burgbrandy
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Yes, ull be fine switching thermometers that early. Bbt is much more accurate.
got rushed to hospital this morning i have goll stones xx
@ALiKO Great news about the water!! What cd did you start and how much a day? I always thought the water option seemed the best/easiest, but I haven't fully tried it yet. I'm committing to it starting now!![]()
Can you make me official for a bfp....just did another test after work and its a definite positive but can't seem to get a good pic of it. I'm just going to my sisters to use her proper camera and not my phone xx
I was wondering after ff says I o'd can I still bd or is it off limits? Lol
I was wondering after ff says I o'd can I still bd or is it off limits? Lol
Hi Hopeful,
The positive attitude on this thread is wonderful and so appreciated!
I'm doing well. 5wks1day today. So far so good. I have had really mild cramps and back pain the last 4 days or so, not bad enough to need any pain meds, just enough to notice. From what I understand it's totally normal as things are stretching out. Breasts are still mildly sore, not too bad, still in regular bras (last time I was in sports bras by this time. Mostly fatigue is my major symptom. I've been managing to get naps in here and there and lots of sleep at night. Course they are filled with weird, sometimes disturbing dreams. I find the cramps calm down if I can lay down. Emotions are running high, but not sure if it's the pregnancy, or the previous loss. DH is very scared, starts crying when he thinks about what could happen again. Strangely I feel VERY little of the fear I felt last time. Last time was my first pregnancy, but from day one I was mortified and constantly googling miscarriage stats etc. This time I kind of realize that even though our chances were so low last time (having seen HB etc) it happened anyway. So stats don't mean anything to me. This time I am feeling very confident. I think partly because I had my BFP early, and the numbers on my two betas were good, and last time I had AWFUL cramps before my BFP, like on the floor in tears cramps. For some reason I just feel like this time it will work. It may be ignorant, but I don't care!
I am not nearly as anxious to tell people this time though. I told my parents so that I can talk to my mom about it, but no one else. For now I'm actually enjoying it being our secret.
As far as my previous comment about having perfect timing and it just not happening, it's completely true. My first BFP was on 2nd month off BC w/o a ton of effort. This time charting, OPKs, pre-seed etc and it took 6 months. We tried hard every month. Including Dec, which entailed sneaking in the BD while staying at SIL and his grandma's for the holidays! We still managed at least EOD that month. This month we did 5 days in a row up to and including O day. I'm not saying that's what worked, just saying that sometimes it's just not your month no matter how perfectly you did everything. in my head it just means that the eggy wasn't the right one for your perfect LO.
Yey!!
Congrats to the BFPs keep them coming, good luck to those still to test and hold tight those in the tww. Lets hope everyone gets thatsoon
AFM: no 'symptoms' as such really yet but still early days, I did read somewhere that feeling sick is a good sign of a healthy pregnancy which just makes me worry, I am pretty sure that is not the case though. I shold have realsied from my last time round that googling everything isn't a good idea! I have been VERY hormonal last few days and getting upset alot. I have fallen out with my sister as well although funnily enough now her stress has been taken away I feel much better. Unfortunatley though we hadn't wanted to tell people about our pregnancy but because she was upsetting me so much my DH told her OH to calm her down that we didnt want the stress as I was in the very early stages of pregnancy. I really hope she doesnt tell people. Hopefully she wont some of her last words to me were "your dead to me" but then she got annoyed when I said thats fine I understand you just wont have to have anything to do with me my DH or my son and then she got angry and told me "I was a s**t mother" for using DS against her. I dont understand how she expects to have a relationship with my son if she doesnt want anything to do with me HIS MOTHER?? She doesnt have parental rights as far as I know lol thats me and my DH.
WOW sorry for the rant - still angry it would seem!!!
Sorry for the typos!!