MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[pennymarie]

Well, at least it lengthened my LP....did it do that for you too? You aren't taking it anymore, any reason? I think I remember you saying that there was a reason

Thanks...really wish DH was here. I just feel like there is no one here to comfort me. On top of that, he says maybe we should take another break from TTC because next month might be the same hours, and he doesn't want me disappointed again. I think I'd be sadder if we quit trying again. I don't know how to express this to him

 

[River54]

AF came late last night before bed. Going to start clomid this next cycle. Was going to count today as cd1 though - thoughts?

Can you put me down for testing around June 7th? Sooo probably test lots before then though.

 

[lesh07]

just checking in to say I am on cd2 again, so new testing date is June 3rd Going on hols on 18th so hoping we can conceive a holiday baby! fx

Same here hun. We are going to cornwall on the 18th and hoping to conceive a holiday baby. Good luck to you hun. xx

 

[30mummyof1]

just checking in to say I am on cd2 again, so new testing date is June 3rd Going on hols on 18th so hoping we can conceive a holiday baby! fx

Same here hun. We are going to cornwall on the 18th and hoping to conceive a holiday baby. Good luck to you hun. xx

Goodluck to you too hun, Devon for us, can't wait

 

[omgbaby]

I'm going crazy. I just checked my cervix & it was still pretty high, but when I looked at my finger the tip of my finger had a little blood. It really looked like red cm honestly. Could I have implanted late? Or is this the start of af? Truly I don't temp or use OPK's so I don't know when exactly I o'd.

It's weird though because as I'm typing this I'm having pinching near my belly button for the last 5 mins now.

 

[Ruskiegirl]

I'm going crazy. I just checked my cervix & it was still pretty high, but when I looked at my finger the tip of my finger had a little blood. It really looked like red cm honestly. Could I have implanted late? Or is this the start of af? Truly I don't temp or use OPK's so I don't know when exactly I o'd.

It's weird though because as I'm typing this I'm having pinching near my belly button for the last 5 mins now.

how many dpo are you ? Also checking your cervix you can knick it to and cause a small scratch that can make you bleed a little

 

[omgbaby]

I usually use the MyDays app on my phone to put in when we bd & when af comes & such but I don't always trust the ovulation days. We usually just bed & hope we catch it. So honestly I'm not sure. I've looked up a due date calendar & it's said I'm 22 dpo.

Last af was April 5 to April 9. We bd'd April 1-4, 8, 17, 19-21, 25-26,28-29.
Af was due May 4. We bd'd May 2, 5, 8, 11. & those are just the days I remember to write down!! Lol

 

[burgbrandy]

Well, at least it lengthened my LP....did it do that for you too? You aren't taking it anymore, any reason? I think I remember you saying that there was a reason

Thanks...really wish DH was here. I just feel like there is no one here to comfort me. On top of that, he says maybe we should take another break from TTC because next month might be the same hours, and he doesn't want me disappointed again. I think I'd be sadder if we quit trying again. I don't know how to express this to him

I took it because of luteal phase spotting. I thought maybe my progesterone was low and thats why id start spotting at 6 dpo, so i used it for 2 months. I decided to stop taking for a month and no spotting. So i just dont use it anymore.

Im sorry about ur dh. Maybe stick with strategically timed bd without telling him u are actively trying this month? Lol. Im sneaky like that. Too much pressure on hubby when he knows its fertile time.

 

[nikkilucky77]

I usually use the MyDays app on my phone to put in when we bd & when af comes & such but I don't always trust the ovulation days. We usually just bed & hope we catch it. So honestly I'm not sure. I've looked up a due date calendar & it's said I'm 22 dpo.

Last af was April 5 to April 9. We bd'd April 1-4, 8, 17, 19-21, 25-26,28-29.
Af was due May 4. We bd'd May 2, 5, 8, 11. & those are just the days I remember to write down!! Lol

Wow! Good luck to you! Did you take a hpt yet?!? I would have caved already

 

[Fallen8905]

i dont know why i bother!!! oh is going away tomorrow till friday!!!! GRRRRRR thats probably me out this cycle already!

