MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[Mummy to HP]

Yey!!

Congrats to the BFPs keep them coming, good luck to those still to test and hold tight those in the tww. Lets hope everyone gets that soon

AFM: no 'symptoms' as such really yet but still early days, I did read somewhere that feeling sick is a good sign of a healthy pregnancy which just makes me worry, I am pretty sure that is not the case though. I shold have realsied from my last time round that googling everything isn't a good idea! I have been VERY hormonal last few days and getting upset alot. I have fallen out with my sister as well although funnily enough now her stress has been taken away I feel much better. Unfortunatley though we hadn't wanted to tell people about our pregnancy but because she was upsetting me so much my DH told her OH to calm her down that we didnt want the stress as I was in the very early stages of pregnancy. I really hope she doesnt tell people. Hopefully she wont some of her last words to me were "your dead to me" but then she got annoyed when I said thats fine I understand you just wont have to have anything to do with me my DH or my son and then she got angry and told me "I was a s**t mother" for using DS against her. I dont understand how she expects to have a relationship with my son if she doesnt want anything to do with me HIS MOTHER?? She doesnt have parental rights as far as I know lol thats me and my DH.


WOW sorry for the rant - still angry it would seem!!!


Sorry for the typos!!

 

[kirstyjane13]

FRER from this morning, still only faint but I'm sure there is a line ... What do you think xx

 

[Ruskiegirl]

FRER from this morning, still only faint but I'm sure there is a line ... What do you think xx

Hard to tell hun the pic is to blurry for me try turning some light on in the room you take the pic that should help the lens adjust better

 

[Mummy to HP]

FRER from this morning, still only faint but I'm sure there is a line ... What do you think xx

Hard to tell hun the pic is to blurry for me try turning some light on in the room you take the pic that should help the lens adjust better

Wss! Good luck!

 

[Mummy to HP]

FRER from this morning, still only faint but I'm sure there is a line ... What do you think xx

Hard to tell hun the pic is to blurry for me try turning some light on in the room you take the pic that should help the lens adjust better

Wss! Good luck!

 

[ALiKO]

Wow I've only been gone a few days from this thread and its already grown by like 10 or so pages and a new BFP!!! Congrats to the the new BFP and all the other ladies who have gotten their BFP's so far!!! How exciting and to everyone else no matter where you are in your cycle FX ladies!

For me I'm currently CD 14 waiting to O which I'm predicting will be CD 19. Hoping I can BD everyday starting tomorrow.
Also way earlier in this thread I was asking if anyone knew how to increase CM and I was told several things but there was one that kept sticking out which was to simply just drink more water. I have dramatically increased my water intake and I have so much CM now!!!

TMI but I'm like a faucet, turn me on and watch me pour. Sorry ladies I know that was a bit much but I'm telling you it works!

Now on to this thread I have a lot of catching up to do

 

[kiki13]

Good luck kirstyjane! I'm out for this month thanks to my wonky cycles, last one was 34 days so I assumed I'd be ovulating now (CD19), instead, I'm sporting and pretty sure AF will be here later today/tomorrow. So bummed! Can I stick around if I'm testing in June?! In fact, I'm not even sure when to test with OPKs and when to take a pregnancy test now. I've had one 15 day cycle, one 34 day cycle and one 19/20 day cycle. Ugh!

 

[lesh07]

Good luck lesh, you opk'ing? X

Hi hun. No I think that as we are on holiday next week we are just going to see what happens. OH thinks that as we will be away from the normal day to day chaos I will be naturally more relaxed and I may fall pregnant as the hormones won't be stressed out. Lol. xx

 

[30mummyof1]

I'm hoping that will make the difference for us, because my oh has a stressful job I think he'll be up for more bd, hope so anyway!

 

[lesh07]

I'm hoping that will make the difference for us, because my oh has a stressful job I think he'll be up for more bd, hope so anyway!

We have found that with the past 2 babies it has happened when I started to believe it was never going to happen. As with both pregnancies after the 2 year mark I would say "I think I am infertile now" and blow me that month I would be more relaxed as I accepted that we may never have another and about 4-5 days after AF was due OH would say why don't you take a pregnancy test. I would be like "There's no point, I won't be pregnant" And then bamm BFP's!! . So there is always hope. xxx

 

[Becyboo__x]

I don't think I've ovulated this cycle I had my usual O pains but earlier when I got ewcm which was CD8-9 but since after then iv had creamy cm .. and my temps don't look to me like I have

Normal day is between CD 10 and 13 never any later ..

