. He's like look hunny..it's a blue moon! (It really was this stuffed blue half moon) hahaha. He's like maybe it's a sign. Then this morning my daughter randomly takes this toy and stuffs it up her shirt and comes running to me...she's like "mommy look, my baby" ( we have so many friends who are pregnant or just had babies she fully gets the baby/tummy thing). I turned to dh and I'm like "hopefully mommy has a blue moon in her tummy too" he's smiles at me and says "I know you do".....?!??! Anyways. The whole moon thing was just super cute and hilarious and one of those great times that come with TTC. Even if it doesn't happen this month. The whole thing has been so cute!

 

[FrancoRie710]

Ladies I hope those bfn are just bfp waiting patiently to show!!!!

So my dh and I have this inside joke now..hahaha. I had messaged him yesterday at work to say "hey..tonight's a full moon...I've heard it's great luck to make a baby on a full moon!!" So then after work we decided to go out for dinner with our dd. while we were there they had one of those claw games where you dig in and pick out a stuffed toy. Dh went to win one for dd and comes back and hands it to me. He's like look hunny..it's a blue moon! (It really was this stuffed blue half moon) hahaha. He's like maybe it's a sign. Then this morning my daughter randomly takes this toy and stuffs it up her shirt and comes running to me...she's like "mommy look, my baby" ( we have so many friends who are pregnant or just had babies she fully gets the baby/tummy thing). I turned to dh and I'm like "hopefully mommy has a blue moon in her tummy too" he's smiles at me and says "I know you do".....?!??! Anyways. The whole moon thing was just super cute and hilarious and one of those great times that come with TTC. Even if it doesn't happen this month. The whole thing has been so cute!

If you have a girl maybe you can name her Luna! Or Moonchild that's good for a girl or a boy... if you're a hippie!

 

[Jean40]

Jean40...veery interesting!!! I've actually never even heard of this saliva testing. What is different with our saliva when we ovulate?

https://www.fertile-focus.com/saliva-ovulation-predictor.html

Here's the instructions for one of those little microscopes they sell. I just looked at that and it pretty much tells you what to look for. Since I do all sorts of microscope work, I knew how to find it easily. I've seen stuff like this before in other fluids.

 

[allforthegirl]

Well it is definitely there this morning.

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=620005&stc=1&d=1369488370

 

[ProfWife]

allforthegirl...I can definitely see a faint line on that one. That's certain to get darker! Congratulations!!

 

[burgbrandy]

Congrats allforthegirl!! I just knew this would be ur month!

 

[Becyboo__x]

Not sure with me atm .. negative tests and no af
More then likely will be out

 

[allforthegirl]

Thank you very much ladies! I'm just still in awe!! I am cautious too.... I want those lines to get darker and darker. Though compared to my loss bfp cycle i have way more stronger symptoms this time!! I will take that as a good sign!!

 

[melann13]

Congrats Allforthegirl

AFM- A little freaked out, yesterday afternoon I had the tiniest speck of blood in my CM when I wiped. A single tiny speck and no more since. We did dtd yesterday morning, and while it wasn't rough, I have been feeling rougher during dtd since getting pregnant. I have lots of CM, but it's a different quality, more sticky, and so not super helpful for dtd. I took the rest of the day really easy. No major cramps, just a little bit of a backache, which terrifies me because last time I had horrid back pain before the MC started. My chest is still very painful, and I've been extra nauseous today and yesterday. Last time my symptoms had started to disappear before the MC. Last time I had only the tiniest bit of blood the day before and then hardly any before I actually lost the baby.
Trying to stay positive. I know that low back pain can be totally normal for someone hitting the 7week mark, just scary when things remind me of last time.
Please keep us in your prayers. If I can get though the next couple days without things getting any worse I think I'll be able to relax. Our US is only a week and a half away...

 

[OurLilFlu]

Allforthegirl!!! Congrats!! So happy for you! Hope that line darkens up in the next couple days!!

 

[burgbrandy]

Ur in my prayers melann!

 

[chulie]

Allforthegirl- omg I'm ridiculously happy for you!!!!! Xoxoxo xoxoxox

Melann...oh it's so hard. Even the tiniest blood is so scary but just try and remember to stay positive. This IS your sticky bean!!!

Hahaha....moonchild!! Oh man. It would almost be worth the reaction to see my mother in law's face if I told her that!!!!! Almost! Lmao. Lets just say. She didn't like the name for dd and made it very clear when we told her....her exact words were "oh I don't like that name...you should name her Selena instead"....gee thanks. For he record. My daughters name is nothing crazy..it's Sophie! Hahaaha.

 

[kirstyjane13]

allforthegirl....congrats, so happy for you xx

melann, I shall be thinking of you. xx

 

[Mme2kdee]

melann - my thoughts and prayers are with you!! Fingers crossed!!

Allforthegirl - congrats!!!!!!

 

[pennymarie]

Congrats allforthegirl! Keep us updated with pics to see when it gets darker

Melann: I know how hard it is to not stress about it, especially with the symptoms reminding you. There is no way you can speak with a doctor just to give you peace of mind?

AFM: CD15 and waaaaaiting. Uuugh. I gave up on getting my internet opks because I was getting so close I was afraid of missing my surge. So yesterday afternoon I ran to $tree (with a full bladder) and bought ten. Negative of course. I'm a little scared I missed it, but CM has been sticky until I take my mucinex then its just creamy. Husband has been wonderfully frisky recently...still in limbo about all the marital drama. I'm not going to bring it up and start a row. But I think I'm going to hold off the deed until positive opk I want him this frisky around ovulation, not now...never held back sex, but I jokingly did once for a minute and it made him want it more

 

[melann13]

It's Saturday now, so no calling the doc. There is a nurse line, but I also feel like I got all the info of what to do last time, and calling them just makes it seem like something is actually wrong... Just taking it easy and trying to relax. We're supposed to go to a grad party this afternoon an hour and a half away.... we'll see how I feel. I certainly don't want to be that far from home if something happens- not that it will... everything's fine right? A single speck of blood and nothing since, I shouldn't be this worried...