Agreed - when you're having those hormonally induced moments, you know there's a safe place on here to get it out. Sometimes, you just need someone to listen.
In my world, frustrated with a husband who takes on far more than he should at any one time (lead on a project, fraternity mentor, hoa president, trying to get on an oversight board at a bank, leadership at church, painting the interior, etc., etc., etc.). He can't seem to say no to anything except me...and I'm just so over him being so exhausted by everything that I can't get any time with me. We just fought for 45 minutes because I'm trying to get him to cut back on things that don't matter so we can focus on trying to get things set up for the baby (I'm going back into the classroom for 8 weeks to cover someone else's maternity leave) as I'm worried I won't have time to get anything done until I'm so pregnant I won't have energy TO get it done...but it doesn't seem to register with him. He just gets pissed, tells me to delay getting things until we get the room ready but doesn't understand what I'm looking at as a timeline without the time or energy to get things done for the next 2 months.
Looks like I've got the hormonal ravings already going...and I just feel like throwing up right now (I've been sick to my stomach and had a headache all night). I feel like nothing but an inconvenience to his massive plans to make an impact in the world. I don't think he understands that I couldn't care less about the impact he makes out there if the impact he makes at home isn't one that is healthy and thriving...it starts here...not out there...
