MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[melann13]

Oh, omgbaby I should also note that while I felt the cramps there at implantation time they continued on and off for days and even every once and awhile after the BFP, which was probably just LO burrowing in tighter.

 

[omgbaby]

Oh, omgbaby I should also note that while I felt the cramps there at implantation time they continued on and off for days and even every once and awhile after the BFP, which was probably just LO burrowing in tighter.

Oo yay! Fx I got bfn this morning on Walmart cheapie. since my last post I keep having pinching feelings near belly button (but at 10dpo I really don't think its baby related) but also having it down in uterus area as well.

 

[anointedq]

Oh, omgbaby I should also note that while I felt the cramps there at implantation time they continued on and off for days and even every once and awhile after the BFP, which was probably just LO burrowing in tighter.

Oo yay! Fx I got bfn this morning on Walmart cheapie. since my last post I keep having pinching feelings near belly button (but at 10dpo I really don't think its baby related) but also having it down in uterus area as well.

It will happen soon.

 

[imaginary8x]

I don't get how it only took 4 months with my ex to conceive my daughter now onto 10 months and nothing with my new bf! He has a kid from not using protection one time as well! :/

Rant over.

 

[kiki13]

Oh, omgbaby I should also note that while I felt the cramps there at implantation time they continued on and off for days and even every once and awhile after the BFP, which was probably just LO burrowing in tighter.

Oo yay! Fx I got bfn this morning on Walmart cheapie. since my last post I keep having pinching feelings near belly button (but at 10dpo I really don't think its baby related) but also having it down in uterus area as well.

I thought I had some symptoms at 10dpo but got a negative too. Then, got a positive a few days after AF was due. Wishing you lots and lots of baby dust

 

[lesh07]

@lesh07, your experience seems to be more normal than what we've all been led to believe. I recently read a few good studies that said couples who don't conceive within the first 12 months, often will do so in the second 12 months without medical intervention. I think it was by a group that was trying to speak out against rushing to encourage ovulation, as a lot of those interventions seem to have a slightly higher than average rate of miscarriage and complications. As with everything in science, there's an ongoing debate that continues with no clear answer on which approach is best. Good luck to you, though - I'm not sure how well we'll handle 1, I can only assume if you're up for #6 that you know exactly what you're getting yourself into!

Hi hun. I will run through quickly my ages of conceiving and time taken as I believe through experience and patience all dreams are possible.

I am now 30 years old. I had my 1st baby at 17 yo after 6 months ttc, 2nd was 20 yo after 18 months ttc, 3rd i had at 21 yo after 1 month ttc !!! Then came the hard part i had my 4th at age 25 yo after 30 months ttc and baby no 5 i had at 28 after 27 months ttc. I truly believe that sometimes ages and influence can take part in when we are able to conceive, I also believe that fate does not give us more than we can handle and as i already had 3 children maybe fate relised i was not quite ready for another so gave me more time to prepare.

I know deep down i could be in for another long journey but i know i will hold another baby some day. xxxxx

 

[lesh07]

Welcome anointedq....that's quite the journey you've been on so far!!! Wow...good luck to you. From what I've heard from the other ladies...clomid sounds like it will be a great course for you because you just need to ovulate! hahaha.....good luck! Can't wait to see your bfp!!

Lesh I hope this is a quick one for you!!!!! Let's get that number cut down to say....next month??? hahaha.....Fingers crossed girl!!

Let's hope so hun. But so long as i know i will get my baby i am okay as to whenever fate see's fit. xxx

 

[omgbaby]

Oo yay you girlies are giving me so much hope!!

 

[anointedq]

Welcome anointedq....that's quite the journey you've been on so far!!! Wow...good luck to you. From what I've heard from the other ladies...clomid sounds like it will be a great course for you because you just need to ovulate! hahaha.....good luck! Can't wait to see your bfp!!

Lesh I hope this is a quick one for you!!!!! Let's get that number cut down to say....next month??? hahaha.....Fingers crossed girl!!

Let's hope so hun. But so long as i know i will get my baby i am okay as to whenever fate see's fit. xxx

Thank you!!!

 

[momwithbabies]

Should I even bother giving this a second thought? Please give me honest opinions. I was 12 DPO, and I started this brown spotting last night before bed. It looks like what you see on the very tail end of your period. Today, at 13 DPO, still hardly any spotting and it's brown. No red at all. It's probably AF gearing up, right? Do I still have ANY possibility that it is implantation bleeding? I hardley have any cramping. I last had sex 13 days ago. My LP is 12 or 13 days.

 

[Ruskiegirl]

I don't get how it only took 4 months with my ex to conceive my daughter now onto 10 months and nothing with my new bf! He has a kid from not using protection one time as well! :/

Rant over.

