MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[Mme2kdee]

Thank you
Dont lose hope!!!

Mme2kdee: sorry i don't know anything about the saliva tests, but I briefly looked up some stuff and I agree about the transitional stage.

Rhi_Rhi1, lesh07 and burgbrandy: I'm with you on the BFN's. I keep testing for no good reason, and I know the feeling of waiting to test until 14DPO and AF comes early. Though I just don't feel like enough bd-ing went on around ovulation, so I just know I'm out. I kinda want to make AF come so I can get onto next cycle quicker. I don't want to wait another two weeks to ovulate. I just don't

I'm going to continue the progesterone until AF is due, test, wait a few more for good measure and test one last time.

All the BFPs please keep us updated!!

 

[AllStar]

Congrats again on the bfp's! Keep them coming!!

My temp is way down today but I have a cold so may have been sleeping with my mouth open? What do you ladies think, do you think I've ovulated and when? My opk's are negative now and ewcm is competely gone.

 

[live_in_hope]

oh my days! After my rubbish day after my bfn this morning (10dpo) something just possessed me to test again. Im sure theres something there, hubby thinks so too! Have just uploaded pics to my journal (in sig) please pop in (pg 32)and let me know what you think! xx

 

[AllStar]

oh my days! After my rubbish day after my bfn this morning (10dpo) something just possessed me to test again. Im sure theres something there, hubby thinks so too! Have just uploaded pics to my journal (in sig) please pop in (pg 32)and let me know what you think! xx

I can definitely see something!!! Hope it's your bfp, will you be testing again in the morning? Good luck!! X

 

[live_in_hope]

oh my days! After my rubbish day after my bfn this morning (10dpo) something just possessed me to test again. Im sure theres something there, hubby thinks so too! Have just uploaded pics to my journal (in sig) please pop in (pg 32)and let me know what you think! xx

I can definitely see something!!! Hope it's your bfp, will you be testing again in the morning? Good luck!! X

oh yes!! xx
Thanks for looking hun, xx

 

[imaginary8x]

Not tested yet but already feel out. :/

 

[melann13]

@live_in_hope, I see it! 10dpo too! That's nice and early!

AFM I've been testing daily since my BFP on Thursday May 2nd. They are definitely slightly darker day by day. Thursday my blood HCG was 23, and I had more taken yesterday (Saturday) but won't get the results til tomorrow. I guess I'm just scared that it won't be increasing fast enough. In theory I should have blood levels around 60 today, and it just seems like a test would be darker? But maybe I can't expect quantitative results? You'd think that if the OPKs can go crazy dark the HPTs can too... IDK, I guess I'll know tomorrow when the doc calls.
Have had nausea on and off, still some pinching in "the spot" where I think LO implanted, fatique, a little dizziness, thirst and hunger. I guess my biggest sign is that it's 14dpo and no AF right? Trying to keep my worrisome mind in check.
From top to bottom the tests are 11,12,13 and 14dpo

 

[pennymarie]

allstar: I think that if you chart tomorrow's temp it will give you more info. Why was yesterday's hollow? Was it at a different time? Because its a bit high. Hopefully tomorrow will be high then that will mean you ovulated today? You can ovulate up to two days after last positive opk. Are you taking anything for your CM?

 

[omgbaby]

Welcome!

@omgbaby Welcome to our group! I'm sorry it's been hard for you. I understand how difficult it is to see others who get pregnant so easily. Do you use opks or temp at all? Are you testing tomorrow or do you have a specific testing date yet? Good luck!


@missranda Welcome to the group! It's never too late to join! Fingers crossed for a BFP!

Thanks! No, I don't temp I can never get into it or understand it. The end of march & beg of april I took prenatal vits for a few weeks but kept forgetting so I stopped. So far no AF. I'm gonna try to wait until she's a week late to test! So put me down for the 11th!

 

[Hopeful2014]

@Mme2kdee Welcome to our group! I haven't used the saliva tests, but I always thought it sounded interesting. I really hope your cycles do regulate, 1 week on and 1 week off would be so hard. Fingers crossed for a BFP!


@MzImpatient Updated. I'm glad that it came earlier for you this cycle!