 

[Hopeful2014]

Good question! No idea! Can't find the box, lol googling now!
Btw, it is af! Well was when I last went to the bathroom, I'm actually really excited. Usually I'm crying & wanting to punch a wall when af comes.

I must thank Hopeful2014 for creating this thread. This one thread has kept me positive this last week & for the upcoming month!! Thank you to all you ladies!

@omgbaby and all you wonderful ladies: I hope that I can help even in the smallest way. Knowing that you all are out there going through this too helps me to know I'm not alone. I'm so glad we can all stick together and not slip through the threads!

 

[Hopeful2014]

@Mummy to HP It is definitely early. Some women do not even learn that they are pregnant by the point you are at now! Truly--try not to worry! The hormones and emotions are symptoms as well. I hate to say it's good to be away from family, although that's happened with me over the years with some, but less stress is good. Perhaps some time will pass and all will be right again.

@kirstyjane13 Keep testing to see it get darker! Fingers crossed!

@ALiKO Great news about the water!! What cd did you start and how much a day? I always thought the water option seemed the best/easiest, but I haven't fully tried it yet. I'm committing to it starting now!

@kiki13 I'm sorry to hear about that. My suggestion would definitely be to start temping as soon as possible. I know it seems like a hassle, but it will help you learn more about your cycle. It should be able to tell you if you are ovulating, a range of when it should happen, and provide you information about your luteal phase and progesterone levels based on temp. Absolutely stick around! I figure we start the thread in May, go to June, and beyond for anyone who still needs it!

@lesh07 I think you can do without the opks as long as you are bding, as much bding as possible!

@Becyboo__x The temps do look similar. I'm not sure if it happened or not. Here are some guesses assuming it might have happened:
1. CD 11 possible ovulation, with temp jump on cd 12, secondary estrogen surge/temp dip on cd 13, higher temp on cd 14. Sometimes if you have an estrogen dip (totally normal) FF doesn't give you crosshairs until several temps after. Mine has done this before; I was 5 dpo before I got crosshairs. I had an estrogen temp dip on 3 dpo so it took FF 2-3 more days to give me crosshairs to make sure it did happen. You might be able to add fake temps ahead of time to the next couple of days (higher or at the range of cd 12 and 14) to see if this is true. If so, it might add the crosshairs if that's why it's waiting to give them to you.
2. It might be cd 13 and cd 14 is slow rise and you need a couple more higher temps to get crosshairs.
3. Discard cd 5 (af temp) and see if it gives you crosshairs for any of the days.

 

[kirstyjane13]

I've got 1 more FRER and a tesco one and a few cheaper ones come in post today so hopefully will get darker lines later on in the week but my pic was rubbish dint put lights on) but I'm 99% that is the start to my bfp xx

 

[Hopeful2014]

MAY , HERE WE COME!!!

Ladies, Remember
1. That it's not over until AF comes
2. That many ladies get false negatives
3. That implantation happens 6-12 dpo
4. That we are here for you no matter what

I know some of us will test early, so tell me when you post if you want to be updated as TBA for June or with your new June testing date or as a . I have an idea. What if instead of marking you as AF or hugs on the front, I just add your new date or as TBA? We keep adding to the list from May and on until we can see everyone have that beautiful beside her name. What do you all think? Good luck and fingers crossed!

TESTERS:
May 13:
Electricat
BSelck24
ClandestineTX

 

[hemu]

Thanks )

I am just waiting to test on 20th May.. wish the week would just flyby XOXO

 

[littlesteph]

I caved in and tested early, not due on till friday, so it is still early. It was negative , i think i might be out this month, i've had a big dip in my temp, it's still above the coverline though, but i don't have that pregnant feeling anymore

 

[omgbaby]

I don't think I have a good thermometer. I just temped for the first time this morning so do you think if I go get a bbt thermometer tonight it'd be okay to test with that tomorrow?

 

[OurLilFlu]

Where are you in your cycles? If you're a few days in or even a few days after AF it should be fine, def recommend a bbt thermometer

 

[omgbaby]

Just cd2