 

[omgbaby]

I usually use the MyDays app on my phone to put in when we bd & when af comes & such but I don't always trust the ovulation days. We usually just bed & hope we catch it. So honestly I'm not sure. I've looked up a due date calendar & it's said I'm 22 dpo.

Last af was April 5 to April 9. We bd'd April 1-4, 8, 17, 19-21, 25-26,28-29.
Af was due May 4. We bd'd May 2, 5, 8, 11. & those are just the days I remember to write down!! Lol

Wow! Good luck to you! Did you take a hpt yet?!? I would have caved already

Yeah it was neg but I'm thinking maybe I o'd late or implanted late

 

[omgbaby]

Just came from bathroom & when I wiped there was like brown cm. Hmm. Kinda looked pinkish brown but had consistency on cm. No cramping or anything

 

[Mme2kdee]

Just came from bathroom & when I wiped there was like brown cm. Hmm. Kinda looked pinkish brown but had consistency on cm. No cramping or anything

Very strange! Are you normally regular? How long are you cycles?
It is possible you O'd late. I haven't O'd yet (normally due CD15, it is looking more like CD 18 this month - completely odd).. Maybe it is implantation spotting? I would test in 2 days if I were you Good luck!!!!!!

 

[omgbaby]

Thanks!! Fx for us both! & yes usually AF is right on time or a day or 2 late

UPDATE!! I had the pinkish brown cm at about 7:51 (U.S. time) now at 9:50, nothing else since!! fx!

 

[Hopeful2014]

@jadex7 Welcome to the group! Fingers crossed for a BFP!


@omgbaby I hope you get your answer soon! I imagine all the waiting is so hard. I hope it's a BFP!

@30mummyof1 Date updated. Have a wonderful holiday and good luck on bringing back baby!

@newbie2013 Wonderful news! It will be great to have him fully committed and on board! Good luck!

@OurLilFlu Don't count yourself out until the witch fully lands. Sometimes I wonder why our bodies have to do this to us? Feel better.

@Fallen8905 He might be gone until your cd 24. He should be back in enough time if you're around the same as your March cycle looks. Try not to stress out about it and definitely don't count yourself out yet! I hope it all works out for you.

 

[Hopeful2014]

@RaeChay Don't take it out on yourself. I understand the feeling and worrying. The man and woman both feel somewhat responsible and frightened when it doesn't just happen. However, it might be nothing at all. It might just take a while to get everything perfect all at the same time. What I do to stop with this paranoia is think of things that worked better from the cycle before and what can I do to give us more of a chance next time. Have you thought of anything that you might like to try differently or did you find something last time that will be even better this time? Feel better.

@pennymarie I'm sorry. It's really good that the cream lengthened your lp! That will be very good once you do get your little egg in there. As far as DH just tell him how you feel. He may want to protect you from the disappointment and worry it causes you. Let him know it's something you want badly and that's why it bothers you. Then try to think of things you can do next time to ease the stress. Perhaps planning something for next month that you can also look forward to in addition to testing and hopefully getting pregnant!

@River54 I'm sorry. I always count it as next day if it's after midnight. When I went to bed earlier I would always count it as the next day if it hadn't came by the time I went to bed and it came during the night. I've updated your date. I'm glad you are sticking with us.

 

[kirstyjane13]

I've just done a test, and I'm sure its bfp. Very faint as its very early. But I'm sure there's a line ... And it was my last test, wasn't going to use it til next week x

 

[Hopeful2014]

I've just done a test, and I'm sure its bfp. Very faint as its very early. But I'm sure there's a line ... And it was my last test, wasn't going to use it til next week x

That's so exciting! Can you post a photo? I look forward to it getting darker! Do you want to make it official?

 

[lilly_bum]

well 2 dpo and still cramping pretty much all day and feel exhausted even though ive just woke up x

 

[Mummy to HP]

I've just done a test, and I'm sure its bfp. Very faint as its very early. But I'm sure there's a line ... And it was my last test, wasn't going to use it til next week x

Good luck!!