@omgbaby Date updated. Good luck!

 

[Hopeful2014]

@Ruskiegirl I hope it was today as well.

@lesh07 9dpo is early; I hope your journey is shorter and easier this time. Hopefully we can help you along this time as well.

@Rhi_Rhi1 AF is cruel. It hurts so much at the beginning, but then I try to focus on the next cycle and decide what to do differently and what worked for me. You will stick around for June, right?

@live_in_hope I definitely see a line. I look forward to a progression! Keep us updated!

@imaginary8x Some of the ladies here felt out before getting a BFP. Remember symptoms do not always have to be intense.

@melann13 They are definitely getting darker and you're having symptoms-great news! I look forward to hearing your results tomorrow.

@AllStar I agree; I want to see what tomorrow's temp is.

 

[Ruskiegirl]

100% positive Ovulation was tonight sometime , Hoping for some stabler post o temps too with this new bbt thermo

 

[mummy2o]

I feel out. I always get constipated before AF so thats normally a good sign for me. However, I'm getting hot flushes so how knows.

 

[lesh07]

Well 10dpo and another BFN after a whole 9 hours of having a full bladder. xx

 

[stephj25]

I also got bfn at 11dpo. Losing hope now

 

[lesh07]

I also got bfn at 11dpo. Losing hope now

Same as for this month. Hope we both hear some good news soon. xxx

 

[newbie2013]

Yay!!! Finally the sneaky, silly, annoying witch makes a proper appearance.

Tentative June testing date - 4th June!

Good luck everyone! Bring on those bfps!!

 

[AllStar]

Thanks ladies, sorry for all the questions but its my first month temping and I seem to worry about every temp! You've all been so great though so thank you so much.

I don't have crosshairs on my chart but my ff calander says I ovulated yesterday and is making me 1dpo today. Do you think that's right? I don't know if the low temp was due to open mouth or is actually correct and I ovulated that day? Either way I think I ovulated because if you change the low temp to something similar to today it makes me 3dpo?

I'm a little worried though because last night is the first in about a week that we haven't dtd so if I did ovulate yesterday we've lowered our chances?

ETA - I've been drinking grapefruit juice for cm and it seemed to work really well as the days I had ewcm, I had loads.

 

[newbie2013]

Thanks for the grapfruit juice tip - will try to get some this cycle.

 

[Hopeful2014]

Thanks ladies, sorry for all the questions but its my first month temping and I seem to worry about every temp! You've all been so great though so thank you so much.

I don't have crosshairs on my chart but my ff calander says I ovulated yesterday and is making me 1dpo today. Do you think that's right? I don't know if the low temp was due to open mouth or is actually correct and I ovulated that day? Either way I think I ovulated because if you change the low temp to something similar to today it makes me 3dpo?

I'm a little worried though because last night is the first in about a week that we haven't dtd so if I did ovulate yesterday we've lowered our chances?

ETA - I've been drinking grapefruit juice for cm and it seemed to work really well as the days I had ewcm, I had loads.

I think it's possible. Was cd 19-cd 21 disturbed any by illness or lo? I ask since today's temp is near those in level. I imagine your temps will get higher after today as well. FF will not give you crosshairs until you have three high temps after ovulation day. It wants to make sure there is a confirmed difference in temps. You should get crosshairs by Wednesday/Thursday if yesterday was ovulation.

I assume that if you make the low temp higher it makes you 3dpo because then it thinks cd 25 was ovulation, right? That's why I wasn't sure yesterday because I wondered if cd 25 might have been it and that cd 27 was lower due to an estrogen surge (that a lot but not all women get 2-3 days after ovulation). The next few temps will reveal a lot.

You're still in the free month VIP trial, right? If so, have you tried to look at the chart with the different detectors (Advanced, FAM, Research)? It's under "chart settings" at top and then "detector tunings". Some people alternate between "Advanced" and "FAM" to see if they match or which possible dates they give. I wonder if looking at the different settings will pick out the best possible date?

There's also a place that gives you a rating for bd. Go to "Analysis" at top and then "Intercourse Timing". I'm sure you are covered.

That's good to know about the grapefruit juice. I might try that if this cycle doesn't work out.