I know exactly how you feel sweetie ! With my DH it took us the very first cycle to conceive our daughter who is 13 now . Is it possible he has something wrong with his sperm ? They can change with age and factors in lifestyle along with medical problems mabey you can see about having a semen analysis done

Well I called my doc today he was out and will be back on Monday but I told his nurse my concerns with the Criteria from WHO 1987 that the lab is using instead of the new criteria from WHO in 2010. So mabey he will agree with me and put me on clomid . I bought pre-seed and I am going to buy soft cups for next cycle if we did not manage a miracle this cycle

 

[OurLilFlu]

What are the criteria? I'm curious... Nursing does that to ya! Lol

 

[Ruskiegirl]

What are the criteria? I'm curious... Nursing does that to ya! Lol

The old criteria was 30% and higher normal and 70% abnormal the new criteria is 4% and higher normal and 96% abnormal

 

[OurLilFlu]

Neat! Ill have to look that up

 

[imaginary8x]

I don't get how it only took 4 months with my ex to conceive my daughter now onto 10 months and nothing with my new bf! He has a kid from not using protection one time as well! :/

Rant over.

I know exactly how you feel sweetie ! With my DH it took us the very first cycle to conceive our daughter who is 13 now . Is it possible he has something wrong with his sperm ? They can change with age and factors in lifestyle along with medical problems mabey you can see about having a semen analysis done

Well I called my doc today he was out and will be back on Monday but I told his nurse my concerns with the Criteria from WHO 1987 that the lab is using instead of the new criteria from WHO in 2010. So mabey he will agree with me and put me on clomid . I bought pre-seed and I am going to buy soft cups for next cycle if we did not manage a miracle this cycle

He got one done last year and he had super swimmers. lol but I'm thinking of getting them checked again as that time he only did it once.

 

[stephj25]

I'm out

 

[mummy2o]

Grrrr, I can never wake up at the same time so had an alarm set for 7.30 to tempt. Apparently it went off and OH turned it off and went back to sleep. I slept through it. He didn't even try and wake me! Woke up an hour later so had to temp them. However only on CD5 so won't make much difference unless I ovulate early which is unlikely

 

[kirstyjane13]

How is everyone today? I'm trying to take my mind of ttc...but its not easy.
I'm not sure if there are 100s more pregnant ladies and babies now or if I just notice them more xx

 

[Hopeful2014]

@anointedq Welcome to our group! I'm so sorry to hear about your losses and the challenges you have faced. I hope we can be a comfort to you when you need it and I'm sure we can offer you lots of support! I want to wish you loads of luck and baby dust. I'm hopeful that the clomid and metformin guides you to a BFP! I've added you to TBA for now and I'll update when you have a date. Good luck!


@omgbaby I understand searching for lines. You still have a strong chance!

@Tangerine I hope you get pregnant quickly and easily. You can test early if you want as long as you remember that if it isn't positive that it could still be positive later. I think it would be such a sweet surprise for your OH. Good luck!

@ClandestineTX

@Kwaggy I'm so glad to hear that. I'll update the front with the info.

@MzImpatient Date updated. I hope you get a BFP and twins!! Good luck!

@River54

@RaeChay I'm sorry. I've updated your date. Imagine seeing fireworks and seeing two beautiful pink lines shining at you as well! Good luck!

@pennymarie I hate that you're having to deal with this. I'll update your date once you know.

@imaginary8x It will happen. You are both fertile and able. I hope it comes quickly for you!

@momwithbabies I've read that it can take a day or two for the brown blood to leave the body after implantation. Perhaps it started earlier and the blood is just now leaving. Good luck!

@stephj25 I'm sorry. Take some time to pamper yourself. It will happen. I hope it's next month! I'll move you to TBA until you have a new date.

@mummy2o I hate when my temps get messed up! I think you're right though. Cd 5 should be early enough not to mess it up.

@kirstyjane13 I totally agree. It's hard to think about other things. However, when I am thinking about other things or with others it passes easier/quicker. But it's always there in the back of my mind.

@chulie Your description of af made me think of these photos I've seen before.

 

[Hopeful2014]

JUNE , HERE WE COME!!!

Ladies, Remember
1. That it's not over until AF comes
2. That many ladies get false negatives
3. That implantation happens 6-12 dpo
4. That we are here for you no matter what


June is here and we are ready for some more BFPs! Some of us got a BFP in May and we are starting to see BFPs in June! Some of us are continuing on our journey into June and July. I look forward to hearing more about the pregnancies already taking form and the upcoming pregnancies soon to be announced. We started this group in April-all with the same goal-wanting a BFP. Since then we have expanded on that goal. I want us to have a thread where we all know each other and can help each other along. I want to see a BFP blinking by each of our names. I want it to be a place we can look back on in time (while cradling baby!) and remember our struggle and and share our happiness. We will keep adding to the list from May and on until we can see everyone have that beautiful beside her name. Good luck and fingers crossed!

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