MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[momwithbabies]

FRER is Negative. I have no clue what my body is doing!!! I guess it's the antibiotics. I hope AF shows up today so I can move forward. Thank you, ladies, for the support. I'm pretty down right now, but it's nothing new and I'll be okay.

 

[mummy2o]

Sorry about that momwithbabies. I know how disappointing that can be.

AFM I went to my fitness class and got home, then my car broke!!! So can't get a test right now as there nearest show to get one is about 30 minute walk! On the plus side I do have a dr's appointment a week tomorrow so could always get a test then. AF has stayed away so I probably am pregnant, but still be cautious just in case it turns into a m/c

 

[nikkilucky77]

momwithbabies: I'm so sorry . I know it is disappointing...on to the next cycle! Good luck hun...I am sure I am there too. I am 8 or 9 dpo but I really feel AF is coming. I o'd early this month so it makes me think that AF is going to be early too. Good luck and think about how great having a baby in the spring (April) will be .

 

[nikkilucky77]

mummy2o: Ahh bad luck. Hopefully your car doesn't need anything major. Good luck at the dr's

 

[kirstyjane13]

I'm going to try to hold out until Wednesday but I know I won't make it lol. It's hard when you hear of early bfp's and then you think maybe I will get one

I did test this morning bfn of course I'm going to try and wait til saturday now, il be 14dpo and then me and dp will both be home so can test together xx

 

[kirstyjane13]

Hopeful - thank you. Ttc was over bearing so had to take a few weeks away from here I was starting to go mad im sure... analysing everything. Feel so much better now ive had a few weeks away. Yep 13th is still my official testing day. How are you xx

 

[Lazydaisys]

Pro wife

Stupid people!

 

[ClandestineTX]

I don't want to leave you ladies out of the line eye fun today... I can't remember if I mentioned this here or not... dropped a test into a cup of pee last night and couldn't shake the feeling like I was seeing "something" and this afternoon, did a random test and same shadowesque line. So I posted it for votes... what do you all think?

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=148823

 

[ProfWife]

I vote for a positive. You're only 11dpo? I think that's going to get darker. I see color on both of them.

Thanks for the hugs! I'm home now. We didn't tell the in-laws what's going on. I'm going to ask him if it's something I should write in a letter to them.

Here we go in the TWW ladies...oh...the frustration

 

[ClandestineTX]

Thanks for the vote... I hope it gets darker. I need a break from TTC and pregnancy seems to be the only way that's going to happen in this house!

And I'll be honest... I didn't have time to fully catch up after a weekend away... I had to go back and find your post....

Arg....I need a virtual hug. Just spent the afternoon surrounded by tons of children and relatives of hubs who all kept saying how we need to start filling out our branch of the family tree...and tons of people during photos referring to our half of the shot as the infertile side.

They don't know about our struggles...so I can't blame them for saying insensitive things. I am upset that some can't seem to stay out of others' business though...

And all I can say is WTF? I would have told them, they're family right? In that moment I would have been like it would be fucking hilarious, if only it weren't true! And made them all feel like douchebags. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

 

[burgbrandy]

Fx'd that it gets darker!

 

[ProfWife]

They're extended family, my mother-in-law made one passing comment but it was in reference to something in her past (even though it stung me a bit).

I'm not one to make waves in the family. Even though I could make things really tense by firing back, it wouldn't be fair to my hubs to pit him against his family.

Weirdest thing, one of the girls who made the comment had fertility issues herself. She had secondary infertility for several years before medical interventions helped her conceive her twins. She's had two more without medical interventions since then. If anyone should understand, she should have.

 

[ClandestineTX]

She was likely saying more about herself than you. That's usually the case when someone unleashes their inner asshole. I'm still just sorry you had to hear such things directed at you. I think anyone who's really had to TTC, whether it's 3 months or 3 years or more, fears infertility. Just an awful thing to say to someone!

 

[omgbaby]

Ughhh. I feel like I'm gonna throw up. I've been hot & nauseous off & on all day. We went to grocery & I was starving. So when we got home I had watermelon, chocolate milk & Doritos. Lmao could be the reason I want to throw up. Having mini pigs n a blanket for dinner

 

[momwithbabies]

Omgbaby: It's making me sick just thinking about those food combinations! I hope it's a good sign for you

ProfWife: I'm like you in that I don't like to make waves (especially with extended family). Maybe your husband has some ideas on how to handle that situation.

ClandestineTX: Here's hoping those lines are the beginning of something!!!

 

[momwithbabies]

Sorry about that momwithbabies. I know how disappointing that can be.

AFM I went to my fitness class and got home, then my car broke!!! So can't get a test right now as there nearest show to get one is about 30 minute walk! On the plus side I do have a dr's appointment a week tomorrow so could always get a test then. AF has stayed away so I probably am pregnant, but still be cautious just in case it turns into a m/c

That really stinks about your car!!! Here's hoping it is an easy repair. Good luck with the testing either way

 

[nikkilucky77]

Omgbaby: Wow...are you pregnant? those are some crazy combos

ClandestineTX: I say positive . Hope it gets darker for you!

Prowife: I am like you that way too (not causing waves). I sometimes think it takes a stronger person to be silent. My sister is the queen of bluntness and I am the one always thinking about others feelings . Way to stay classy!

 

[momwithbabies]

momwithbabies: I'm so sorry . I know it is disappointing...on to the next cycle! Good luck hun...I am sure I am there too. I am 8 or 9 dpo but I really feel AF is coming. I o'd early this month so it makes me think that AF is going to be early too. Good luck and think about how great having a baby in the spring (April) will be .

An April baby would be fine for me! Even though that's probably the worst time to have a baby in my career. I'm a teacher, and April is state assessment time for the kids. But you know, I would never turn down another chance to hold a precious baby in my arms! Maybe you're not out yet, but I hate the anticipation of AF. It's torture!!! Best if luck, and keeping my fingers crossed that the witch stays away.

 

[nikkilucky77]

I'm going to try to hold out until Wednesday but I know I won't make it lol. It's hard when you hear of early bfp's and then you think maybe I will get one

I did test this morning bfn of course I'm going to try and wait til saturday now, il be 14dpo and then me and dp will both be home so can test together xx

Lol I tested this morning too and same as you. BFN...glaring white...not a hint. I am planning on testing Friday or Saturday again. I don't know I kinda feel like AF is coming...crampy. I even bought AF materials just in case. Maybe I'll jinx it and AF won't come .

 

[nikkilucky77]

momwithbabies: I'm so sorry . I know it is disappointing...on to the next cycle! Good luck hun...I am sure I am there too. I am 8 or 9 dpo but I really feel AF is coming. I o'd early this month so it makes me think that AF is going to be early too. Good luck and think about how great having a baby in the spring (April) will be .

An April baby would be fine for me! Even though that's probably the worst time to have a baby in my career. I'm a teacher, and April is state assessment time for the kids. But you know, I would never turn down another chance to hold a precious baby in my arms! Maybe you're not out yet, but I hate the anticipation of AF. It's torture!!! Best if luck, and keeping my fingers crossed that the witch stays away.

I'm a teacher too!! You are right about April being crazy busy but I won't say no to a baby either! My hubby's birthday is in April so he really wants that now lol. Like I can just make that happen! And thanks for the luck...hope it works!!